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This week has certainly taken its toll on my head, let me tell you. There has been a lot of zany and unexpected things that have happened in my 'real life' that have rendered me not too close to my computer. Ergo, I am way behind in the blogs, the poetry, and all of it. Sorry to all you bloggers, who I love to keep up-to-date on.

But anyhow, these silly problems of mine are very pale next to what happened this morning.

My cousin was killed in a car crash this morning. I don't have any details except this blunt reality. She is gone. I am basically in shock.

My cousin and her husband and daughter resided in Florida. She was on her way to work when it happened ...

I wanted to write something, like a poem, a few haiku -- but my mind is blank when it is numb. So please read these words from a master poet, and after reading, reflect on this little flicker of reality that we call life. Here one minute, gone the next. From a cornflake bowl in the sink to a fatal crash .... I'll stop now, but I can't turn off my head.


"Death be not proud, though some have called thee"

John Donne

DEATH be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadfull, for, thou art not so,
For, those, whom thou think'st, thou dost overthrow,
Die not, poore death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleepe, which but thy pictures bee,
Much pleasure, then from thee, much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee doe goe,
Rest of their bones, and soules deliverie.
Thou art slave to Fate, Chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poyson, warre, and sicknesse dwell,
And poppie, or charmes can make us sleepe as well,
And better then thy stroake; why swell'st thou then;
One short sleepe past, wee wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; death, thou shalt die.


Herbert J.C. Grierson, ed. (1886–1960). Metaphysical Lyrics & Poems of the 17th C. 1921.

Judi made me a stuffed toy doggy, with tartan cloth -- real cute. I am going to sleep with it tonight.

K♥z
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  1. Granny5's Avatar
    I'm so sorry, Kiz. My prayers are with you and all of her family.
  2. Sweets America's Avatar
    That is terrible news, Kiz. It is so horrible to lose a loved one. Hugs.
  3. 's Avatar
    Kiz, I'm so sorry to hear this. The death of someone close is always hard to bear, but when it comes unexpectedly it it especially harsh. My thoughts are with you. Hugs - Fifth
  4. Niamh's Avatar
    Oh god! thats so sad Kiz! I'm saying a prayer for your family. you are in my thoughts.* gives Kiz huge hug*
  5. PrinceMyshkin's Avatar
    My sympathies, darling Kiz, and how well I understand your use of the word "gone." "Death, dead," are somehow so abstract, but "gone" is how I think of my late brother and sister, as if they were absent, away, AWOL!
  6. applepie's Avatar
    Your in my thoughts Kizzo, and I'll pray for their family. Much love, Meg
  7. motherhubbard's Avatar
    Kiz, I read this this morning and I still haven’t been able to think of anything to say. You’ve been on my mind all day and I’m so sorry. It’s a shame to loose someone young and unexpectedly like that. My greatest sympathies to you and your family.
  8. Shalot's Avatar
    I am so sorry. You're in my prayers, as well as the little child who lost her mother.
  9. 1n50mn14's Avatar
    I hate it when other people say "I'm Sorry", but I am sorry for your loss.
  10. mtpspur's Avatar
    Oh my dear friend Kiz, I meant to write you yesterday but got waylaid. There are no words that can pretend to fully understand your loss and the timing etc. but you are in my heart and prayers and please please remember that our loved ones are loans from God to be cherished before and after the repayment of their time to us. I would spare you pain if I could but grieve well and purely dear friend. I shall keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Love Rich
  11. ampoule's Avatar
    Please accept my condolences also.
  12. Captain Pike's Avatar
    We live out life as if it will never end. The things I worry about, bills, kids... the usual stuff; and then a thing like this happens. Often I think things that start out like "if only I had ...". I live my life as though I could always: apologize, say I love you, thank you... as if the people would always be around for when I got good and ready to be nice. Kiz, you seem like a person who makes the time to be nice -- I'll bet your cousin knew you loved her.
  13. kiz_paws's Avatar
    Friends, your responses have left me misty. Thank you all for your kind thoughts. Love K♥z
  14. pussnboots's Avatar
    my condolences to you and your family
  15. Virgil's Avatar
    My sympathies Kiz. That is so tragic.
  16. aeroport's Avatar
    How words do seem to fail, presented with death... You have my deepest sympathies, KP. I hope you are holding up alright.