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That Management Job

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Before I left for Kazakhstan, you may remember I was temporarily sitting in on that management position I was ambivalent about. I had blogged about it here, http://www.online-literature.com/forums/blog.php?b=9964. I never did close the loop on this, and one lit netter with a very good memory asked how this turned out. So let me complete the story.

Technically I was to work only the management job, and while I had a young, though very capable engineer, filling in for me leading my project, but in essence I was really doing both jobs. Now the management job was really rather simple and straight forward, but it so happened that my project was at a very critical and intense time that I still handled all the big events. So the two months leading up to my trip to Kazakhstan were active and chaotic. I wish all I had to do was that management job.

Here’s a list without getting too specific of several of my entries into my notebook I used exclusively for the management position. Staff meetings every Tuesday at 9:30, Tom’s [Division Chief] office; branch reviews once a month; new org chart needs my input; new hire needs introducing and integration; fellow employee from other division gravely ill; next year financial problems – possible 20 to 30% cuts; sick and vacation time can now be taken in half hour increments; need to reassign projects to three of my engineers; required monthly review of building safety; assign Tony to coordinate building safety; potential summer hires need their resumes in by March 31st; Director is looking for a young engineer to fill in administratively for three months – check for volunteers; annual review due for Jessica; Rash is transferring out; all memos going to directorate require division chief review; storage room is full; auditors are around; three new projects approved and funded; more juggling of personnel to fill in for minor projects; resumes for summer hires are in; another new employee; leadership training is now required for everyone; division will get five summer hires; midpoint reviews are due; employee lodging complaint over not getting a promotion; need to hire two new secretaries; all email inboxes may go unlimited; Peter going in for an operation to remove stomach growth. In addition I signed off on my branch’s time (essentially their paychecks), approved vacation time, approved business travel and reimbursement, and checked in on Peter after the operation and sent a fruit basket over to his house.

Some people like that kind of stuff. Frankly at the end of the day I can’t see exactly what I accomplished. Personally I prefer to design and build and test something, or at least manage the project that does. I will say my secretary thought I was great and tried so hard to convince me to take the job. She said I was a natural, or something like that. She said I understood what a manager’s role is. And yes I know what escapes poor managers who think they have to lord it over people. A good manager is just the opposite. He is there first and foremost to serve his underlings so they can do their job. You are there to serve, not be served. Sure, you make certain rules and juggle things to make the branch run more efficient, but you must remember that it’s the engineers who are doing the real work; you are there to make sure they can execute.

So a few days before I left for Kazakhstan, a list of four people who applied for the job came out and no surprise I was on the list. I had debated whether to send in the application (this is how we do these things at my place) but my secretary talked me into it. But the timing was unfortunate. I would be away for the interviews. On my last day at work before Kazakhstan I walked into Tom’s office and told him to drop me off the interview list. He tried to talk me out of it. He said I had done a great job. He even offered to have a phone interview with me from Kazakhstan. I joked I would have to call in at the middle of the night and I would be too groggy to answer correctly. To my surprise he didn’t fight me very hard. I think he already had in mind the person he wanted for the job and that was Stew, who would have been the natural person to promote into it from the beginning, but he had been filling in at another position within the company and it wasn’t clear at the time I was needed if Stew was coming back. But he did and I wasn’t as needed as before. I did see the email in Kazakhstan that Stew did get the job.

Funny side story to go with it. While I was in Kazakhstan Tom emailed me to see how I was making out, and a final sentence to the email (though that sentence seemed like the real gist of the email) was to send him in writing that I had refused the interview as per our discussion. He needed it in writing, probably in case I wanted to file a complaint later on. And once I did, he never sent me another email while I was out there. Hmm.

And so I am not in that job. I do miss having a secretary to answer my phone and keep me on schedule. But I’m back to my old chaotic and intense project. And working twice as hard as those managers. But it’s fun.

And there is no update on Matthew. It’s now been twenty-four days since we last saw him. The British couple who were ahead of us in the cycle emailed us to say they finally got to pick up their son. I think they had to wait seven or eight weeks before they got to pick him up. To our dismay they said that they didn’t think their son recognized them after the interim. That sucks. We’re still hoping it’s the second week of August. We’ll be on a plane in a flash.

Here’s another picture of Matthew.

Updated 07-25-2010 at 12:30 AM by Virgil

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  1. mtpspur's Avatar
    Appreciate the job update. I had it in mind that the situation would be settled upon your return. I wouldn't worry too much about further e-mails from management. It' the nature of hirings to drop the issue of what might have been or could have been or even should have been. In my heart of heart I miss the routine of the Air Force but NOT the constant time pressures. I get enough of that with tow truck drivers now. Still hoping th best for litle Matthew and you two. Praying for a quick and happy beginning to your new lives together.
    Updated 07-25-2010 at 04:28 PM by mtpspur (usual sloppy typing)
  2. qimissung's Avatar
    It has already been twenty-four days since you saw him?

    I'm glad things turned out well at work. I never trust management,, so I'm glad you got what you wanted with no repercussions.

    I, too, hope things turn out as we all hope they will with Matthew, gthe cutest baby on the planet.
  3. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you Rich and Qimi.

    Qimi, yes 24 days. We last saw him on July 1st, after the court appearence. He is a cute little pumpkin.
  4. PrinceMyshkin's Avatar
    Lovely new photo of Matthew, his characteristically good-natured smile. That you have possibly several more weeks before he's actually yours is infuriating.
  5. Paulclem's Avatar
    I completely agree with your description of the role of the Manager. In one place I worked, the management style was "Do it because I say so and I'm harder than you", which worked in the short term, but didn't inspire loyalty. That was 25 year ago though.

    You have my sympathy with the wait for Matthew. It must be tough. Best wishes.
  6. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you Prince and Paul.

    Prince, I was thinking just today how good natured he is. How lucky I am.
  7. motherhubbard's Avatar
    I think a management position could require more of your time, and now that you are about to have another man around the house you need to be home to adore your wife and secure your position as her favorite man around the house. Let me say, you will have to work really hard to keep your spot at the top!
  8. applepie's Avatar
    Glad to hear things worked out with your job. Nothing like having to take on something you really don't wish to. It sounds like things worked out for everyone:)

    That long already!?! Time flies I'm afraid. The good news is that it flies by, and you'll be getting that call before you know it. He may not remember you, since he is so young, but it will also come back to him pretty quickly. The hard part is remembering how tiny he is and limited the scope of their memory. I think it hurts more as a parent, but it is a small blessing to know that he's young enough to never remember the separation. Both of you hang in there.

    Much Love,
    Meg
  9. AuntShecky's Avatar
    I agree with MotherHubbard's comment above. There's an old cliché that says "When one door closes, another door
    opens." In your case, it goes without saying is that the one that's open is the answer to your prayers. Kierkegaard:
    "Purity of heart is to will one thing."

    Along with the many LitNutters who support all three of you in spirit, let me add my best wishes.

    Auntie
  10. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks for your comments Mom-H, Meg, Aunty.

    Quote Originally Posted by motherhubbard
    I think a management position could require more of your time, and now that you are about to have another man around the house you need to be home to adore your wife and secure your position as her favorite man around the house. Let me say, you will have to work really hard to keep your spot at the top!
    Actually no. I will have to disagree. Running a complicated, program is way more time consuming than managing a Branch of an organization. My secretary that I had while I was filling in was using your very argument only in reverse to get me to take the job. Now that I have a little one it would have been easier to just monitor the goings on of a branch rather than get into the stress of making something work. I guess there are the people problems of managing a group of people, but with a program either something works or it doesn't and you have to figure out why. And you never have enough money to do it right. Perhaps it's just the nature of engineering as opposed to other tpes of jobs.
  11. Buh4Bee's Avatar
    Well, after all this excitement, sounds like thing are somewhat "normal" again. Can't wait to see a picture of Matthew in NYC.
  12. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks Jersea. I can't wait to show you one.
  13. Janine's Avatar
    Well, if you enjoy the job you do and are happy that is all that is important. Now you have Matthew to add to that happiness and I know he will. Your work days will go by quickly because you will be thinking of him off and on all day long. My thoughts of Brooke are never far from my mind and I find this even inspires me often. Love that photo of your wife and Matthew. Obviously, he's a very happy child and has a wonderful disposition. He loves you and your wife very much already and I doubt he will forget you. I know all will turn out fine and you only have happy times ahead my friend.
  14. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you Janine. I already think of Matthew all day. Hopefully soon we'll have him home.
  15. Sapphire's Avatar
    First off - Matthew looks quite happy Big smile and glittering eyes. I really do hope the second week of August is the date you get to take him home. Toes crossed (still) .

    About the job: I didn't know about all this, but after reading your blog I think you made a difficult choice, but you went with your heart: you enjoy engineering, so that's what you choose to do - even though it is harder and you're a "natural" at being a manager (or at least a good one, who understands what it takes). But what good is there in doing something you don't really like? I see the benefits of the management job, and I think you made a brave choice! An engineer at heart

    Good luck with it all.
  16. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you Sapphire.
  17. ClaesGefvenberg's Avatar
    All things considered, it was a brave decision. It certainly helps to have your priorities straight when you have to make a call like that.

    I'm hoping that you will be able to get Matthew home soon.

    /Claes
  18. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you Claes. They predicted all the paperwork would be completed by the second week of August and Monday is the second week. I'm hoping we get the call sometime this coming week.