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Bits of this and that today

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Today was one of those days that was a bunch of different things. It started out amazing. The kids were well behaved this morning, and today was one of the days that my son goes to a sitter for a couple of hours. It gives me a much needed break and he gets some time to play with other kids. So, all was good. He went to the sitter, I ran errands with Victoria. The sitter can't take her, because they can only watch two kids under the age of two. That went alright.

I was trying to find a copy of Midnight's Children on the island, and it is not to be found. The library has copies, but all three are checked out. I'm sixth in line for the hold, but with only three copies it means that I'll not have the book until well after the August book club session is over. On a whim, I tried the used book stores to see if I would have any better luck in finding a copy. No joy there.

At noon, I come back to the sitter to pick my son up. We get home, and the hubby is already out of bed. No nagging, yelling, and bickering to get him up today. I could have danced around the house. Overall the day was going great. The kids go down for naps, and my husband goes off to work. The kids wake up at around 3:15 and we went to the park to play for an hour or so.

We get home, have dinner, and my son turns into the spawn of satan. I don't know what happened. He had been so good all day long, and then from maybe six-thirty until bed at eight I had to deal with one temper tantrum after another. He was backtalking, argueing (sp?), and just not listening to a thing I said. No joke, I told him four times to get his jammies on and he just sat there and ignored what I said. I asked him to repeat my instruction and his answer was "I don't know". On further prompting he was able to tell me what I said, so I know it isn't a hearing issue. It is just an attitude issue that I've been dealing with lately. I don't know how to resolve it. Finally it was bed time, and now here I am trying to burn off some steam so I don't stay angry.

I've posted all of the chapters for Kings, Queens, and Pawns in my blog. If you look at the category for it now, they are all there. I'm also planning to try and add some to chapter six and post that this evening as well. I've finished my school work for the week, so I'm also hoping to get another chapter or two written this week. I'm at a bit of a standstill as I try to figure out what is going to happen next. In some ways it reads like the beginning of a romance novel, and that isn't something I'm wanting to write. So, I'm trying to plan out the rest of this story, plus the other two I was planning on for the series. I think that a three part adventure story will work nicely. It isn't such a long series of books that people will get bored, but I've also not crammed one book with entirely too much information. Once I have a better plan I'll write more quickly again. I just don't want to write my characters into a corner. I've accidently killed the main character that way and then I didn't know how to fix it short of something completly unrealistic happening. The whole story ended up going in the trash because I didn't know what to do. I don't want to do that this time.

Thanks for listening, or well reading, my rambling. Until next time...

Take care my friends,
Meg
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  1. grace86's Avatar
    It is interesting how on a given day you could find that day so utterly boring, but then on another seemingly normal day, it feels as if so many little mundane things happen that all of a sudden you have a story...I like those days, they are one's thoughtful days I guess. If you can pay attention to all those little things that happen during the day I think it is easier to appreciate and not take for granted.

    Glad your day was alright for the majority. It's also great to get your school work done early. Relax now.
  2. aeroport's Avatar
    Sorry to hear about the son-trouble. You could always go all post-Puritan and give him the cold shoulder - act hurt and put off til he feels bad and is forced to think about what he might have done to so upset his mother (of course we young boys always know), and when he starts to get really alarmed he'll be great. I don't know how well it works on the youth, but my Granny does it do me all the time...
    I'll start reading your story soon.
    "Arguing"
  3. applepie's Avatar
    Thanks Jamesian for the spelling. There is a reason spell check is my best friend:D I love to write and read, but after 23 years I still can't spell properly.
  4. aeroport's Avatar
    As my career as an English undergrad progresses, and as I consume more and more literature, I find myself growing worse and worse at spelling; yet when I find spelling mistakes in books, I remember them for a very long time afterwards... Strange.
  5. rabid reader's Avatar
    See the secret to back talking pre-teens is to lock 'em in their rooms... or under stairs, even a dungeon mwahahahahahaha
  6. kiz_paws's Avatar
    Your son might be trying things out that he learns at the sitter's? Not sure, but sometimes kids who don't normally act a certain way, suddenly 'try out' things once they've seen them (my sister had a mini 'bart simpson' that would emerge now and again). Thankfully it is only a stage, guess one just has to be consistent in handling things. I have to get finishing reading your work, Meg.... It was a very enjoyable read thus far, so yes, I plan to continue. Hang in there!
  7. rabid reader's Avatar
    How old is your son, because I don't think it is wise to complete rule out demonic possession
  8. applepie's Avatar
    :lol: I'm pretty sure he isn't taken over by a demon. He's only four, afterall, and all the other kids I see his age seem to do the same. Maybe they are all possessed and that is why four year olds act the way they do:D
  9. Virgil's Avatar
    I think spell check has ruined me at spelling. The older I get the worse I get. Spell check is a real crutch. As to your story Meg, some writers write without knowing where the story is heading and just free flow, others plot and carefully plan and build. It's a personal style thing. I kind of do both. I know where the story s heading, but the middle requires me to free flow. I can't plot and plan every single detail, but I do have a rough direction where I'm going.