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Halls of the Dark Muse

Wonders Never Cease part II

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Just a quick recap for those who have not read the original blog entry, I have this other blog in which I posted an essay about the myth of Medusa, giving my own personal interpretation of the myth, and this guy posted a comment basically explaining to me why A. my personal perception of the myth is incorrect and B. Arguing against my right to even have my own personal interpretation of a work of mythology. And he followed his arguments with a completely unprovoked and uncalled for personal attack against me.

Well the saga continues:

After I addressed his insults against me, in a way to say the least was not so flattering, and yet still I think a step above his own level of maturity which he has displayed, he came back and apologized to me for in his own words his "below the belt attacks"

At first I thought, ah a glimmer of hope, that was quite unexpended and rather surprised, well you know what they say. If something seems too good to be true....

He then proceeded to respond to my acceptance of his apology with guess what? More random uncalled for out of place insults.

I of all people never thought I would be say this about another person, but I think someone needs to work on their people skills (and this time it actually isn't me, which is the scary part)

He has since then preceded to drop in on my blog periodically just to leave random antagonistic catty remarks.

And I tried to explain to him once, that if he found the material upon my blog so offensive to him, he didn't actually have to keep visiting it. He was free to stop viewing at it at any given time.

But I think I figured out what the problem is, actually I think it is one of two possibilities.

Either option A: He is like a child that establishes a pattern of bad behavior as a way of getting attention, because I cannot imagine how anyone could actually stand to be around the guy in real life so he must not have very many friends, so he just lashes out just to get a reaction from other people, because he doesn't have a life beyond apparently harassing blogs which he doesn't even like.

or option B: He is one of those people that in the real world doesn't' have the gall to stand up to himself, and probably has a job that he hates, or a wife that keeps him on a short leash, and so he hides behind the veil of anonymity on the Internet to try to bully people around who he doesn't actually have to confront as a way to make him feel like a man and like he is in control.

Comments

  1. TheFifthElement's Avatar
    Maybe he's flirting with you DM? Wouldn't be the first time a guy tried to catch a lady's attention by making a nuisance of himself.
  2. Dark Muse's Avatar
    Though not an impossiblity, he dosen't know the first thing about me, there isn't any personal info anywhere on the blog. He dosent' even have a way of knowing for certain that I am a woman, though my user name for the blog would suggest as much, that dosen't account for much on the internet.
  3. Virgil's Avatar
    Can you block him from your blog? He does sound like a jerk, someone with a personality problem.
  4. Dark Muse's Avatar
    Yes, I do have a way I can block him from posting, and I have considered doing so if I hear any more from him.
  5. qimissung's Avatar
    My son calls them trolls, people who apparently start trouble because they can, possibly because of the anonymity factor. Try to ignore him, if at all possible.
  6. Dark Muse's Avatar
    Hehe, well he has now been blocked so all his posts go directly into my spam folder. It was quite amusing, I had like 5 spam messages from him, as apperently he hadn't put things together and figured out why his posts weren't showing up and kept trying to resend them.
  7. qimissung's Avatar
    Serves him right, the little _______!(fill in blank with your own epithet here )
  8. AuntShecky's Avatar
    Could you post a link to your original blog about Medusa? All I could find was your
    graphic art on her, which by the bye was
    fabuloso! So this commenter took issue with the drawing or was there a text?