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Anza is deeply depressed

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No, it is not David. There's a little old woman who lives across the street from us by the name of Miss Perry-- "Miss" because her husband died years ago. Every time I think about her, or see her checking the mail and such in her forlorn, outdated clothes something inside of me weeps. The thing is that it's so much worse when I don't see her. You see, every holiday there appears a card or gift on our front steps like clockwork. Miss Perry delivers flowers, too, when her confederate roses bloom. She cares so well about others, but I'm not sure there's a soul in the world who cares about her.
I think I shall bake her something tomorrow morning, and maybe make a pitcher of iced tea and pay her a visit. I've meant to for quite some time-- on Mother's day when not a single car pulled up to her driveway, at Valentine's day when her clockwork-timed card appeared, at the beginning of spring, when her roses materialized as usual. But I never got around to it. A failed excuse, I'm sure, which is part of why it depresses me so.
I remember when I was little and one Saturday all my chores were through. As I was playing in the front yard with Sunny and Daddy did yard work a strange woman appeared. She was grandmotherly, and wore her same sad clothes. Daddy gave her an excuse that we had chores to do and ushered us inside. "She could talk all day" he warned. But even at that age I saw no danger-- no need of warning. She was only lonely; left out in the rain and reaching out to anyone who would care.
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  1. Bakiryu's Avatar
    that is sad. Poor old woman, nursing memories of her faded youth into the darkness of old age like gray skies.
  2. motherhubbard's Avatar
    I think it would be lovely for you to give her a visit. There are only two women on my road, about five miles long, that aren’t widowed and I enjoy their company very much. They help me with things I don’t know how to do and I’ve really learned a lot from them. Let us know how things go tomorrow.
  3. motherhubbard's Avatar
    Now that I’ve said that I’m reminded of Diane. She was an old spinster woman that I befriended and regretted. I would clean her home, take her to do laundry, have her to my home for holidays… She ended up really taking advantage. A very needy woman. She would call the police dept. 30 times a night when I worked there and when I changed jobs and worked in the emergency room she would call there. I can’t tell you how horribly that all ended. You might be careful the first couple of visits and see how things go.
  4. mtpspur's Avatar
    I have a lady my mother's age across the street. I have never been inside her home but we have talked just a few minutes at a time on her porch every now and then. After five years she finally asked my name. I rarely offer my name unless asked--just never came up. I bring her mail to her occassionally and sometimes shovel her driveway. Her children are local and keep cose watch on her. There is stray cat she feeds that will let me pet him ONLY when she is on the porch. So long winded way of saying your neighbor might welcome a visit. Very much.
  5. Virgil's Avatar
    She sounds like an old southern lady. Do something nice for her and tell us how it goes. Mother-H, I think you went too far with cleaning her house and doing her laundry. Bringing cake and having tea and chatting is one thing, but doing their chores is beyond being nice.
  6. pussnboots's Avatar
    Anza, I think that would be very nice of you. You are a very thoughtful person. Let us know how it goes.
  7. Anza's Avatar
    It is raining like Hell's fury out here-- another thunderstorm, I won't be able to make it out to see her...
  8. Sweets America's Avatar
    I would say 'go, go, go!!' and bring her a cake, yes, that would be so sweet.
  9. mtpspur's Avatar
    And the umbrella industry sighs at another lost sale.
  10. Anza's Avatar
    Spur... it was pouring and lightning struck outside of my house... and I is escared of unna (Translation:I'm scared of thunder)
  11. mtpspur's Avatar
    I knew I should have put the smiley up. I was just remarking to the long suffering one that I have been with100 yards from lightning strikes within the past three years (home and work) and wondering if God is hinting about something. I was attempting a joke. Can you imagine what my poor wife has to listen to day after day? Love Rich
  12. Shurtugal's Avatar
    ah, the poor lady... you should go visit her, i'm sure you'll enjoy it and for her it will mean moutains.
  13. 's Avatar
    anza your heart is good and it sees a side of things not many see and the world is blessed to have you on it
  14. motherhubbard's Avatar
    I'm just wondering how this turned out