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The Virgin Suicides

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Following is a second book from my list of unfinished books I started in 2010.

The Virgin Suicides


Their names were
Cecilia, Lux, Bonnie, Mary, and Therese, and they were destined, like Peter Pan, never to grow up.

They lived and died
in the novel "The Virgin Suicides" by Jeffrey Eugenides, which covers the last year of their lives in the upscale community of Grosse Point, Michigan. Adolescence is a strange time. Your body is not your own any more and the world has become a surreal landscape through which you must move. Some kids adapt easier than others, but that is not the case for the Lisbon sisters. To all appearances they would seem to have everything. Loving parents, the possibility of a good education, their whole lives ahead of them.

But the youngest
sister, Cecilia, attempts suicide as the book opens. She survives for awhile, still wearing a worn wedding dress, her feet dirty, but at the one party she and her sisters are allowed to give she makes a second successful attempt, the irony of which hangs heavy in the air. The one adult decision she makes ended in death.

The only truly obvious note in the book is that it is too easy to blame the parents for what happens. Very little is revealed of the girls. They appear to be a single entity in the story and there is little dialog. There are odd flashes of insight into their lives and their minds,. like lightning on a dark night, but it is impossible to piece together any sense of the sister's individuality, of their family life, or even of their relationships to one another. What little is revealed seems ordinary beyond the pale, leaving their reasons for their suicides even more puzzling. Journal entries detail food they'd eaten ("they all detested creamed corn"), the inside of their bedrooms as seen by one neighborhood boy ("He came back to us with stories of bedrooms filled with crumpled panties, of stuffed animals hugged to death by the passion of the girls, of a crucifix draped with a brassiere, of gauzy chambers of canopied beds..."), and their return to school in September after the death of their sister, in full view of the whole school ("Bonnie had picked a simple bouquet of late-season dandelions from the school green. She held them under Lux's chin to see if she liked butter."), but despite these glimpses of a foreign country, they are more mysterious than ever.

There are several religious references, and descriptions of them disappearing once and for all into their house make them seem like girls from the middle ages who've been given to God against their will, or as though they were living in a seraglio, young daughters of a sultan's household being readied as a royal wife,at any rate kept safe for something finer than anything this world had to offer. This although the parents are portrayed as rather colorless people, as parents too often are in novels and movies. What did their parents have in mind? Their father seemed ready enough to let the girls grow up, but their mother, perhaps in a grotesque satire of love, of wanting to keep her children safe, curled around them like a python and squeezed the life out of them. They had tried, once, to let them go to a school dance. Luz, the one sister given the most personality, ran off with Trip, who had longed and lusted for her. They consummate their relationship on the football field, then Trip takes a powder and leaves Luz to make her way home by herself. The damage is done, however. Their mother, having lost one child, is unable to handle her daughter's overt sexuality, never mind that it had ended in disaster. The girls' are withdrawn from school, and their downward spiral into desolation begins.

As the book begins
with a death, so it ends, with the collective deaths of the rest of the sisters.The neighborhood boys who had watched them from afar with the heated lust you can only feel for something you can never have, seem linked with the girls' in their inability to grow up. The girls, much like the young protagonist in "Dead Poets' Society," are unable to envision a life beyond the sere emotional desert in which they currently reside. So, too, the boys, while longing for the lush pleasures of sensual freedom they scent in the visages' of the five sisters, are unable, once the girls move beyond them into death, to grow into anything resembling a satisfactory adulthood. They live on the edges of their fantasy, scarred forever, thoughts of the elusive Lisbon girls "making us happier with dreams than wives...and the snow came down and the sky was unremittingly gray." I see them standing like Gatsby in his yard looking over the bay to the green light beyond, his arms outstretched in yearning; so they seem to stand, looking at the green light that was the Lisbon sisters, arms outstretched, forever yearning, forever seeing through a glass darkly.

Eugenides writes like an overgrown garden, and his evocation of youth cut short is an Eden whose residents have never left.

Qimmissung
January 2011

Updated 01-23-2011 at 03:05 AM by qimissung

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  1. TheFifthElement's Avatar
    You're doing very well with your list Qimi. I enjoyed The Virgin Suicides immensely - did you know there's also a movie? The movie is pretty good too. What I liked about The Virgin Suicides is the way that it looked at the girls from the outside and that you never really knew what was going on. Isn't that always the way with suicide? That those outside of it can never quite understand what it is that drives a person to end their own life, even if there are clues or a note explaining the reason. I think Eugenides presents that idea really well though the distanced narrative.

    So what's next on your list?
  2. Lulim's Avatar
    Thanks for this summary, Qimmissung. I read "The Virgin Suicides" a couple of years ago (after reading "Middlesex", by by the same author, and having been very much fascinated of it), but was puzzled and left rather perplexed as to what it all was about, actually.
  3. qimissung's Avatar
    Thank you, Fifth and Lulim.

    Yes, Fifth, I do know of the movie although I haven't yet seen it. I'm not sure why. Maybe I wanted to read the book first. Even now I'm not sure I will. I kind of like the ethereal quality of the book and I just don't think any movie could match that. Some things are better left to the imagination.

    I agree that it is a perplexing novel, Lulim. I think sometimes we get caught up in easy expectations. We need books that challenge those-to a degree. I'm not sure what his point was ultimately either, but it is a beautiful book
  4. qimissung's Avatar
    Oh, next up is "The Shipping News" by E. Annie Proulx. I've started it. I can't really say why I'd rather be reading a mystery, but I would.
  5. mtpspur's Avatar
    I saw the movie on TV a year or so back and was puzzled by it. Dig deep in early blog entries of mine and you'll see an unhealthy fascination with suicide as it has touched my life and only the past year or so have I have able to finally (for now) lay some ghosts to rest. But skill in summary I am jealous of as I tend to on and on and--- More please.
  6. qimissung's Avatar
    lol, Rich! I think it is only recently that I learned that less is more (ahem) myself!

    I'm glad you've been able to find a sense of peace concerning the tragedies in your family. Suicide will always be a mystery to those of us who are able to endure, and I don't think it's an angry thing meant to hurt those left behind. Hard as it is to understand, I do believe those who commit suicide really do it because they see it as a preferable alternative to the pain they are experiencing.

    Be at peace.
  7. qimissung's Avatar
    I agree, that he made their motives mysterious with the distanced narratives. Fifth. I tried to briefly allude to the mystery Eugenides creates around the girls. Perhaps it was to brief, as there were some other things I wanted to discuss.