Lokasenna
10-05-2016, 05:39 PM
I’ve been wondering for a little while now whether social media, particularly platforms like Facebook and Twitter, are actually really toxic to us as people.
Although I don’t use Twitter much, I (like millions of others) am on Facebook, and if I’m working on my computer I’ll inevitably end up checking it relatively frequently.
And, I’ve noticed, every time I do it lowers my mood noticeably.
I know we live in turbulent times for a variety of political and economic reasons (though, generally, I’m of the opinion that things are basically better than they have ever been globally), but nowhere does this find expression more negatively than on Facebook. Perhaps it’s because I’m basically an optimistic and happy person who tries to enjoy, and get on with, life, but Facebook seems mired in misery.
Every time I log on all I see is a long litany of whinging, hatred, and sectarianism. Otherwise reasonable people dwell unhealthily on whatever their bugbears are, and put out comments that personally denigrate opposing views and, importantly, those who hold them. And, of course, because most people seem only to be friends with those with similar views, these views end up reinforced by the echo chamber.
Perhaps I’m in a unique position in that I have friends from across a wide-spectrum, from friends who are committed Brexiteers to friends who are Corbyn worshippers, from Libertarians to Communists. Even, yes, a handful of Trump supporters. In practice, this means I keep my opinions very much to myself – because the expression of a contrary position leads at best to de-friending, and at worst to a torrent of astonishing abuse.
I remember when it was possible to have a political difference with someone without it being construed as a personal attack. In real-life conversations, it still usually is – though I have encountered exceptions. Online, it is now impossible. And I think Facebook and its ilk are in a large part to blame.
During the two months I was without internet a while back, I found I missed Facebook very little. These days, I seem to be on it only as a convenient way of keeping up with my oldest friends. But that doesn’t mean I like it.
Anyone else feel the same way? Anyone else have negative feelings about social media?
Although I don’t use Twitter much, I (like millions of others) am on Facebook, and if I’m working on my computer I’ll inevitably end up checking it relatively frequently.
And, I’ve noticed, every time I do it lowers my mood noticeably.
I know we live in turbulent times for a variety of political and economic reasons (though, generally, I’m of the opinion that things are basically better than they have ever been globally), but nowhere does this find expression more negatively than on Facebook. Perhaps it’s because I’m basically an optimistic and happy person who tries to enjoy, and get on with, life, but Facebook seems mired in misery.
Every time I log on all I see is a long litany of whinging, hatred, and sectarianism. Otherwise reasonable people dwell unhealthily on whatever their bugbears are, and put out comments that personally denigrate opposing views and, importantly, those who hold them. And, of course, because most people seem only to be friends with those with similar views, these views end up reinforced by the echo chamber.
Perhaps I’m in a unique position in that I have friends from across a wide-spectrum, from friends who are committed Brexiteers to friends who are Corbyn worshippers, from Libertarians to Communists. Even, yes, a handful of Trump supporters. In practice, this means I keep my opinions very much to myself – because the expression of a contrary position leads at best to de-friending, and at worst to a torrent of astonishing abuse.
I remember when it was possible to have a political difference with someone without it being construed as a personal attack. In real-life conversations, it still usually is – though I have encountered exceptions. Online, it is now impossible. And I think Facebook and its ilk are in a large part to blame.
During the two months I was without internet a while back, I found I missed Facebook very little. These days, I seem to be on it only as a convenient way of keeping up with my oldest friends. But that doesn’t mean I like it.
Anyone else feel the same way? Anyone else have negative feelings about social media?