cacian
11-06-2012, 07:45 AM
Is the way we act body language and facial expressions tell a different truth to what we usually wants to say or put cross?
There are many people I know who can read a face or body language and tells of a person which I believe is a skill on itself and bears a lot of truth. To be able tell straight away whether a person is honest dishonest or not good news is simply magical. Suspicion or instinct?
How much aware are we of body language when it comes to believing someone or understanding what one is about.
Living with someone I think is all about tact and how much in tune we are with each other.
Knowing how to understand register each other is tricky but easily learned through the many languages we carry within us not just the spoken ones.
There are silence languages that one can pick up from the other person they live with if one is attentive enough or knows how to. Emotional intelligence comes to mind.
Many examples I read in the papers were couples that have been married for a substantial amount of time and yet one day if or when the husband comes out and says he is gay and the wife is totally devastated.
To live with someone and not know they are gay or have feminine tendencies or like to dress up like women for example is down to body language and instinct combined.
Being able to tell my partner's deepest desires or fears for that mattes is crucial is we are to succeed as people and couples of course. Family life is dependent on it.
So how close or in touch with our instinctive languages are we? Just because we don't say does not mean we do not think and by thus I conclude that silence is deadly.
There are many people I know who can read a face or body language and tells of a person which I believe is a skill on itself and bears a lot of truth. To be able tell straight away whether a person is honest dishonest or not good news is simply magical. Suspicion or instinct?
How much aware are we of body language when it comes to believing someone or understanding what one is about.
Living with someone I think is all about tact and how much in tune we are with each other.
Knowing how to understand register each other is tricky but easily learned through the many languages we carry within us not just the spoken ones.
There are silence languages that one can pick up from the other person they live with if one is attentive enough or knows how to. Emotional intelligence comes to mind.
Many examples I read in the papers were couples that have been married for a substantial amount of time and yet one day if or when the husband comes out and says he is gay and the wife is totally devastated.
To live with someone and not know they are gay or have feminine tendencies or like to dress up like women for example is down to body language and instinct combined.
Being able to tell my partner's deepest desires or fears for that mattes is crucial is we are to succeed as people and couples of course. Family life is dependent on it.
So how close or in touch with our instinctive languages are we? Just because we don't say does not mean we do not think and by thus I conclude that silence is deadly.