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My Daugher's First Bow: A Paddler's Tale

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Just two days ago, I took my four-year old daughter on her first father/daughter canoe trip. She handled the bow and I the stern. (I've paddled with her before, but she was always too young to sit in the bow, so my wife had to help maintain order and sanity in the boat by being both paddler and child-manager).

The Preparations
To a four-year old (as with most grown adults), the preparations are almost more exciting than the trip itself, as, in preparing for adventure mind and body are lifted from the hardships of road and stream into the airy ideals of romance.

What this means to a four-year old -- Here's our pre-trip checklist:

  1. gummy worms
  2. real worms (for fishin')
  3. a bag of cherries (more snacks)
  4. a thermos of lemonade
  5. 2 fishing poles (spinning combo for me, a Dora combo w/ hook & bobber for her)
  6. 2 canoe paddles
  7. 2 life vests
  8. swim suits (should we want to swim afterward)
  9. towels


Of these items, the gummy worms, worms, and lemonade were considered most important by all voyagers involved.

We chose to paddle a near-by lake (let's call it Boots Lake) that offered clear water, a convenient swimming beach, and plenty of bluegills for some fast fishin' action.

An aside: Here is what a blue-gill looks like (courtesy of Google images):



These fish above are voracious eaters whose love for the common fishing worm is unbounded by sense or common sense. These qualities, of course, make them a great "gateway" piscis for a healthy, lifelong fishing addition. End aside.

Our trip to the Boots lake was marked by questions about when we could "eat the gummy worms" and/or "drink the sweet drink". To which I answered, smiling, "after you catch your first bluegill."

When we arrived at Boots Lake, I carried the canoe to the landing and my daughter helped me carry the supplies to the shore, where she quickly took the opportunity to throw stones in the water. This activity I freely allowed as throwing stones into a calm lake or pond is a pleasure that will never die with age and should be encouraged whenever occasion or whimsy offers it. In the meantime, I made ready the boat.

"So" I said, "are you ready to sit in the 'mama seat'"?

She nodded proudly.

"Then get your paddle and let's go, " I said.

For the next 3 hours we (mostly I) paddled the entire circumference of Boots lake, stopping frequently to catch a bluegill or two, pass the bag of cherries to each other, using our canoe paddles as serving platters. And we drank lemonade from sturdy plastic camping cups -- mine was blue and hers was red.

Once, while on the north end of the lake, my daughter caught a small large-mouth bass, her first catch of this species. She was excessively proud, especially as I was whooping and hollering the great accomplishment.

Aside: here's what a large-mouth bass looks like (courtesy of Google Images):



I had her hold the fish by its mouth, which is the common method -- you hold it by pinching your thumb and index finger in its mouth, with the thumb in the mouth and the index finger out of the mouth. My daughter was skeptical of this method at first, as it seemed to present the risk of being bitten, but she mustered her courage and did it smashingly well.

In all, we spent from 9:00am to noon on the Boots Lake. She handled her bow with poise, good cheer, and pleasant conversation.

Field Notes
On our trip, we were fortunate enough to see a family of common loons sporting and diving in the clear water. Here's what they looked like (Google Images):



And we got wonderfully close to a great blue heron:



On our way home for lunch and a well-deserved nap, we started to prepare our next outing. . . . in this lengthy conversation only one thing was decided for sure: gum drops.

Updated 06-30-2009 at 12:15 PM by The Comedian

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  1. 1n50mn14's Avatar
    That is nothing short of a fantastic time! I'm a bit jealous . Sounds like you've got lovely scenery near by. You've got a great summer ahead of you for fishing outings.
  2. andave_ya's Avatar
    Awww, what an adorable day! I'm with Bec - what fun!
  3. applepie's Avatar
    That sounds like such a great trip, and so much fun to do with your daughter. My son is a good age for things like this at 6, but my daughter has another year or two. She'll not be three till September, and while she is physically adept at everything, I'm a bit nervous to take her out on too much. I love that the gummi worms were so important, I bet those were at the top of her list:D
  4. The Comedian's Avatar
    Thanks ladies for your kind responses.

    BeccaT -- it was a fantastic time; and yeah, I live in basically a tourist town, so there's lots of stuff like this to do.

    mkhockenberry -- fishing with young kids is really fun. I have a younger daughter too (2 years) and I often fish with both of them, but I make them share the Dora pole, so that I can control the amount of sharp and dangerous hooks being tossed about. :-)
  5. NikolaiI's Avatar
    Comedian, you are awesome!!! :D

    My father did good things and a couple mistakes in my childhood, but one of the best things was that we lived in the country with no Television... he wasn't against technology, but he was against advertising... I am so incredibly grateful for being allowed to skin my knees, climb trees, bike around, and a million other things involving plants, animals, etc.

    Anyway.. I am impressed and glad that you are doing things like this. :) If you don't mind my being impressed. :) I am glad because it's a really wonderful thing. (It sounds like it anyway.)

    And... I'll post this...generally I write about 5 times as many posts as I actually post, lol. I am shy even online, haha.
  6. Stargazer86's Avatar
    THat's so cool You should keep a journal or scrapbook or something documenting these things. That would be very special for her to have especially when she's an adult.
  7. prendrelemick's Avatar
    Sounds like one of THOSE days, unforgettable and very precious.