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Virgil

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Hey i haven't updated you on Mom in a while. Sorry about that. It's been two weeks since she got discharged from rehab place. In a way her stay there was pleasant. She really got to interact with a lot of people. Mom tends to like to stay to herself. And at home she doesn't see many people other than family. But at rehab she made friends with the other patients and the staff. And she loved playing bingo. She had never played before, but she would so over joyed when the activities person came around. The activities person would give the winner of the games 50 cents as a winning for each game. It's just a token amount. The money would get donated, and I even gave the activities a few dollars donation, especially after I kept seeing my mother win so often. She came home with 15 dollars or so of bingo winnings. She was proud of it.

When she got out she was kind of wobbly on her feet without a walker or crutches. But she was pretty good with them. They made one big mistake at rehab. My mother has a thyroid probem which is controled with medication. She has taken 125mcg of synthroid for the several years. When she went into the rehab I checked over her meds and they were giving her two synthroid pills, one 100mcg and one 25mcg. I asked why did they do it this way, and they said it was easier for them. Ok. But at discharge they only listed her synthroid at 25mcg. I pointed it out but that's what was in their records. Somewhere along the line they screwed up her dosage. I bet it was when she was in and out of the hospital for the blood clot. The more you transfer the more likely they are to make a mistake.

So it must have been a couple of weeks she was getting the wrong dosage. She seemed ok at the time. It takes a little time for one to feel the lack of the medication. I figured I would get her to her doctor as soon as possible. Unfortunately I couldn't get an appointment right away and had to wait a whole week. During that week she finally started feeling the lack of thyroid function, run down, aches and pains, and severe chills. She's now had the correct dosage for a week and she seems to be better each day.

Tuesday was also the orthopedist visit. He was very satisfied with her progress. He showed me the x-ray and you could see the titanium artificial hip. The cut the top of the bone off, bore out the leg bone and insert a spike into it with that has the ball part of the hip on top. My mother was fascinated looking at and she was trying to feel it under her flesh. Doctor also told no gardening but she should start walking with a cane now. She needs to do more walking to get the mulsces stronger. She's now where she doesn't seem wobbly at all. But she still feels around for something to hold on to. I think she's doing good though.

She says she's not doing any gardening but I've already caught her doing stuff, like taking out seeds and putting some in potted plants. I can't stop her. She incorrigible.

Anyway that's it. I wish I could find a way for her to interact with more people. Her personality came out at the rehab place. It was very good for her.
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  1. mtpspur's Avatar
    This was welcome news. Glad she got a taste of a social life and enjoyed the time in rehab (all things considered of course). This liftsa load off your mind I'm sure.
  2. Janine's Avatar
    That is great news! I am glad she is doing so well, Virgil. How about suggesting a senior citizen's group in her community. I know we have one in my town and the members just love it. They play lots of bingo! It is a good way to interact. Older adults need that or they end up getting depressed. Heaven forbid that ever happens to me, since I am kind of a natural interacter. Now my mother could use the interaction; she only gets it at her church. What a difference in her mood, days she goes to their functions; otherwise she can get real dull and I think, depressed at times. 'People need people' and glad to see your mother found that out in her rehab. Hope she stays in touch with some of the friends, she made there.
    That will be a worry about the gardening and this is the time of year for that, unfortunately. I hope she restrains herself some and does not persist in trying to garden full-tilt. She could hurt herself, being unsteady on her feet. I feel for you, in that respect. Mom's can be stubborn sometimes and it gets worrisome.
  3. 's Avatar
    Glad that your mom is doing so well.
  4. pussnboots's Avatar
    isn't there a local church by you that has Bingo? I am sure she would like that
  5. sprinks's Avatar
    It's good to hear your mom is doing well! I hope she continues to get better.
  6. ampoule's Avatar
    I am very happy to hear your mom in enjoying the company of others. They say good can come out of anything. As with your mom and rehab, my mom has had to reach out for others since my Dad's passing nearly two weeks ago. They were married for a very long time and as she said, joined at the hip. I was worried for her but she's a spunky gal.
  7. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you all. I may try to take her to the bingo game that the church has. Only thing is she doesn't speak english well. I wonder if there are other children (I'm hardly a child, but i am my mother's child) helping their parents at the bingo game.
  8. Petrarch's Love's Avatar
    Glad to hear your mom's making a recovery and pulling in the big winnings at Bingo. I'll continue to keep her on my thoughts and prayers list as she continues to convalesce.
  9. motherhubbard's Avatar
    I read this the other day, but didn't have time to comment. I'm glad to hear that your mom is doing so well. Just think what would have happened if you hadn't kept up with her meds! She's lucky to have you!
  10. B-Mental's Avatar
    I'm glad to hear the rehab went well. There seems to be something about Bingo and aging. I can't put my finger on it. I hope she contiues to heal well, don't forget it will take almost a year or more for her to be completely healed (or as healed as she will get). Take her for walks or what not. B
  11. Erichtho's Avatar
    Just wanted to say thank you for welcoming me. It's wonderful to see that you take good care of your mother - so many people don't. I'm from Germany, btw.
  12. kiz_paws's Avatar
    I am really glad to hear that the medication mix-up is remedied, we had a similar circumstance with my mother-in-law, so it is really frustrating to know that these things do happen. At least in both our cases, it was a positive ending. Your mother and her gardening -- that really makes me smile! And I really hope that you can get her out to bingo -- aging people often have a 'helper' with them -- my grandmother couldn't have gone without the help of one of us (so we all had a GO at the Bingo, ha ha!). So you have fun and give your mother a hug! Kizzo
  13. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks again to all. Yes, B-M I'm anticipating a year. But every day she seems to be walking better. And thanks Kizzo. Perhaps I will be her helper. Oh and mistakes like that with drugs happen all the time. I learned when my father was ill. It was amazing how often it happens. People are human and make mistakes. And a patient doesn't usually have the where-with-all to keep on top of it. A family member needs to take responsibility for primary care giver.
  14. kiz_paws's Avatar
    And a patient doesn't usually have the where-with-all to keep on top of it. A family member needs to take responsibility for primary care giver.
    Amen to that!
  15. GrayFoxDown's Avatar
    I'm behind on this, but I'm happy to read that everything is going favorably with your mother and that's she's doing better. I wish her well. I lost both my parents: my mother, in 1990, died from breast cancer; my father, in 1992, died in his sleep from heart failure. I still miss them very much...I understand your concern, Virgil. Good Luck.