peter7805
05-23-2010, 10:46 PM
We can only be husband and wife but we can’t be friends anyway.
Maybe it is unbelieveable that I describe the relationship between my wife and I like this ,but it is true .and I can not cheat myself and cover it everythere. And today I am going to say it out no matter what challenge that I must face in the future.
You know I always wonder if marriage can bring me the real happiness. And now it seems that the question troubles me has not got an clear answer yet. Sometimes I do fell happy,but most of the time I feel painful. Because marriage is not fully equal to love to some extent. For most people nowadays , maybe I should say some people ,but to the people all around me ,they have the surprising similarity; they live in just an marriage but not love.
It is not that important What love is and the most important thing is life . Some people will tell me this ,but they neglect one thing. That is life should be happy. So there is nothing wrong with love and it is the marriage that has a problem. The perfect marriage is the one which contains the true love. But many people say to me there is no true love in their marriage. And if there is something after, is not love but caring between family members and more a responsibilty than anthing else. So they are poor from the very beginning. And the pity will company them for the rest of their life whether they quit this relation or not.
And when they have a child , it really is a disaster. Because you are bond to a family and you can not cut this tie by your own hand. And so you stay and remain the husband of that woman who became your wife before .And you even don’t know how it happened to you at that moment. And in fact you are just the father of your child.
But what is your soulmate? What you have is body of a woaman and when you have sex with her, it is just a body. It is only a desire which will dispear soon and indeed you are raped by that lust. The bitter fruit you must taste by yourself.
So friends, are you the one like me ? and I hope not. Whether you like it or not , I am giong on to tell my story tomorrow.
Maybe it is unbelieveable that I describe the relationship between my wife and I like this ,but it is true .and I can not cheat myself and cover it everythere. And today I am going to say it out no matter what challenge that I must face in the future.
You know I always wonder if marriage can bring me the real happiness. And now it seems that the question troubles me has not got an clear answer yet. Sometimes I do fell happy,but most of the time I feel painful. Because marriage is not fully equal to love to some extent. For most people nowadays , maybe I should say some people ,but to the people all around me ,they have the surprising similarity; they live in just an marriage but not love.
It is not that important What love is and the most important thing is life . Some people will tell me this ,but they neglect one thing. That is life should be happy. So there is nothing wrong with love and it is the marriage that has a problem. The perfect marriage is the one which contains the true love. But many people say to me there is no true love in their marriage. And if there is something after, is not love but caring between family members and more a responsibilty than anthing else. So they are poor from the very beginning. And the pity will company them for the rest of their life whether they quit this relation or not.
And when they have a child , it really is a disaster. Because you are bond to a family and you can not cut this tie by your own hand. And so you stay and remain the husband of that woman who became your wife before .And you even don’t know how it happened to you at that moment. And in fact you are just the father of your child.
But what is your soulmate? What you have is body of a woaman and when you have sex with her, it is just a body. It is only a desire which will dispear soon and indeed you are raped by that lust. The bitter fruit you must taste by yourself.
So friends, are you the one like me ? and I hope not. Whether you like it or not , I am giong on to tell my story tomorrow.