My Dysfunctional Relationships ~ Update Status
by , 09-08-2011 at 02:56 PM (1165 Views)
I know that some of you have been following the issue I have been having with a certain friend of mind, and were curious as to be updated on how things turn out.
For those who missed the original discussion but are curious to know what I am talking about now you can read the details here:
http://www.online-literature.com/for...g.php?bt=57000
So here is the latest on where things currently stand, which is not much different from where they stood before.
On Tuesday I sent him another e-mail, and I still want to give him the benefit of the doubt of having a perfectly legitimate reason for his lack of contact so I did not want to quite go for the jugular just yet.
It took me a few redrafts of the letter in my mind, and a few days before I was able to really get the right tone of it without coming on too strong, too desperate, or sound like I was threatening him, which was a bit of a problem in the earlier versions of the letter.
So I finally sent him a letter which was much in the vein of how I would normally write to him with a hint of that dramatic flare that we both use with each other, that is meant to be a bit playful, but at the same time, I was direct in confronting him about his having not responded to any of my past e-mails.
I even told him that if he just needs some space or simply is tired of listening to me he can feel free toe tell me so, but the one thing I don't cope well with is the feeling of being ignored.
And I made it clear I was in expectation of hearing something back from him in which I said even if it was just to tell me to get lost.
Even in our usual, normal communications with each other, it really would be too soon for me to expect to hear anything back from him. So right now it is too soon to tell what the result will be, but I will be awaiting the weekend with anticipation such being when I normally do hear back from him.
But if that fails I will give him at least one more weak to respond before I begin to loose hope that a response will be coming. And what happens from that point, I do not know of yet know.
I will keep you posted if and when I do hear back from him.



