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Downsizing my LIFE.

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A friend of mine who is aware of what is happening in my life wrote and asked ~ How are you doing?

This was my reply:

Hi Ann,

I am holding my own.

We are moving out of our main office and will be using the Design Center as our home base. It has an office area and we have rearranged it to hold 3 desks, a work station and some files. It was foolish to try to hold onto the main office which had become a burial ground for 20+ years of papers and a dumping station for all the models that were lost. It had 6 offices, a conference room and lunch room and only Allan was there full time and Jim and I part time. The move was pretty much forced when the landlord said he could no longer carry a month to month lease as he is re-financing and the banks look at a month to month as a vacancy so we would have to sign a 5 year lease. We were struggling as is to pay the rent. We are still active with remodeling and additions and wanted to maintain a presence and the only option was this move.

One of the hardest things for me is tossing brochures that I toiled on for hours on end and the fact that I know how much they cost. Allan clings to every piece of paper and has moved quite a bit of the "memories" to his home. He calls it the "memoirs of Allan that can be trashed once he is dead" pile. The majority of the papers have been sorted per IRS rules as to what you must keep and for how long; boxed, labeled and moved to storage, the rest about 8 loads in our state body dump truck are now permanent residents at the land fill. The office furniture is now proven to be the hardest thing to find a home for as they are all in very good to good condition, which make it hard to just trash them. Goodwill, Salvation Army and numerous other donation sites that I have contacted are not taking desk….they already have too many; a sign of the economic times.

It has not been an easy week emotional; not so much tossing papers that should have been gone long ago but watching Allan as he places a piece of paper on my desk and says "Remember this?" I keep reminding him that it is not over; the fat lady has not sung she is just changing the pitch. I keep reminding him and myself that we have put tens of thousand of families into dream homes for over thirty years. That it is not over we are just traveling a different path.

So in response to your "how are you doing?" I am here and holding my own.

Always,
Kittypaws

Updated 08-29-2011 at 07:58 AM by kittypaws

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  1. MystyrMystyry's Avatar
    Lot of debris and detritus there Kitty - I think I'm overdue for a springclean too
  2. Paulclem's Avatar
    A cleanout can be reinvigorating. We had some skip therapy a few years ago. It was good.

    I hope the business picks up.
  3. qimissung's Avatar
    Wow, what a poignant entry. What was/is your business, may I ask, kittypaws? Are your semi-retired, or have you guys lost business due to the recessions around the world?

    You are however, still in business, so I hope your friend can, after a period of time, begin to look forward. Maybe you guys could consider making a collage out of some of your old paperwork keepsakes. A piece of the past and art for all of you.
  4. kittypaws's Avatar
    gimissung ~ first thank you for your reply and your suggestion to making a collage. I think that is a great and very creative idea and I could hang it in our new office space.

    I am a home builder, a creator of nest for families to laugh, cry and grow in; a little over a decade ago we opened a remodeling company and that has been the saving grace in these trying economic times.

    I don't see retirement coming any time soon with the way things are....I have a part time job at a local dog park you can visit that blog story as well.

    Thank you again.

    Kitty
  5. kittypaws's Avatar
    Paulclem ~ thank you for your well wishes! all positive vibes are welcomed!

    What is skip therapy?

    Kittypaws
  6. kittypaws's Avatar
    Mystyr....I've gotten really good at throwing our stuff in case you need any help.

    thanks for acknowledging the write and helping me feel that I am not alone in my strife.

    always ~ kitty
  7. MystyrMystyry's Avatar
    I'm not really into ditching if I can avoid it Kitty - I'm just rearranging the mess into a compact order (it'll be a mess again after about a month and then I'll have to do Summer cleaning)

    I once had all my stuff in storage and the was about the neatest it's ever been