I need answers.

[virginiawang]

My boyfriend is a gangster. I love him.

[MystyrMystyry]

Is he actually a gangster?

What does 'sth' mean?

What's the lie?

Yes I see now - you want answers

What's stupider than stupid? The stupid who hangs out with stupid!

Is it better to be smart or stupid? Smart - and smart doesn't hang out with stupid! That's why smart's smart!

Smart sees stupid for what stupid is, but stupid plays with smart's brain as a way of controlling smart, and the more confused smart gets the more control stupid gains, and the more dependent smart becomes on expecting stupid to offer rare compliments and show rare affection stupid gains ever more control

Stupid is lonely and scared of being alone which is why stupid needs to control - but stupid won't change to being smart any time in the near future

When smart spends time alone, smart's emotional/intellectual balance returns and can see what stupid is actually doing as well as what stupid actually is

Stupid will waste smart's time

Stupid will do anything to take advantage of smart

Stupid isn't asking other stupids how best to control smart - stupid is just operating on what works


What smart does is ask advice

But smart will become stupid if smart ignores any and all advice

Sometimes smart needs a kick up the arse to get smart's brains functioning properly

Many times in life when you tell someone they are a manipulative dickhead and get out of my life, you will realise it's the best thing you can do and should've done it a long time earlier

[Brock]

My boyfriend is a gangster. Why does he always lie to me? He said he will pay me for my writing and he suggested that I can write anything for him. Why did he lie? Is money sth very real and serious, too serious to be touched upon, and our love nothing? Do I have to wait a bit? All opinions are welcomed.

a) What kind of gangster?

b) Isn't getting paid for your writing a good thing? Especially if you can write anything?

c) Why would you have to wait? Wait for what?

I'm intrigued..

Some good advice by MystyrMystyry.

[papayahed]

ok, let me get this right - He said he would pay you to write anything, you wrote something and he didn't pay you? Did you guys agree on a payment schedule or rate?

Is this your only source of income? That would be bad.

[virginiawang]

a) What kind of gangster?

b) Isn't getting paid for your writing a good thing? Especially if you can write anything?

c) Why would you have to wait? Wait for what?

I'm intrigued..

Some good advice by MystyrMystyry.

He is a member of a gang here in my country. He said he was happy because he can take care of me in a real sense, and he wanted me to write anything for him. wait for him, and his promise.

I am sad. It seems that he lied again. What do you think?

[JuniperWoolf]

What do you think?

I'm thinking: which country do you live in? Why are you dating someone in a gang? Why are you asking for advice on something so bizzare when the answer would obviously just be "stop dating gang members?" Does "gang" mean the same thing in your country that it does in mine? I'm also wondering how many things are being lost in translation in your portrayal of the situation in this thread. Maybe "gang" is the English word that your poorly-written English dictionary gave you for your language's word for "band." Or, maybe you aren't really dating a "gangster" and this thread is an exercise in creative writing (a vast chunk of this website actually being dedicated to the expression of the imagination, that wouldn't be too strange an occurance).

Anyway, that's what I'm thinking. Intriguing thread Virginawang.

[virginiawang]

People who commit crimes on a regular basis are members of a gang. Is that clear enough? I love him.

[papayahed]

People who commit crimes on a regular basis are members of a gang. Is that clear enough? I love him.

I guess that answers your original question.

[virginiawang]

Papayahed, I do not quite understand you.

I've deleted my original question.

[papayahed]

Papayahed, I do not quite understand you.

I've deleted my original question.

Sorry I didn't realize you deleted your original question.