Torn between dream and reality

[blazeofglory]

I oftentimes am confused. I do not know whether I am in a dream conversing with you, or in my wakefulness. I am unsure as to what discerns this reality from a dream. In dreams also we feel everything that we do in realities.

We forge relationship in dreams.

In fact there is a very thin wall between dreams and realities.

In point of fact what we call dreams maybe a dream.

[hoope]

Do u mean as when we sleep. ? or dreams as what we wish for.. ?

coz i think if its the second one.. then there are always a conflicts between the both... Some ppl seek perfection, they try to be the top & perfect in everything they do.. work.. study.. whateva.. They even join a field just which they dont like.. . hence they end up realizing that this not what they dreamed of .... success has many meaning and definition but the best one i can chose.. is" To enjoy and be happy whilst you go in the path of your dream" dnt say i am goign throughhardship.. inorder to make my dream true..
there r two main reasons that may be a reason for us ot trying to make it ture.. ONE : FEAR OF FUTURE
SECOND : SADNESS ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED INTHE PAST..
all this effects our future.. & our vision towards how we want it to like.

failure & disappoint ment also play rule. & causes us to be depressed , in deep sad. ..& despair...

There are steps that i read which makes dreams come true:
1- to knwo what i want .. what u wanna be.. & stop complaining .."Just make a wish"

2- to believe in what you want.. Done just wish .. but also believe in what u wish... Dont rush to make it.. and dont even suspect it for once coz that may shake you.

3- to live the feelings of dream in your life ..live with pleasure till you reach it.. dnt live in suffer..

4-There are many reason for negative thinking in our mind that always tend to stop us.. like fear .. depression, anxiety.. etc........it may indicate that you are in the wrong place.. or ur abilities dont qualify this.. you ahve to be in somewhere else.. this is an indication.. because ur dream shouldn't make u feel that way.


And i believe that without dreams.. you can't make a future..

finally let me share this quote.. which i forgot who said it:
" As long as you have memories ; yesterday remains. As long as you have hope ; tomorrow awaits"

[NikolaiI]

What occurs to mind is if life is a dream, can we wake up? If we we wake up, then that sort of shows that life is a dream. :) Many individuals throughout history have woken up. Christ, Krishna, Buddha, Zarathustra, all woke up, attained enlightenment.

Dear friend, what occurs to my mind is an experience I had, of being transcendental to my life. I felt as if I was the author of my life. In my heart I know that this is true. I am transcendental, you are, everyone is, if they can realize it. I am the author of my life, just as you are the author of your life. By this I mean transcendental, as if reading a book which you have written; which you can write. Your life is a single sentence, and you are holding the pen, and you are in the complete bliss of self-knowledge. That is what I mean.