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Diary Of A Shadow

She stood me up.

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Mr Hyde
, 10-22-2008 at 12:19 PM (5349 Views)
There I was calling the latest girl I've been interested with the feeling that somehow this one would be different.

( Boy wasn't that complete BS and garbage.)

( This happens everytime too. I fall head over heels for women very stupidly only to be betrayed.)


Basically either she didn't pick up the phone or she stood me up with the knowledge that I was going to call her 3pm.

I even left two replies on her answering machine telling how I myself have a answering machine too in which she could leave a message for me if somthing came up that didn't allow her to talk to me.

Did she leave a reply on my answering machine for me to reply with later?

No she did not.

What is with women giving men their phone numbers only to not talk to the them when they call?

I much prefer a woman to tell me to f*ck off in person by telling me that they want nothing to do with me than for them to not say anything at all in dead silence.

What a complete lack of f*cking respect.

I'm tired of being nice and respectful to women only for them to act like complete b*tches in return.

And women wonder why I don't have a very high opinion of them.

( This will be the third time I have been rejected by a woman in the past two months.)

I'm done chasing women for awhile.

The money I saved up for dinner this weekend on the date I thought I was going to have I think I'll just spend on the liqour store down the street this afternoon.

Updated 10-22-2008 at 12:32 PM by Mr Hyde

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  1. mtpspur's Avatar
    I know it's rough. But not all ladies are that way and a great many of them are well worth the knowing. For the record I was 29 when I married and had essentially given up. Save your money for more productive things. They are out there-just takes time. A lot of the ladies I would try to meet found me just a bit toooo eager and that put them off a bit. I KNOW you're not trying to be that way but ladies pick up on the subliminals better then guys. I would wait three more days and try the phone one last time to see if it was a timing issue---ladies have their lives to. With respect Rich
    Updated 10-22-2008 at 05:45 PM by mtpspur
  2. pussnboots's Avatar
    I agree with Rich. Give it a few more days and see what happens.
  3. Logos's Avatar
    oh, sorry to hear it! But you really don't know why this happened... don't they work at the library you go to? do you know which area of it they work in? maybe you could just casually show up and try to see if she would talk to you and explain
  4. Anza's Avatar
    Good call, Logos. I agree.
    Just cool your heeels-- we like what we think we can't have.
  5. Niamh's Avatar
    I also agree with logos.
    But make sure you do it rather casually. Dont want to be seen to be stalking. Nicely and patiently ask her for an explaination and if she gives you one thats not very satisfactory, like she was... i dont know, combing her hair, then tell that you had liked her, and that if she wasnt interested that she shouldnt have encouraged you and then walk away.
    You never know, she may actually approach you the next time you see her with an apology and a sugestion of coffee.
    Just give it a chance before over reacting, and as Anza said, cool the heels.
  6. Virgil's Avatar
    Wel, that's too bad. I must say trying to find a romantic interest is not the most fun thing in the world. Thank God I've been married, oh how many years is it? I forget.
  7. Niamh's Avatar
    I bet you she doesnt virgil!
  8. Virgil's Avatar
    I bet you she doesnt virgil!
    I know she doesn't. Lucky for me a had a nice blog on our anniversary. So she knows I remember. But if I hadn't written that blog, you can bet your bottom dollar I would be in the dog house.
  9. maraki16's Avatar
    please do me a favour: DO NOT, i said DO NOT! go to buy any alcochol!you boys drink a lot when you are not in a good mood. and it is no good!!!!!!!!as for the...lady we called her?right.well, she might have had a lot of things to do indeed, but i would at least be kind enough to sent an sms if i did not want to call. she could call...either before the date or after...for that there is no excuse...but just don't get it so hard. as far as i can understand, you have not been knowing her for a long time. so if you are not head over heels for her...i don't see what is the problem...
    and stop being nice and respectful will be of no good. if a guy would not respect me, i would think the worse of him.we all have to treat others the way we would like to be treated.now if you have not found the right one to get along with, and you like them but they don't have the same feelings for you, then they are not the right ones for you.don't get disappointed about that. just try to understand a little more if someone is attracted to you and know her a little better before asking her for a date. that way, you won't get disappointed again. and don't be so pessimistic. i believe you deserve a better treatment.
    oh!and something about the title of your blog:i don't like the 'invisible man' at all. there is no man that is invisible, unless you are an experiment from'spiderman'becoming a reality. or if you have a size of a smurf. if you are either the one or the other, then ok. i have no other objections. but something tells me that you are even taller than 1 meter so...there is no way you might be invisible!!!!!
    with respect, mary