Mercy

[Delta40]

What is mercy and how far are people prepared to go concerning it? I know euthanasia for example is a contentious issue and I wonder not so much about the lawfulness of it but what it says about us as individuals in terms of being merciful.

What other instances are there where mercy is considered to be something different?

[Buh4Bee]

As one not inclined to offer mercy very often, this question made me stop in my tracks and think. One aspect of mercy implies that one person has power over a weaker person. Within the confines of this power dynamic, it is assumed that mercy means the more powerful does not inflict harm, but withholds an act of oppression.

I think of many relationships that are not on equal standing, such as a parent-child, grandparent-grandchild- and such family relationships, others may be teacher-student, therapist-patient, boss-employee. I don't think it is in our inherent nature to be kind, but through empathy training, individuals can be taught to be merciful and kind.

I am going through this with my son currently. He wants to "doom!" on the dog and grab it. It really hurts the dog and he is doing it at daycare. We have been very stern with him. Often, I want to just grab him and spank him, but I remember my teacher training and restrain myself from using such inappropriate contact. That might not be the best example of mercy, but the question allowed me to make this connection.