What makes you feel feminine

[Nostalgia375]

Is it a film, book, the caresses of your man or what?

[Buh4Bee]

Aidan Turner. Wow, do I feel feminine!

[Varenne Rodin]

My perfect breasts.

[Nostalgia375]

My perfect breasts.


I should start to focus on existentialism

[Helga]

Aidan Turner. Wow, do I feel feminine!

agreed

[JuniperWoolf]

My perfect breasts.

Hahaha, that's awesome.

[Alexander III]

As a conoisseur of the feminine mind, it is undoubtedly a drunk man rumbling and grunting and bruising on top of them while they are half asleep. Makes them feel like a woman all the time.

[Delta40]

not having perfect breasts.

[Buh4Bee]

agreed

He is like a piece of meat! He makes my mouth water.

[iamnobody]

Really great shoes!


http://i376.photobucket.com/albums/oo209/star_gurl_amy/4720591_f.jpg

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

My perfect breasts.

Shwing.

[Darcy88]

Wearing girl pants. Watching romantic comedies. Having my best friend who is female talk to me as if I too am female, like when she says stuff like "that guy's cute," "this bra makes my boobs look great," ect.

[BienvenuJDC]

Wearing girl pants. Watching romantic comedies. Having my best friend who is female talk to me as if I too am female, like when she says stuff like "that guy's cute," "this bra makes my boobs look great," ect.

I feel like bonding now...

:ack2:

Actually, although I love to cook, and I also sew, I just don't think that even such domestic things even make me feel feminine. Do you all think that there's a connection between domestic things and femininity?

[Darcy88]

I feel like bonding now...

:ack2:

Actually, although I love to cook, and I also sew, I just don't think that even such domestic things even make me feel feminine. Do you all think that there's a connection between domestic things and femininity?

Not really. Lots of men like to cook. Ever seen Goodfellas? And tailors are often male. Now that women are in the work force the domestic duties in most households fall equally across gender lines.

[BienvenuJDC]

Not really. Lots of men like to cook. Ever seen Goodfellas? And tailors are often male. Now that women are in the work force the domestic duties in most households fall equally across gender lines.

OK...would it make any difference if the thing that I sewed was a Velveteen Rabbit?

[Darcy88]

OK...would it make any difference if the thing that I sewed was a Velveteen Rabbit?

Haha. Maybe. You gotta remember though that we all have a female chromosome. Uber-masculine men who never clean or cry do so more out of suppression than expression.

[osho]

What I admire in women are her breasts and that is where people fix their eyes on not offensively. They blossom and can tantalize any onlookers. They are their arties, their biggies. No women can feel feminine if they have no them. When I engage in chattering with them I feel I am part of them, complete woman yet in a while I wake up to the fact that I having no that voluptuous thing I without ado lose my femininity.

Every man is feminine inside since he comes thru her

[BienvenuJDC]

Haha. Maybe. You gotta remember though that we all have a female chromosome. Uber-masculine men who never clean or cry do so more out of suppression than expression.

But I feel so proud that I made up the pattern as I went.

[Maximilianus]

My perfect breasts.
http://smilys.net/ernste_smilies/smiley4998.gif .... http://i1005.photobucket.com/albums/af178/maxicastro/Smileys/smiley_emoticons_thumbs-up_new.gif


I should start to focus on existentialism
Not really. The true concept of breast lies far beyond its curious underlying structure http://smilies-gifs.com/pensando/6pensando.gif

[Nostalgia375]

Haha. Maybe. You gotta remember though that we all have a female chromosome. Uber-masculine men who never clean or cry do so more out of suppression than expression.

Man! you are deep. Men, who are intellectual pygmies, discard their feminine selves.

[Helga]

cooking and sowing or knitting or anything like that is not feminine to me, maybe because I don't like doing any of it and the one thing I do is because I need to feed my kid. Feminine things, I don't think I really know what that is. I don't have perfect breast, and romantic comedies make me very depressed.I hate shopping for clothes and most of my clothes are from friends and relatives who stopped wearing them (or my mom when SHE thinks I need something).

I am not sure what I could say is my most feminine feature, the most girly thing about me is probably that I love shopping underwear, no idea why, just do. Although I tend to buy boxers in the men's department.

[Bluehound]

Dressing up definitely makes me feel feminine. I spend alot of time in jeans and hoodies, so when I do make an effort I feel much more girly.
A hot scented bath , nice underwear, stockings and suspenders, a pretty dress and some heels. Its like putting on a superhero outfit, you feel great. And my husband appreciates it all the more because I don't look like that all the time.
Being on a date with a guy who cant keep his eyes or his hands off you, yeah that makes me feel all woman.

[Buh4Bee]

My perfect breasts.

:blush2:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F57P9C4SAW4

[JuniperWoolf]

Haha. Maybe. You gotta remember though that we all have a female chromosome.

Also, you and I had the same gender for the first six weeks of our gestation periods until your Y chromosome started secreting chemicals which altered your development. If your endocrine system had been inhibited, you'd have a vagina (but your ovaries wouldn't work). That's why you have nipples.

http://newton.dep.anl.gov/askasci/mole00/mole00074.htm

Anyway, I don't feel female. I don't feel like either gender.

Curious.

[Varenne Rodin]

:blush2:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F57P9C4SAW4

..and I'm a California girl! That's the first time I've ever heard a Katy Perry song. Not my thing, but I love the video. It's like they robbed my cosplay wardrobe.

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

Also, you and I had the same gender for the first six weeks of our gestation periods until your Y chromosome started secreting chemicals which altered your development. If your endocrine system had been inhibited, you'd have a vagina (but your ovaries wouldn't work). That's why you have nipples.

If I'm nit mistaken, the penis and clitoris are pretty much the same organ that is changed by those same chemicals, no?

[Jack of Hearts]

From Masters & Johnson:

The head of the penis is anagolous to the clitoris. The foreskin is anagolous to the clitoral hood. The shaft is anagolous to the vagina.



- Facts of Parts

[Haunted]

not having perfect breasts.

very clever Del

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

I was 99% sure I was right, but didn't want to risk looking like an idiot by stating that as fact. And I'm too lazy to look it up, so thanks JoH.

[tonywalt]

Women feel feminine when you run your fingers through their hair at the base of their neck, slowly but surely, then gently tighten your fingers and gently pull...then start with the other hand..same thing...

[Jack of Hearts]

Women feel feminine when you run your fingers through their hair at the base of their neck, slowly but surely, then gently tighten your fingers and gently pull...then start with the other hand..same thing...

That seems weird and creepy and like something you'd do to a cat and not a person. But hey, it's the 21st century, to each their own.





J

[tonywalt]

That seems weird and creepy and like something you'd do to a cat and not a person. But hey, it's the 21st century, to each their own.





J

Controlled hair pulling...that goes way before this century..been going on for centuries.

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

Pigtails can come especially in handy for certain . . . things.

[JuniperWoolf]

If I'm nit mistaken, the penis and clitoris are pretty much the same organ that is changed by those same chemicals, no?

Sort of. Your shaft is our vaginal canal, but the nerve endings in the penis are derived from the nerve cluster that makes up the clitoris.

[YesNo]

Not being female, I don't think I should try to answer the OP's question. The Katy Perry video was amazing, Buh4Bee. I'll have to listen again to see if I can catch the lyrics. The eye-candy was a bit too distracting the first time around.

However, I did find this video, uploaded by amandalea85, that is her recitation of Kim Addonizio's What Do Women Want which might be close to what Addonizio would provide as an answer to the question, but who knows? By the way, I think this is one of Addonizio's best poems as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gf3S4yPSybY&feature=related

[Buh4Bee]

Controlled hair pulling...that goes way before this century..been going on for centuries.

I do this with my two year old. He says, "Momma, tingle!" And puts my hand on his head. It is a very effective way to relax a person.

[Jack of Hearts]

Not being female, I don't think I should try to answer the OP's question. The Katy Perry video was amazing, Buh4Bee. I'll have to listen again to see if I can catch the lyrics. The eye-candy was a bit too distracting the first time around.

However, I did find this video, uploaded by amandalea85, that is her recitation of Kim Addonizio's What Do Women Want which might be close to what Addonizio would provide as an answer to the question, but who knows? By the way, I think this is one of Addonizio's best poems as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gf3S4yPSybY&feature=related

She's got spunk.








J

[ClaesGefvenberg]

Is it a film, book, the caresses of your man or what?I couldn't say what would make me feel feminine, but if I find out I want it caught and shot...

/Claes

[prendrelemick]

Feminine women are a problem to us manly chaps. We get urges. We want to protect them. We want to kill an animal and lay it at their feet, then carry them off to our well appointed cave.

The trouble is, this dosn't quite square with today's social mores.

[tonywalt]

I do this with my two year old. He says, "Momma, tingle!" And puts my hand on his head. It is a very effective way to relax a person.

It is, very primal technique. There is a little song to go with it, I will sing it another time.

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

What is the YouTube video called, Buh4Bee (or anyone else). The link isn't working on my iPad.

[tonywalt]

Feminine women are a problem to us manly chaps. We get urges. We want to protect them. We want to kill an animal and lay it at their feet, then carry them off to our well appointed cave.

The trouble is, this dosn't quite square with today's social mores.

Use humour after offering the kill. Let her eat before you, then use wit and charm to create a comfort zone. They will gladly follow you to your cave, but do not reveal your club - could scare 'em. Make sure your cave is clean and in a good location, the size of the cave can be a factor.

If they see that you are a good provider of meats, skins, and ornaments, along with good ability to get along with the other members of the tribe - you should do fine. Social mores have not changed that much.....

[Emil Miller]

There are some hilarious replies to this thread. This one must go into the Memorable Posts' section.


I am not sure what I could say is my most feminine feature, the most girly thing about me is probably that I love shopping underwear, no idea why, just do. Although I tend to buy boxers in the men's department.

Helga's posts are like something out of Alice in Wonderland, they just get..... 'curiouser and curiouser.'


Dressing up definitely makes me feel feminine.
...stockings and suspenders,

Stop it! I say, stop it!


Being on a date with a guy who cant keep his eyes or his hands off you, yeah that makes me feel all woman.

Sounds like he feels all woman too.



What I admire in women are her breasts and that is where people fix their eyes on not offensively. They blossom and can tantalize any onlookers. They are their arties, their biggies. No women can feel feminine if they have no them. When I engage in chattering with them I feel I am part of them, complete woman yet in a while I wake up to the fact that I having no that voluptuous thing I without ado lose my femininity.

I've got GCHQ working on this one.

[JuniperWoolf]

If they see that you are a good provider of meats, skins, and ornaments, along with good ability to get along with the other members of the tribe - you should do fine. Social mores have not changed that much.....

:yesnod: Also, it doesn't hurt to challenge the alpha once in a while.

[tonywalt]

:yesnod: Also, it doesn't hurt to challenge the alpha once in a while.


Very true. Sometimes you can gain demonstrate high value if you can defuse a situation with a another alpha male through social skill and finesse. The female will find this attractive as it demonstrates leadership skill. If that does not work then opt for outright confrontation.

Having said that your ability to interact with Alphas and Betas and all in between will be watched carefully by female, as it could well determine her lot.

Happy hunting and gathering!

[Helga]

There are some hilarious replies to this thread. This one must go into the Memorable Posts' section.


Helga's posts are like something out of Alice in Wonderland, they just get..... 'curiouser and curiouser.'




Hey, they expect girls to wear flowers or lace and kittens but the guys get star wars! that's just not fair, I have the lace too but my R2-D2 is way cooler.

this is not the first time I have been compared to Alice though.

[Emil Miller]

Hey, they expect girls to wear flowers or lace and kittens but the guys get star wars! that's just not fair, I have the lace too but my R2-D2 is way cooler.

this is not the first time I have been compared to Alice though.

When the guys start wearing flowers or lace and kittens, that's when I head for the door.
Anyhow, here's something that makes me feel masculine. I bet she's not wearing boxer shorts.

http://img835.imageshack.us/img835/6039/201162602923japanesegir.jpg

[Jack of Hearts]

Sounds like he feels all woman too.

lol nice.











J

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

Hey, they expect girls to wear flowers or lace and kittens but the guys get star wars! that's just not fair, I have the lace too but my R2-D2 is way cooler.

this is not the first time I have been compared to Alice though.

A woman wearing Star Wars apperel would, and does, turn me on more than flowers or lace.

[BienvenuJDC]

http://thecontaminated.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/star_wars_soldiers_girls_2.jpg

http://img.costumecraze.com/images/vendors/rubies/888611c-large.jpg

I'm not sure what you mean, Mutatis...

[qimissung]

Attention. Attention would make me feel feminine. It's like my favorite quote from "Death of a Salesman": "Attention must be paid."

But saying "Attention makes me feel feminine" makes me think of attention as a person who holds a gun on you, "making" you feel feminine.

But my answer stands. Attention. Attention would make me feel feminine. That is all.

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

http://thecontaminated.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/star_wars_soldiers_girls_2.jpg

http://img.costumecraze.com/images/vendors/rubies/888611c-large.jpg

I'm not sure what you mean, Mutatis...

Again, schwing.

[Helga]

I have always wanted the gold bikini, but I guess it's uncomfortable to wear on a daily basis. I do have a star trek dress, from the original series, won a costume competition in, granted all the judges were 18 or 19 year old guys but I won.

I guess I have to agree with qimi, attention would probably make me feel as giddy as a schoolgirl

[OrphanPip]

Isn't she a little busty for a storm trooper?

[Alexander III]

Isn't she a little busty for a storm trooper?

Political correctness, even darth Vadar was forced not to discriminate between men and women when selecting storm troopers.

[PoeticPassions]

Make-up, high heels, pretty dresses, getting my nails done (which I very rarely do)... they all make me feel feminine. But also holding a baby, dancing, having a man brush a strand of hair out of my face... I like to embrace my femininity. But I do think that often there are traits that are expected from women or deemed feminine (vs. masculine) which I do not agree with... All of these are social constructs of course, which is fine in some sense, but these constructs should not bind us and limit us in our wishes, desires, intellectual capacities and behaviors.

[Buh4Bee]

When I dress up in my French maid costume and dust my husband off. Hahaha!

[BienvenuJDC]

Make-up, high heels, pretty dresses, getting my nails done (which I very rarely do)... they all make me feel feminine. But also holding a baby, dancing, having a man brush a strand of hair out of my face... I like to embrace my femininity. But I do think that often there are traits that are expected from women or deemed feminine (vs. masculine) which I do not agree with... All of these are social constructs of course, which is fine in some sense, but these constructs should not bind us and limit us in our wishes, desires, intellectual capacities and behaviors.

I just might try that brushing the hair from a lady's face. So help me out here...if I want to get the attention of a young lady, what should I do?

[Emil Miller]

I just might try that brushing the hair from a lady's face. So help me out here...if I want to get the attention of a young lady, what should I do?

You could do worse than getting out of Pennsylvania.

[Buh4Bee]

Bien- ARen't you married with children??

[OrphanPip]

Isn't she a little busty for a storm trooper?

You know, I agonized over whether I should use "busty" or "short" to make the allusion more obvious. Oh well.

[Varenne Rodin]

I just might try that brushing the hair from a lady's face. So help me out here...if I want to get the attention of a young lady, what should I do?

Being yourself is the best way to eventually connect with someone with common interests, if you're looking for something long term. Common interests are really important for sustaining relationships. The best way to attract someone initially is to forget about trying to attract, and just work on yourself until you're confident in all areas.

[BienvenuJDC]

You know, I agonized over whether I should use "busty" or "short" to make the allusion more obvious. Oh well.

I think that the entire intent of that costume was the bust.


Bien- ARen't you married with children??

Technically I'm still married, but my wife had an affair and took the children to another state....and the courts let her. (no, I'm not bitter at the courts for allowing such an irresponsible thing.)

[qimissung]

And people wonder why we don't quite trust the law.

I am so sorry, Bienvenu. You seem like a good father.

[JuniperWoolf]

My friend Dylan says that if you go to any comicon, you'll find probably 15-20 slave Princess Leias.

[PoeticPassions]

Technically I'm still married, but my wife had an affair and took the children to another state....and the courts let her. (no, I'm not bitter at the courts for allowing such an irresponsible thing.)

What?? When did this happen? I'm sorry Bien... :(

as for attracting a lady... well like someone noted, confidence is important. And small gestures count too.

[Buh4Bee]

So sorry Bien, I didn't know! Hope you are well.

[Scheherazade]

Is it a film, book, the caresses of your man or what?Discuss!