Are you Submissive or Dominant

[stephofthenight]

Submissive, Dominant, both, neither?

[JBI]

Neither - for instance, when it comes to anything, generally I am fiercely independent, and like to have my opinion voiced over others. However, when it comes to relationships, I think I've come to the conclusion that things a) run far smoother, and with less effort and b) turn out far better if I just let whomever I am seeing make most of the decisions - unless of course you are talking about sex, in which case, I'm not into all them whips and junk (and I don't think I could take people who actually are that seriously) though I do work hard to please.

What is dominion then? Well, I certainly am not the domineering type, yet I am also not the type to sit and get bossed or bullied - I think, like most people, I simply don't care about most things, and, I think like most Canadians in particularly, have very little interest for power or control - I think I'm a pretty content fellow, in that regard, in the sense that I don't particularly need much more, beyond a few simple things to be happy, and I don't have much problem with control.

Of course though, I doubt anyone will put submissive down - the sexual stereotypes one thinks are want to make one embarrassed.

[stephofthenight]

Lol, in truth I didn't think about the two ways, I ment in life in general. Sexualy I can be submissive but I tend to play dominant... In life I am dominant... I guess I should have thought about that...

JBI I am sure its not that much work for you to please. :p

[Zee.]

what a

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question

[blazeofglory]

I seem to be dominant in point of fact by nature. I know when someone dominates me it pains me. I am rather argumentative. I do not take things easily. I have no sense of humor.

I am rather serious in nature and take even petty things with an air of seriousness in point of fact.

One cannot be submissive or serious at the same time. Given my overall nature I should confess that I am dominant.

[Maximilianus]

I'd rather keep a balance. I don't like people telling me what to do, say, let alone what to think, and that's why I don't like telling it either. I can accept advices though, and I can even follow them, but only when I agree and when I am asked politely. I go with good manners and freedom, all the time! :nod:

[Mathor]

what a

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is that a load of crap?

[Maximilianus]

I was about to ask jean for the meaning, too (I'm rather slow today for pic language :p)

[Zee.]

Lima, Max, Lima.


THEY ARE SAUCES OBVIOUSLY GUYS.

Like, what a saucy thread. Come on, keep up

[Maximilianus]

Lima, Max, Lima.

:blush: Sorry, I won't do it again. Promise and swear! ;)


THEY ARE SAUCES OBVIOUSLY GUYS.

Like, what a saucy thread. Come on, keep up

:p Yup, got it! :)

[*Classic*Charm*]

Lima, Max, Lima.


THEY ARE SAUCES OBVIOUSLY GUYS.

Like, what a saucy thread. Come on, keep up

That's funny. I thought you meant a "loaded question"

[Maximilianus]

That's funny. I thought you meant a "loaded question"

Nope, lima's subtlety goes beyond the jar :p

[PoeticPassions]

haha @ lima! :D (good one) I thought of everything but sauce... like "what a jarry question", um no, that makes no sense.. or what a condiment question... nope no sense again.. and so on hahahaha

For my answer to the question: I put a mix. I think generally in life I am pretty dominant and in most relationships. But sexually I would say 80% of the time I like to be submissive. or maybe 70%... ok, that's hard to judge. :blush:

But I do like others to make decisions as well because I am generally indecisive... so yeah, I am both. :)

[dodong]

I'm 80% submissive..20% dominant...and I'm a guy...should I be embarrassed?

[Maximilianus]

... But sexually I would say 80% of the time I like to be submissive. or maybe 70%... ok, that's hard to judge. :blush:

Uh, huh! So you want your guy to handle the hard work for you so you can comfortably enjoy a vacation, uh? Where's the team spirit? How naughty of you! :lol: :lol:


I'm 80% submissive..20% dominant...and I'm a guy...should I be embarrassed?

Of course you should! Shame on you! So you want your girl to handle the hard work for you so you can comfortably enjoy a vacation, uh? Where's the team spirit? How naughty of you! :lol: :lol:

[dodong]

Uh, huh! So you want your guy to handle the hard work for you so you can comfortably enjoy a vacation, uh? Where's the team spirit? How naughty of you! :lol: :lol:



Of course you should! Shame on you! So you want your girl to handle the hard work for you so you can comfortably enjoy a vacation, uh? Where's the team spirit? How naughty of you! :lol: :lol:

umm..ok coach...I'll try to make it fifty-fifty...:banana::banana::banana:

[Maximilianus]

umm..ok coach...I'll try to make it fifty-fifty...:banana::banana::banana:

You'd better! ... 'Cause I'll be watching your moves! :lol: :lol:

[Joreads]

I'm 80% submissive..20% dominant...and I'm a guy...should I be embarrassed?

No you sound like the perfect guy to me they should all be like that:lol:

[qimissung]

When it comes to living with people, I want everyone to be happy; but if I feel taken advantage of, then I put my foot down. It does help to find the humor of the situation.:)

[Maximilianus]

No you sound like the perfect guy to me they should all be like that:lol:
Hey, he's not the only perfect guy... I can be like that too :lol:

[blazeofglory]

I am both, submissive and dominant. It changes depending on the situation.

[SentimentalSlop]

I tend to be submissive with most people. However, that doesn't mean I'm some kind of door-mat.

[tonywalt]

I like to take turns with Dominance and Submission - it's good to mix it up. Keep safe!!

[Delta40]

I like to think that all evil dictators are sexually submissive.

[cacian]

I like to think that all evil dictators are sexually submissive.

interesting. i'd like to think they are neither. inactive is the word.

[free]

A matter of agreement. :) Depends on the partner and kind of relationship. Theoretically speaking, it is a dialogue not spoken with words.

[cacian]

A matter of agreement. :) Depends on the partner and kind of relationship. Theoretically speaking, it is a dialogue not spoken with words.

a dialogue not spoken with words. do you mean it occurs naturally without one telling the other who is what?

[Snowqueen]

Submissive, Dominant, both, ?

A bit of both.

[Sophia21]

Submissive

[free]

a dialogue not spoken with words. do you mean it occurs naturally without one telling the other who is what?

Yes. From my point of view, it needs no words to find out who is what in this specific situation.

[cacian]

Yes. From my point of view, it needs no words to find out who is what in this specific situation.

I see. the first time someone asked that same OP question I did not understand what they meant and that was roughly about 4 years ago.
I do not claim to understand still. I guess I take people for what they are not what they like to call themselves. :)

[faithosaurus]

I tend to be more submissive, but the bad thing is that most of the time it's because I just don't feel like fighting back. Sexually, I'm a mix. Depends my mood.

[liza]

submissive, it is easier .. in every aspect :banana:

[Buh4Bee]

In friendships, I can be dominant, but I try to not be so. I can be submissive, but only for a brief time. In this way, I can be a loner!

[Pensive]

Very submissive, generally. And I am also attracted to submissive people which means nobody is willing to take an initiative and nothing ever happens! :D
However there are some values I hold on to very strongly and would never give up on.