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My Grandfather

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I realized just know I never fully said anything about the death of my grandfather. He lived in KY so I hardly saw him except for the three years I lived there two years ago. He had this thing where he said he would die this year because no "insert my last name which I would rather not give to the internet" man has lived past the age of 70. Well, he was right. Though we always said he would be wrong. He died in a motorcycle accident. No one knows the specifics. All I know was he was found in a ditch on the side of the rode after being there for a day and a half. He died of chest injuries. Anyways, I loved him but really didn't know him. And I still can't believe he is dead even after all these weeks. It is possible this is because I haven't been to KY to realize that when I go I won't see him. Maybe it is possible because there was no funeral. I don't think it will really hit me when I go to visit KY or when Christmas comes around and no card is sent to him or from him to me. Or when fall comes and I don't receive my annual fall leaf in the mail, which he sends because he knows how much I love and miss fall colors. In his will (which ironically he made a week before he died) I received Tipsy, a horse I used to love riding. But a horse doesn't do much good in California when you don't have enough backyard to call it a yard. And so we lied. There was this cousin of mine who used to spend every summer with my Grandad and would ride Tipsy every day, loved Tipsy and my grandfather. She was always closer to him than I was. But he didn't leave he anything. I was always sort of the apple of his eye. But since she has a farm, and the money to mantain a horse, and was very close to grandfather, and has ADHD among other things, we lied and said he left it to her. No harm done. And it is the fact that he gave it to me that counts for me not the actual horse. So yah. That is the story of my Grandad. He was a great guy. A genius actually. He invented all these computer things worth millions but his partner (who really did nothing) sort of weaseled him out of all the money. It was pretty sad. But he didn't mind. He still had enough to keep his farm and horses so he was happy.He really liked to do manual work on the farm more than sit at home. He used to drive my brother and I in the back of his pick up truck and we would get soft serve ice cream.
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  1. motherhubbard's Avatar
    it's nice to hear stories about your grandfather. He sounds like a really interesting guy. I'm sorry about his death. I think it will be more real later when your traditions don't happen.
  2. pussnboots's Avatar
    Your grandfather loved you very much. Remember that he will always be close to your heart. It was nice of you to give the horse to your cousin. I'm sure your grandfather wouldn't have minded. The first year will be hard but over time things get better.
  3. Anza's Avatar
    He loved you. Know that.
    It is not easy to take the passing of a loved one... my grandaddy died three years ago, and it still hurts like a fresh wound. And it will. You have to be strong though, and the pain will die away, and leave but the memories behind.
  4. Virgil's Avatar
    Oh that is sad Adoreo. He sounds like a great man. Too bad he had to go in that way. I've said this elsewhere but let me say it again. I think motorcycles are extraordinarily dangerous. In a car, you've got metal all around, safety belts, air bags, and still people die, though I think less and less with all the good design that goes into cars these days. But in a motorcycle you've got nothing. Nothing. And you're going the same speed. Any accident will have deadly consequences. My sympathies Adoreo.
  5. AdoreroDio's Avatar
    To Virgil- normally he would ride around in his truck but if it was a short trip to save gas he would ride his motorcycle. And knowing his health and after the autopsy it is possible that he had a heart attack and that is why he crashed. The people nearby didn't hear any other cars around the time the accident happened, only a single crash, as if he just ran into the side of the rode. So am with you motorcylces are unsafe but the motocycle wasn't the cause of death persay for my grandfather (especially knowing how slow he drives [: )
  6. Virgil's Avatar
    That's good to know Adoreo. I wasn't criticizing your grandfather in any way in case that crossed your mind. I was only trying to warn anyone that might be reading this. Poor man. It's too bad he had to lay in that ditch for that long.
  7. kiz_paws's Avatar
    AdoreroDio, I am very sorry to hear of this sad news. I think that pussnboots said pretty much what I'd have said. And know that I am thinking of you. Take care, K♥zzo