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Brain Fart

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grace86
, 02-26-2007 at 02:47 PM (1688 Views)
Forgive me the title of this blog. But I guess that is exactly what it is I am writing...a brain fart.

I cannot say I know exactly what I am writing about, probably just venting. Life is so busy I don't have time for people, and when I do I seem to just be upsetting them all for the same reason, and I am not even doing anything. Perhaps it is this "not doing anything" that is upsetting so many friends.

Everyone has said that I am too busy even for myself. Maybe if I did put some time in for myself, I could figure out how to not upset people by "not doing anything" and come up with things to do.

Afraid I have upset someone on LitNet, said member says I didn't, but the member did react in the way that everyone else has in the same situation. Again I heard the same remarks, and so again I feel I have upset someone (or disrupted the equilibrium) by my "not doing anything" way of making someone upset.

But then maybe I just think too much and no one is as upset at me as I think. I just kind of feel like a recording...everyone hears the same story...and I never produce any new results. But I don't know what I am expecting exactly.

Mindless ramble over for now.
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  1. mtpspur's Avatar
    I believe if people are upset with you is because you spoil them. You are one of the kindest considerate young ladies I know and I'ld trade you for Jim's first wife anyday except he noticeably improved with the new daughter-in-law. His loss. Busy is busy and people are people and it's very hard to balance responsibilities to yourself and others. It sorts out eventually. Hang in there and read Job for awhile for perspective. As always presneted with affection and respect.
  2. grace86's Avatar
    Thanks for the perscription...Job sounds like it could help. And thank you for your compliments, they are an uplifting reminder.
  3. kathycf's Avatar
    Grace, I often worry if I have upset people, in all sorts of situations. I think you did the best you could (without me knowing the full circumstances). If the person says they aren't upset, then they must be aware of your concern, and I think that is all you can do in this situation, so you must accept their response. I tend to drive myself a little crazy about stuff like this. Try not to do that to yourself...(easier said than done, I know).