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Remarkable

Naive...But complex...Isn't it?...

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Remarkable
, 01-03-2009 at 06:28 PM (2489 Views)
Today I went out with a friend of mine that is now in university,but used to be in my high school.For two years he was in the same class with the boy I loved(how dramatic)so I think ke knows me kind of...kind of very well...Today I realised what I had been suspecting for a long time:I still like THE guy.I though I had forgotten about him since my whole year was so busy,so interesting and so about me.I literally had no time to think about him(or any male,for that matter)no more.So it did feel a bit weird to finally know I still feel something.My friend says that it is normal,since you can't help to feel a little something when the subject of the great love of your life this far comes up.It feels like a step backwards though...Is it?

You see,last year,I kind of proposed to him.And it was exactly because I wanted to get over him that I did it.I knew he would say no,but hearing the answer kind of made me grow up emotionally and it was really helpful...But...Alas...Seemingly grown ups can be naive children once again...

So now I am confused...I don't know what to do...Because,you see,the thing is,there are several options...I can flirt discretely with him once again,I can flirt with other boys,I can just deal with school,which is proving to be a bit hard to deal with right now...But for me it is not very easy to decide...Because,you see,I was this very enthusiastic girl about high school when I met him;that far all my male friends were "punks" that picked fights,talked about cars and played football all day.He was special,intellingent,smart,obviously cultivated...But then,as time went by,as the blindness started wearing off from my eyes,I noticed that he was a person full of complexes,a bit too obsessed with clichees,maybe a tad prejudicial.It's me that's being complicated now,isn't it?

Yep,sorry for all this,I just can't keep a diary!
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  1. Virgil's Avatar
    Remarkable, you proposed marriage to him while you're in high school? You're right it's all so dramatic. So if you want advice (and I love to give advice so maybe you shouldn't ask ) if it's a choice between flirting with him, flirting with other boys (boy you like to flirt ), or trying to do well in school, forget the boys, all of them, and do well in school. Look you said this:
    all my male friends were "punks" that picked fights,talked about cars and played football all day.
    That is exactly what 99% of the boys your age are interested in, that and a quick roll in the hay. Even this perfect one that you're talking about, it's a facade. So this one likes art instead of football. Well, that doesn't mean he's different, just different interest. (Actually that might make him cultivated to some, wimpy to others. ) Boys don't start getting serious until at least 25, and even then it's not because they want to get serious. I tell all the young ladies here, forget boys and boy friends at your age. Your hormones are deceiving you. Concentrate on school, graduate, get a good job, and then the guy will come along. But that's only my opinion. No one has listened to me yet.
    Updated 01-03-2009 at 10:45 PM by Virgil
  2. mtpspur's Avatar
    Tell me about it Virgil. In full agreement with the grand-children to prove it.
  3. Remarkable's Avatar
    Hey!!!!!I didn't propose for marriage!I am crazy alright,but not THAT crazy!It was a proposal for a relationship,kind of "will you be with me".And it wasn't even an actual proposal,it was more like a declaration of love from the XVIII ceuntry.

    I agree with you in absolutely all you said Virgil,and I am very well aware that everything about him is a facade:he tries so hard to be a gentleman,an intellectual...But,you see,although you grown-ups(yep,this is a kid's phrase)think that when one is young one can't love,you are wrong.One can love and since one is so inexperienced and pathetic,one suffers a lot and does a lot of false steps.

    Also,about the 99% of "punks",well,that is exactly why I fell in with this particular guy,as I said before.Maybe I'm just a drama queen and can't live without a bit of pathos in my life...Maybe...
  4. Virgil's Avatar
    Well, when someone in my country says they proposed to someone of the opposite sex, the implication is usually marriage. At least for those in my generation. I don't know what the latest kid lingo is. And I take it it's no longer only for people of the opposite sex. Well, now I at least understand.
    Updated 01-04-2009 at 03:19 PM by Virgil
  5. Remarkable's Avatar
    Yes,I figured that out when I read your last comment.You see,it might be my mistake,since we have the same word for "proposition" in our language,with some small accent alterations,but its implication depends on the context of the conversation.However...