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Possible Disaster Minus 10 Months

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The day started off on a high note. The Long Suffering Spouse had been doing quite well with her new car payments these past three months while I have been coping with inheriting the other bills she was responsible for.

Note the word "had".

She starts with complaining about her paycheck tomorrow which is a pittance indeed what with cut hours and free internship hours taking up the income. I remind her that this is the week payment #69 of 72 is due.

Oh oh.

I'm getting the look.

And about to be blamed.

"I don't have it. I had to dip into it."

This is a little over $300 of dipping. How much does she have.

If you guessed $81 you were off by one.

I'm relatively calm but this just means I'll explode on Friday if I stick to my usual reaction time to unpleasant surprises that were somewhat avoidable.

I say goodby to a number of things. Avengers, DVDs, and potato chips. I begin to laugh.

Well of course a variation of I Told You So got mentioned. I remind her I'm stretched to the breaking point if not seamlike cracks. But by golly I'll get her through this one.

"Well that's what husbands are for!!"

This just brings to mind my past failures and I shrug them aside wondering if I'll ever forgive myself for certain things.

I sigh and get ready to clean up. Then a light beams forth. By helping her I am now entitled to a piece of the car. I begin singing--badly:

To the tune of Banana Boat Song:

Day!!! Day--O!!
Daylight come and I buy a rear fender.

Day!!! Day-Oh!!
Daylight comes and I own a right fender.

She finds an extra wallet that has $120 in it. That will help.

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Believe it or not (how cliche) THISwas NOT the worse news of the day. I was on a day off but I called Brandy (who knows ALL my secrets) to chortle when a bomb is dropped and my life is about to change -- again.

Not necessarily in a good way.

Miami Valley is being bought by the Cincinnati Club (which themselves got bought by New Hartford CT AAA a year or so back. There had been rumors of merging (with California for instance--they came and looked at us last year) but this is too close to home territory wise.

There will meetings later (this just happened today). Current info implies that I'll be gainfully employed through the end of the year though ownership changes in May apparently.

I freely confess I am far from ready for this--very far. The Drama Queen is frothing at the bit to get started. Ruth was at her clinic doing internship that's part of her college work. None of my boys were home to talk to and I didn't want to talk to Sandy. Both friends Jerry and Steve had voice mail and a certain moderator STILL won't give me her phone number.

This may work out fine in the long run. It may not. Stay tuned.

Updated 02-19-2009 at 10:06 PM by mtpspur

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  1. andave_ya's Avatar
    Oh my. Oh no...! That could be bad - I'll DEFINITELY be praying for you. and that had to happen with the car payments...
  2. Virgil's Avatar
    Oh I wish you the best Rich. I'm not sure I understand the second half. Is it that another company is buying yours and you fear losing your job? As to your wife, what are wives for if not stuff like that? Please women of lit net, I'm kidding; do not throw tomatos at me.
  3. 1n50mn14's Avatar
    This just brings to mind my past failures and I shrug them aside wondering if I'll ever forgive myself for certain things.
    I'm only 17 and not exactly equipped to advise you, particularily as I can't even follow my own advice... but just drop it. Make ammends for any past actions with new ones. Live and learn. The more you hold your past mistakes against yourself, the more likely you are to keep making new ones.
  4. mtpspur's Avatar
    Andave a--Yes pray I won't embarass myself by a cowardly lack of faith in God's providence. Virgil--AAA Clubs are vulnrable to takeovers by other clubs who have the money to buy us up. Travel has taken a hit since 9/11, we had a branch office burn down couple years back which insirance replaced and our stock investments have taken a hit I here. Now the Call Center is vulnerable because you can have one anywhere and make it functional. One of the two California AAAs recently killed thier call center(s) and shipped it out to either Nevada or Arizona--I saw the fax one of the calltakers found by accient as he grew up in California and was reading internet news one night. I'll know more in a few days but at my age my only real talent is showing up and not dying of the boredom. Basically if I can my bills and clea up my debts and read Avengers I amcontent with that. We had been threatened with a takeover so many years I had lost a sense of the real danger of it happening. Never thought Dayton Board of Directors would allow it. Sigh. Becca well said and heart taken. Most of brooding tends to keep the Drama Queen at bay bu tthere are reasons the Lord Christ died for sinners. Thank you for your care.
  5. pussnboots's Avatar
    Try to look at the bright side. You only have 3 payments left on the car.
    As for your job, hang in there and stop thinking about the worst. I've been thru quite a few takeovers in my old job and while it can be worrisome it worked out in the end. Hopefully it's just a takeover and not closing your office and moving it elsewhere.
  6. mtpspur's Avatar
    Actually a small correction--she has 69 payments LEFT to make at $308 a month. It was a 6 year plan.