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St. Joseph's Day

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Today is St. Joseph’s day. Most people in English speaking countries remember St. Patrick’s Day on the 17th (I guess because we are so influenced by Irish Catholicism) but really the more important day on the Catholic calendar is the 19th. Actually St. Joseph has been on my mind lately given my endeavor to become a parent. (Those that are aware, it’s just not coming fast enough; this process stinks.) St. Joseph in essence was a foster father himself, taking in the pregnant Mary and raising a child that was not genetically his own. Sure he didn’t seek out a child and the situation was thrust upon him, but what a man of character he must have been. Taking in a pregnant woman in his day was really radical actually. We seem to remember so much of Mary’s plight in the Christ birth story. But it was pointed out to me recently that while Mary is the heroine of the Luke Gospel, it’s Joseph who is the hero of the Matthew Gospel. There we see Joseph contemplating not marrying her but reversing when spoken to by an angel. We see him caringly finding a birth place for his wife in labor, and later we see him as protector of his child. He was a carpenter and passed his trade onto his child, so while it’s not mentioned, we can assume a good relationship there. I’ve also had the image of him as an older man when he marries Mary since he’s not alive when Jesus is an adult. I also can’t help thinking that Christ is recalling his foster father when later in Matthew chapter 18:

1 At that time the disciples approached Jesus and said, "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?"
2 He called a child over, placed it in their midst,
3 and said, "Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.
4 Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
5 And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me.
6 "Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.
Receiving a child is exactly what Joseph does, and protecting and nurturing is exactly the opposite of causing a child to sin, which I think carries a connotation of harm. What is special to me is that my father was a carpenter (before he went blind) and that while I was researching I found that among other things, St. Joseph is also the patron saint of engineers! And so today I honor St. Joseph.



Actually what I had originally intended to blog on, but so got distracted as I researched this, are the glorious St. Joseph pastries that Italians bake or buy on this day. Growing up my mother would either fry up some zeppoles or she would get some pastries from the bakery. I treated my wife (who is not Italian) to some today. She wondered where I took off to, and when I walked in the house with a bakery box, she asked what was in the box. “Today is St, Joseph’s Day,” I said. “Oh, pastries!” she smiled. I took off for the bakery and I got a half dozen, stopped at my mother’s house and dropped two off to her and took the four home. While at the bakery a woman in line heard me order them. It must have sparked a memory from her past.
“Do they sell St. Joseph’s pastries here?” she asked.
“I would hope so,” I replied.
“How do you know?”
“Well, this is Staten Island (the highest Italian-American population in the country for those that don’t know), this is an Italian bakery, and if they don’t have any here they ought to be out of business. I heard her order a couple. I had one in the afternoon with a double espresso.

For those that don’t know what St. Joseph’s pastries are here is an image. The one on the left is custard filled and the one on the right is cannoli filling filled. I got half of one kind and half the other. Scrumptious!

Updated 03-19-2010 at 10:05 PM by Virgil

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  1. Heathcliff's Avatar
    We had St. Joseph's day yesterday.
    We said a prayer in assembly.
    St. Joseph is of major influence to us as our school is a part of the Josephites.
  2. Virgil's Avatar
    Well Austrailia is a day ahead of me.

    Do they have St. Joseph Day pasties there? Ask your mom if she remembers them as a child.
  3. Heathcliff's Avatar
    Will do when she gets back from painting.
    We didn't have any cake.

    It was also Harmony Day yesterday, so we had all of this multi-cultural food and a casual day.
    It was fun and incredibly laughable.
  4. OrphanPip's Avatar
    The biggest Catholic holiday in Quebec is probably St. John The Baptist day on June 24th, since he's the patron saint of French Canadians. It's a statutory holiday in the province.
  5. motherhubbard's Avatar
    very yummy looking! I really want some kind of little pastry for breakfast now.
  6. applepie's Avatar
    You had me at "cannoli filling":lol:. That is one of my favorite things in the world, and it is a bit hard to get in Cincinnati being a more German based town.
  7. 1n50mn14's Avatar
    Mmm. Yummy... I want some of those pastries... I enjoyed this blog a lot. I like how coincidences (e.g. St.Joseph being a carpenter, like your father, and also patron saint of engineers- you learn something new every day!) can make something so meaningful to you.
  8. Shalot's Avatar
    Good blog. I like hearing about Joseph. In my experience of Catholicism, it seemed like there was always more emphasis on Mary and the virgin birth etc, and it seemed like we didn't hear enough about Joseph, who stepped up to be a father. These days, a lot of men do not step up and take responsibility for their own children so it's great to reflect on the life of Joseph. I know a lot of people who didn't know their fathers and I know how hurtful that is to a child. So again, great blog.
  9. Buh4Bee's Avatar
    Loved the blog, kept me captivated the whole time. Good way to keep it positive as you wait. Keep the faith and know that it'll happen. Thanks for a peek into the Staten Island window- I know you have a truly good life there.
  10. qimissung's Avatar
    I went to a museum today and saw this painting. It's of St. Joseph with the Christ child. And the pastries look delish!

    http://www.jesuswalk.com/christmas-i...ant471x576.jpg
    Updated 03-21-2010 at 12:17 AM by qimissung
  11. Virgil's Avatar
    I did not know that Pip. Thank you.

    Mom-H, always a pleasure to see you. I wonder if one could mail a pastry to you.

    Thank you Becca, Shalot, Jersea, and Qimi.

    Actually putting Shalot and Qimi's thoughts together, I wonder why there aren't more Joseph and child paintings. Plenty of Madonna and child. Well, I guess deference goes to the mother.

    Thank you all. I've been having computer problems the last few nights and haven't been on as much. Actually it's not the computer, it's the router. My old one died and so I bought a new one, and I screwed up the installation. It's running but none of my laptops can login. I must have given it a security password by accident, and now I don't know what it is, and I've locked myself out. If anyone knows how to crack open the secuirty, please let me know.
  12. applepie's Avatar
    Just reinstall the router, and you'll be able to set up a new password :) I've done the same thing a time or two or ten :lol:
  13. Virgil's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by mkhockenberry
    Just reinstall the router, and you'll be able to set up a new password I've done the same thing a time or two or ten
    Is it that easy? Holy smoke, why didn't I think of that. *runs off to try*
  14. The Comedian's Avatar
    Enjoyed your blog Virgil -- can't believe that I missed it. I really enjoyed how you tied spiritual, historical, personal, and culinary all together.
  15. Virgil's Avatar
    Thanks Comedian.


    Oh and I fixed my router issue. I had to call up the service from the router company. It was not as simple as restarting it. The encryption setup had to be reconfigured. Luckily my wife found their sevice number on the internet. Now why don't they provide that number in their instructions. By the way, their instructions stink.
  16. Janine's Avatar
    They look yummy. I will take one with the custard filling. I liked your story. I recently saw a movie about the birth of Christ and the time leading up to it. It's very well done and fairly realistic and yes, you are right, at one time Joseph did falter as to if he would marry Mary or believe her and then he saw an angel who set him straight. I had never really noticed this part of the story before and it made me think a lot. In the film he is shown as a young man; perhaps a few years older than Mary.
  17. Virgil's Avatar
    Thank you Janine. What movie is that?
  18. AuntShecky's Avatar
    Your blog about St. Joseph was lovely and respectful, Virgil He should be your very own personal patron saint.

    By the bye, did you ever hear the legend about the saint among American homeowners (not that I've ever had the fortune --or lately the misfortune of being such)?

    According to the popular belief (I won't go as far as to say superstition), if you want to sell your house, all you have to do to insure success is to bury a statue of St. Joseph in your front yard. No accompanying prayers, Novenas, or donations necessary. People swear it works.

    When the landlord sold the little house in the country that I loved, I pondered that legend. I didn't want to bury a statue and inadvertently bring about the real estate deal that would go against my best interest. On the other hand, could I enlist the aid of St. Joseph to allow us to stay? It turned out to be a moot question. The only little statue I own is one of St. Francis, and I'd never plant him! The landlord eventually did evict us and sold the property. I hear the new owners cut down a beloved stately tree and painted the house a horrible color. And now they're trying to sell!
  19. Virgil's Avatar
    Burying a statue? That does sound silly. That's interesting about him being my personal saint. Actually when i was young I was attracted to St. Francis, and I actually chose Francis as my confirmation name. I'll have to think about that. Thanks.
  20. Paulclem's Avatar
    I liked reading about the details - where you live etc - and the meaning it has for you Virgil. So much of what we read is a bit removed from real life.

    People are interesting.
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