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By The Shores of Gitche Gumee

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I can trace most of my joys, pensive moments, and profound decisions to a body of water: I asked my wife to marry me as we sat beside a lake in a state park. I spent hours skippin' stones along the length of the "crick" back home. I know the local waterways as I know the road to work.

Here are some fragments water and me: beers with my brother and a mess of rainbows on a stringer beside us; walking on the frozen reservoir and the terrifying thrill of hearing the ice crack and pop beneath me; my dad helping me learn to waterski at my grandma's lake cabin; seining minnows and water bugs for my aquarium. . . . .

Recently my family and I took a weekend trip to the shores of the greatest lake. And, among the many things that we did there, I taught my youngest daughter the art of of "sitting on a rock by the lake and looking at the water". It was a silly project. But how often are we taught the love and the art of sitting and looking?

We sat by the shores of Gitche Gumee and watched the Lakers filled with ore leave the port; we saw hooded mergansers and common cormorants float on the cold water; we threw stones and watched them splash. We even whispered to each other even though no one else was around. The art of sitting and looking gives a value to silence that even honest conversation is ashamed to violate.

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  1. Paulclem's Avatar
    Great blog and a great picture. You're right about being taught to sit and look.

    I can understand the significance of water. It can be magic.
  2. JuniperWoolf's Avatar
    walking on the frozen reservoir and the terrifying thrill of hearing the ice crack and pop beneath me
    Dangerous! I'm a real stickler for thawing lake safety, one day either you or Skib will never be heard from again, lost beneath the frozen ice.
  3. mtpspur's Avatar
    A quiet moment and a memory to live on as your children grow. This was nice.
  4. TheFifthElement's Avatar
    Sounds wonderful, and I'm sure it is one of those skills that your daughter will remember and treasure and (hopefully) pass on to her children. We should all learn the value of sitting and watching. There is something about a large body of water that instigates such feelings of peace.

    A lovely blog, Comedian.
  5. qimissung's Avatar
    Your daughter looks so contented and safe in your arms, Comedian. What you taught her was so lovely. I think you summed it up best in your last line-a sentence, by the way, that is worthy of Thoreau.
  6. Lote-Tree's Avatar
    I can trace most of my joys, pensive moments, and profound decisions to a body of water
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    I love the Body of Water too but then again I am a "Water-phile" :-)
  7. yuka's Avatar
    Your words always can give me a pleasant trip Com like the art of sitting and looking, love your daughter on the picture. Thank you for sharing