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Away with the Fairies- The Travel Diary of an Irish WebFairy

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So many things have happened over the last few days.
Thurs- me and my sister started looking for an apartment to buy.
Fri- viewed and apartment we really liked
Sat- viewed more apartments, put offer in on one we liked. Sale agreed
Sun- Sisters boyfirend breaks up with her. She had gone over to him sat night, hung out with him and his pals, had drinks, stayed in his and slept with him. next morning, made him breakfast. hour later he dumps her. Jerk. If you knew you were going to break up with someone you DONT have sex with them the night before. Now she feels like she has been used. rightly so.
mon- sister cancels meeting to pay deposit on apartment. get home from work and my mam breaks even more bad news to me. One of my other sisters threw her husband out on sunday because as it turned out, he'd been having an affair with a 27 year old for the last six months. Me and all my sisters went out to her last night. her two sons where asleep. they are clueless to it all. the husband is now staying with the other woman and my older sister is extremely upset. Turns out hes a big gambler. got the morgage for the house taken out of her bank account each month for the last six years because she couldnt trust him with the joint account.
tues- sister goes and cancels bid on apartment because shes confused. other sister coming out with boys.
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  1. pussnboots's Avatar
    That sucks! I feel for both your sisters and your nephews. How old are the boys ? All you and your mom can do at this point is be there for them.
  2. Virgil's Avatar
    Wow, two twins owning the same apartment. Boy is that going to confuse anyone ringing the doorbell. Sorry to hear about all the other bad news. Let's hope it works out.
  3. kiz_paws's Avatar
    Wow, that is bad news indeed. I really hope that something good comes soon. I also feel that it is great that your family is rallying around your poor sister. Hope that the boys adapt well to being apart from that lout they called a father, shame on him!! Take care, Niamh, I am thinking of you.
  4. Niamh's Avatar
    the boys are six and seven. Brought them to the shops and park today so my sister could try and rest. They dont know about it at the moment but they will notice eventually. He has fecked off to stay with the other woman but is insisting that he'll be there to put them to bad at night. We all wonder how long that is going to last. She is the second sister of mine whos other half left for another woman. My second eldest sister when through it twelve years ago and ended up raising my niece more or less on her own. He only saw my niece on sundays. my twin on the other hand is going to go to manchester for a couple of days to stay with friends. Lets just say my opinion of men has deminished abit. I'm just so upset for my two sisters.
  5. Shalot's Avatar
    my thoughts are with your sisters. some men are no good at all.
  6. Niamh's Avatar
    Ha! you can say that again!!
  7. LadyWentworth's Avatar
    Oh, how bad that all is! And it all happened in such a small time span, too. Well, I do hope all works out well with your sisters. I am sorry to hear it! Yes, some men can be quite cads!! Although, at this rate, I am starting to think most men are! Well, you know that I will be thinking about you and your sisters.
  8. 's Avatar
    That is horrible Niamh. Best wishes and hopes for your family during these hard times. <hug>
  9. Niamh's Avatar
    Thanks everyone! Its really gotten me down these past few days. and my boyfriend hasnt been much help. he even asked me if i was thinking of breaking up with him.... like seriously. Two of my sisters are broken hearted, my family is in bits and he asks me that! And he asks me because of what has been going on. Are men thick or something. (sorry to all the men out there. Just very bitter towards your sex at the moment.) When women are upset is there a little switch in their brain that flicks "to ask silly questions and go on like a prat"? Thank god i'm back in work tomorrow!
  10. Anto Magann's Avatar
    Oh thats horrible Niamh,

    Yea its sad when a family falls apart. but life goes on