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happy valentine for the singles

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maraki16
, 02-14-2009 at 10:19 AM (2954 Views)
happy valentine's day! i want to give my best wishes to all the couples around the world, even if some claim that they do not celebrate because it is a commercial day. and yes i know that many people say that they do not need a special day in order to celebrate their love, and they are right. but really, who does so? few people remember to express their admiration and their love to the one they love. so this day is good for those who don't exchange cards full of sweet words, poems, declarations of love, teddy-bears, rings, flowers, chocolates or kisses under the light of candles everyday....
today i am really happy, because although i am single, i have three of my best friends who are not. and who are really happy with the one that has stolen their heart- or at least is still trying to still it what can i say, people don't fall head over heels for someone easily these days it must be due to the economic crisis- they want to save some feelings for a rainy day perhaps and i am also happy for everyone who has found his/her valentine!
but today is not only a celebration for couples....today we celebrate love. we celebrate the best that some people manage to bring out of us. we celebrate the act of being in love...not necessarily with a physical person, but with love itself. because love means life. love is life. and life is the expression of love- something a bit more philosophical i just thought but am not going to analyze here.

and now some piece of advice that i am sure most of you already know but do not really act according to: live for the moment and make some dreams for the future. enjoy the love that you now have. declare your feelings without thinking that you can do it in the future. because future is unpredictable and you might not be given the chance. don't feel vunerable in saying 'i love you'. it is probably one of the few things that can make us feel secure-not just with the person we are with, but with ourselves as well. make relationships that you feel that can have a future. i do not mean marriage. just future. relationships that can make you dream of being together tomorrow, or for ever. because that might mean that the one you have is the one for you. it might mean that you have found someone you can deeply love and thus, become a better person.
be with someone who makes you dream of tomorrow, and live with him like there is no tomorrow. love deeply, cause you deserve to feel your heart beating faster. love deeply cause we all deserve to hear someone's heart beat fast. cause everyone needs and deserves to feel the magic of love surrounding us.

if you love to love, then i certainly love you! and don't forget to send some flowers or a card to your beloved- they will adore you even more. and do not hesitate to express your love to someone that might not even know your existance- but i am sure they do. it is worth a try.

PS: thank you for the poem. it was so lovely. if i knew who you are, i would ask you to make me a marriage proposal (who are you really? i am SOOOO curious!!!!!!)
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  1. Shurtugal's Avatar
    yes, areon't these secret valentine's annoying! who wrote me this poem? it's annoying but flattering.
    and thank you for this kind post i appreciate.
  2. maraki16's Avatar
    yeah, it is strange how annoying things can be flattering at the same time
    you got a poem too?well, perhaps we have a lot of poets around here. or a poet with lust imagination imagine we received the same poem from the same person? now, that would be funny! i just hope it was from a guy....for i know i won't get an answer to this...
  3. Dori's Avatar
    What are we to do if we love someone, and they know it, but aren't willing to love you back?
    And you can't get over them?

    As you can tell, my Valentine's day has been just peachy...
  4. Joreads's Avatar
    Flattering first I think then annoying when you drive yourself mad trying to figure it out. Sometimes you just have to let go - I know easier said than done.

    Dori hang in there and Happy Valentine's day to you and everyone
  5. Virgil's Avatar
    Marvelous blog Mara. I enjoyed this. And to those that think it's all comercial, well, why is it that people feel obligated to give their love something special one day of the year? It's becasue we want to. Nobody is forcing us. We do it because we think it's a great idea. If you don't then don't participate.

    You also said this that made me laugh:
    what can i say, people don't fall head over heels for someone easily these days
    Oh I bet they still do. The econonmy does have any ties to our hormones.

    Here are some flowers for you Mara for being such a sweet young lady.

    http://img.123greetings.com/eventsne...06-12-1049.gif
  6. kiz_paws's Avatar
    be with someone who makes you dream of tomorrow, and live with him like there is no tomorrow. love deeply, cause you deserve to feel your heart beating faster. love deeply cause we all deserve to hear someone's heart beat fast. cause everyone needs and deserves to feel the magic of love surrounding us.
    Beautiful ... simply beautiful.

    I truly hope that you had a lovely Valentine's Day, Maraki. Your words hit home with me this evening; thanks for this entry!
  7. maraki16's Avatar
    thank you all guys. well, i enjoyed writing this entry myself. and virgil, thanks for the flowers, i adore yellow and orange roses! a friend called me yesterday to ask me if he should wish me a happy valentine's day. i said yes, and his reaction was 'oh, we have some news here? what has happened?'. but he was disappointed to find out that i had not found a boyfriend, i just told him i was celebrating love because i am not in love with a specific person but with love itself he tried to explain me i was wrong (well, he is head over heels for his girlfriend), but it was no good, i don't bite!
    but i had a really nice valentine's day. after all, it's the first time they send me a letter. two years ago, in highschool, a schoolmate proposed me with a ring. haha! hilarious moments!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  8. mtpspur's Avatar
    Your time will come in its proper time and you will be blessed indeed at the joy that shall result. Continue to grow into the special lady you already are and wait for God's perfect timing. You will not be sorry.
  9. maraki16's Avatar
    rich you think i am a special lady? what a gentleman! but it seems really easy to become a special lady then if you think i am one of them seriously, special? sounds awkward, sweet and funny to my delicate ears thank you. and i hope you had a great valentine's day together with your lady!
  10. mtpspur's Avatar
    Ok--bearing in mind the great age difference here my remarks to you are being based on a bit of experience with people in general and the darker regions of my own soul. But you are right--I should have qualified WHY you are special so here goes. It takes great courage and a sense of maturity to face the world and declare it a dark and lonesome place. To face your fears and weaknesses with such candor and sorrow (and yet with rays of hope if I may interpret it thusly) denotes a willingness to grow and change and make something of yourself raher then lay down and settle. Coupled with a talent for writing and expressing yourself concisely and with emotion makes you special (to me) indeed. Thank you for your Valentine wishes but we both worked that day but we manage to hang together in spite of ourselves sometimes.
    Updated 02-19-2009 at 08:42 PM by mtpspur