If your roommate always lie

[bluelala]

My roommate always lie to me. I do not mind she always telling lie, because it is none of my business. However, I hate the person who is dishonest~:flare: What will you do if you come to this situation? Thank you for helping me~

[Annamariah]

Have you ever asked her why she's lying all the time? Perhaps it would help if you two had a civilized conversation about the matter.

[JBI]

Move her stuff around, then lie and say she did it. She'll get the point, or get angry. Either way, there will be a 2-5 minute period, before you actually start pulling each other's hair that you can say anything you want to her, no matter how rude it is.

[Scheherazade]

Either way, there will be a 2-5 minute period, before you actually start pulling each other's hair that you can say anything you want to her, no matter how rude it is.Speaking from personal experience? ;)

If someone is lying to you personally, I think they are making it your business. It might be a good idea to bring the issue up gently on a lie about "less" important subject by saying "Oh, I thought you had said that... Did you not mention that...?" At least, your friend will realise that you are "onto" them and their lies.

[wilbur lim]

Bluelala,your roommate is literally dishonest and not being candid.The likelihood is that she might have an aversion to you,and you should endeavour to tell her about it.Should your friendship with her break,do not wept,this is not critical and paramount.

Get on with your life,and in no time,she will be friends with you again.

[ClaesGefvenberg]

What will you do if you come to this situation? Thank you for helping meI have had similar issues at work not so long ago: In this particular case (you can not always do that) I simply stopped asking the person concerned any questions at all, right down to the time of day, while still remaining civil (saying hello when we meet and so on). I also disregard anything he tells me, because he has already proven to me that he is not to be trusted.

What it boils down to is that I don't waste my time on people who tell me lies (particularly not if it is an every day occurence), and this was a bad, albeit rare case.

/Claes

[bluelala]

Thank you! you are quite right!

[blazeofglory]

Lies are what enrich us with philosophies and disciplines of knowledge.