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Virgil

Travel Blues

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Well I'm back. Test went a day longer than expected. I must say traveling stinks. I've got a splitting headache, I had to sit next to a smelly guy on the plane, my luggage was almost the last one out, flight was late. You have to pay for food on the plane now and have to pay to check a piece of luggage. The whole day was wasted. It's a five hour flight but with a three hour time change added, my whole Saturday is shot. Plus I feel so bloated, I'm afraid to get on a scale and see how much weight I've gained. Of course my wife was ticked I was gone so long and that it got extended an extra day. What can I say? Work is not easy. Would she prefer I not work?


But there were positives. There was a snow storm at work Tuesday. Ha! Freezing back home while I was in 95F (35C) temperature, actually over 95F. But it was a dry desert 95 and it actually felt good. But they got around 12 inches of snow in October. Haha, thank God I was away. Commuting home must have been a mess. I only got to use the pool once but it was wonderful. Happy hour every night included free drinks (that's free alcoholic beverages ) and then eating out with the guys at a restaurant was usually a blast. But went straight to bed right after dinner (on days I didn't quickly check in on lit net ), too tired to even read much. I had brought a number of books to read and barely touched them other than on the airplane.

Days were long. I think it was typically working eleven hour days, and mostly outside in the heat. I've even got a nice little tan. And by then end of the week I was exhausted. I am still exhausted. But things went very well. I would say we achieved 90% of our goals and that's pretty satisfying.

I used to love to travel. There was a time when I was a young engineer when i was traveling half the month and sometimes in one stretch. I used to love to go to some part of the country I had never been and meet new folks and work on something or other for a project. Just get into an airplane and several hours later you were talking to some American with a different accent and working on something together. There was a guy I used to meet out in Arizona who was a cowboy. I'm not sure how else to describe him, other than to say he was what was left of real cowboys. He used to try to mess with my head. Heck I was a young hot shot engineer from back east and to him frankly a green foot. We got into some tussles but in the end he was a good guy. While he tried to show me up in person he made me look good to my bosses back home. I remember riding in a pick up truck with him in the Arizona desert for miles and miles, up and down those desert washes that have formed these dramatic dips, and he would smoke his cigarettes and make a point of never wearing a safety belt. I guess this was before wearing safety belts was the law, but that would not have made a difference with Jim. He said it probably made sense to wear it but he irked that some government official was telling him how run his life. That was how he was and he told me about his fishing and hunting. He was particularly into hunting elk. Well I from New York never did any of that but I was in awe of it. He tought me lots, not so much work related but in being yourself. Well, I found out a few weeks ago Jim passed on. Lung cnacer and only 62. Knowing Jim he wouldn't have changed a thing. Thanks for everything Bud.

Well, I'm back. I probably missed a bit, even though I checked in every so often.
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  1. Sweets America's Avatar
    I can understand your wife when she's not happy with you being gone even if that's not your fault. But hey that means she loves you quite a bit! That was sad about Jim, losing someone you appreciated so much. I liked your description of him.
  2. mtpspur's Avatar
    You paid a very fine tribute to your friend Virgil. May he rest in peace.
  3. TheFifthElement's Avatar
    Virgil I sympathise! I hate traveling too, especially when traveling for work - people think it's really exciting, romantic, they sulk like they're missing out. But really it's long days, it's all work, you're usually in a rubbish place and if you're not you don't see it 'cos you're working. All forms of transport are unreliable (especially on the home journey you'll notice!). I'm traveling increasingly for work and I find that for a couple of days afterwards I'm completely wiped out, physically and mentally. I guess I'm just a lightweight. It's good to know I'm not the only one I must admit it puts me off traveling for pleasure purposes: holidays and that. I'd love to go to Japan but I'm resolved that if I ever go it will be for a six month stint, to make the extensive travel worthwhile.

    I loved the description of your friend. He sounds like the kind of guy who was worth knowing. At least he lived, really lived. So many people are scared of doing that.
  4. motherhubbard's Avatar
    I'm glad you're back, Virgil. I'm also glad that you got so much done.
  5. NikolaiI's Avatar
    Maybe drinking lots of water would help. Good luck.
  6. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks for your comments all. I'm now in a cranky stage and my poor wife (and my mother earlier) are feeling the brunt of it. Nik, I do make sure I drink plenty of water when I fly. It is very dry on airplanes and it's supposed to help with jet lag.
  7. LadyWentworth's Avatar
    You went away? I have been without a computer for a few days (I was only able to check things down at my brother's - not a lot of time was spent online there). So I have no idea what is going on around here. Well, glad to hear that you have made it back safely. I actually did wonder about you when I heard about that snow. But you missed it. So I guess the wondering was pointless. Do you ever actually get a lot of reading done with the books that you might take with you? I have brought a book along when I go out of town, but I never read it. I am always just too tired by the end of the day.
  8. Sarasvati21's Avatar
    I love traveling, but it is always great to come home, too. The flight back may have been bad, but hey, at least you got a tan, right?
    Your friend sounds like he was a great guy; I think he would have been pleased to read what you said about him.
  9. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks Lady Went and Sara. I used to love to travel when I was young. I had never traveled as a youth that I could remember. I had not been out of the New York area until after college I think, other than a drive for a few days somewhere. Then traveling got into my blood for a while and I enjoyed seeing new places even if I had to work. America is so vast and different that it's an adventure to where ever one goes. Yes I do get reading done, especially on an airplane. What else can you do on a plane but read.

    Now Jim was a good guy but he did have rough edges. Very rough edges. He was definitely a man's man and lived that way. I think he was divorced at least twice if not three times. I completely understand why. And he liked to drink. You had to push back in order for him to get your respect. Nonetheless he had a good heart for people.
    Updated 11-03-2008 at 08:51 PM by Virgil
  10. Janine's Avatar
    Yes, nice tribute to your friend - he sounded like a good guy, a 'character'; someone you will think about forever. I like people who are different like that as though they are from bye-gone era, especially in the West - the part of the old West that is now dissolving. Wow, you knew a real cowboy. That is cool.

    I can imagine that traveling gets tired after awhile. I don't think I could put up with much now. I would hate the way it is on planes, now that everything has become more of a hassle to travel. It just to be fairly easy and nice, but I am leary now of going anywhere by plane. I guess I am just a stick-in-the-mud now and like to stay local.

    Glad your tests went well and at least you got some sun and a few good meals in. That part sounded like fun.
  11. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks Janine. Actually he's not the only cowboy type I known. I say type because none of them really did anything with cattle, but you know what I mean. I know another cowboy up in washington state. Just emailed me the other day that one of horses, one he's had over twenty years, passed away. I think that type of man is fading away with the times.
  12. LadyWentworth's Avatar
    Yes, I suppose that is true about the plane. But then again I am generally driving when I go away somewhere. So it is highly unlikely that I would be reading a book during my actual traveling time.