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A Former Love, A Dream, A Death

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I'm not sure who to tell this too, but I need to tell someone, so it's going to be you all.

So, before I met my wife, I was crazy for this girl in college. Call her Jane. Upon reflection, when all the crushes and infatuations of my younger life are sifted out, I'd say that she was the first girl that I truly loved.

I was a coward back then -- more so than I am now, and while I loved Jane, I never acted on it. We became close -- friends with a comfortable tension. At the end of college, when we were going our separate ways, I told her I loved her for the first time. It was the first time that I told anyone (other than family) that I loved them and meant it.

. . . . .

Flash forward. Last week I had a nightmare. I dreamed that my oldest daughter (5) was killed. She was running along a pier and was crushed by a large ocean-going freighter coming into port. I saw the accident happen. I ran to see her. But she was gone. I remember yelling and yelling into the water.

I woke up from this dream several times that night only to re-enter it upon going back to sleep.

. . . . .

Flash forward to today. I learned today that last week Jane's oldest boy was killed in a freak accident. He was struck by a school bus. The date of the accident was the same as that of my nightmare.

Updated 04-01-2010 at 01:15 PM by The Comedian

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  1. dizzydoll's Avatar
    Thats scary. I believe that was your guides notifying you that someone you knew was in pain from the death of her child. So sad, sorry to hear it :coolgleamA:
  2. applepie's Avatar
    I'm sorry. I know that doesn't even express enough, but it is sincerely meant. Take Care, Meg
  3. qimissung's Avatar
    Apparently you are a little prescient, Comedian. But I am so very sorry for your friend's loss.

    And why is it that when we do have foreknowledge, even on a subconscious level, the news is almost always sad?
  4. Paulclem's Avatar
    I have a friend who dreamt of his mate's heart condition and by-pass surgery. He later found it to be true, as he looked him up soon after. Perhaps it's more common to have prophetic or prescient dreams than we like to admit in our rational world.

    A really sad story Comedian. Frustrating too - knowledge without being able to act on it. Cruel.
  5. Dark Muse's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by qimissung
    Apparently you are a little prescient, Comedian. But I am so very sorry for your friend's loss.

    And why is it that when we do have foreknowledge, even on a subconscious level, the news is almost always sad?
    I look at it this way, it would be kind of boring to have forewarning on good things, becasue it is fun to have good surprises.

    But with bad things it is nice to have a little preperation in advance instead of being surprsied by it.

    Perhaps the forewarning of bad things is a defense mechinisim of the subconcious.
  6. The Comedian's Avatar
    Thanks guys -- I remember writing to my friend and sending her my condolences. And then I remembered that terrible dream.

    I mean, I don't know if it was prophetic, sympathetic, or what -- but that I had a dream that paralleled a similar situation to some one who was once close to me seems really strange.

    And if there is some subconscious connection that we have during times of intense emotion -- holy crap! What does that mean? Person-to-person subconscious communication? Sounds too wishy-washy to me, but so too does casting the whole thing as a fluky circumstance.
    Updated 04-01-2010 at 09:22 PM by The Comedian
  7. Virgil's Avatar
    That's either one heck of a coincident or you were really tuned into something. Wow. That is amazing. That is a sad story. Were you able to send your sympathies to the woman? I don't think I would mention the dream to her.
  8. qimissung's Avatar
    Thanks Dark Muse. I like your idea.
  9. JuniperWoolf's Avatar
    Well, that's extremely weird.

    How often do you dream about something tragic happening to your daughter(s)?
  10. dizzydoll's Avatar
    I was just reminded of something right now which you might find very strange.

    I had just come back from Zambia, recovering from cerebral malaria, to visit my grandmother. She was asleep in the same room where I was messing around on the laptop late one night. Without warning she sat up from a deep sleep and said "Please be a pet and check on the lady across the passage shes about to die."

    I got up, tucked her into the covers and told her its just a bad dream she should go back to sleep.

    Anyway, just to be certain the next day I knocked on the door of that lady across the passage to ask how she was doing. She told me she was almost better from a bout of flu but otherwise fine. She said she didnt need anything from the store when I offered to go for her.

    The next day she was dead.

    It really felt creepy to ask my grandmother how she knew this. As it turned out she had forgotten all about her dream until I brought it up. Now if thats not a prophetic dream then I dont know.....

    :yikes:
    Updated 04-02-2010 at 09:02 AM by dizzydoll