The most striking feature?

[LadyW]

When you first meet someone, mainly a potential partner, which feature do you always observe first and why?
Please note: The feature can be a personality, looks factor etc etc.

For me, it has always been the eyes. The colour, the intensity of a look and more importantly, whether there is any depth/mystery and even benevolence in those eyes. I also pay attention to hands as well... not sure why to be honest. I also gather alot of information from a person about their laugh - how often they laugh, the volume of the laugh and the sound.

[Pensive]

Evil in them. Evil attracts me. :p

[Koa]

Lol evil too.
I only look to feel relaxed with them, if someone makes me feel good then I fall in love LOL

Physically, eyes and HANDS. Oh my god, hands...

[pussnboots]

definitely the eyes. You can read so much into a persons eye contact.

[LadyW]

definitely the eyes. You can read so much into a persons eye contact.
Yes deffinitely... do you search for a particular colour?

[mmanuelap]

For me, it has always been the eyes. The colour, the intensity of a look and more importantly, whether there is any depth/mystery and even benevolence in those eyes.

first would definitely be the eyes. after that I search for what the person makes me feel or do. Like laugh, or feel secure, or to be able to be myself in all aspects.

Can't say I search one particular colour of the eye, but blue ones have always makes me shiver! :)

[Lote-Tree]

When you first meet someone, mainly a potential partner, which feature do you always observe first and why?
Please note: The feature can be a personality, looks factor etc etc.


Angelina Jolie, Kate Beckinsale, Kate Winslet, Jessica Alba... :D

[SleepyWitch]

For me, it has always been the eyes. The colour, the intensity of a look and more importantly, whether there is any depth/mystery and even benevolence in those eyes. I also pay attention to hands as well... not sure why to be honest.
same here :) that mainly goes for crushes, though... I mean I tend to have crushes on people with deep, intense, mysterious eyes... eyes can be misleading, though, the biggest *rsewhole guys can have the most intense look... My hubby's eyes are not that special, but they look sincere and that's a bonus in someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, isn't it? :idea:

[Lote-Tree]

eyes can be misleading, though,


Eyes are the mirror to the soul?

[SleepyWitch]

Eyes are the mirror to the soul?

yeah, well.. with most people I guess that's true. but my Mr Crush has the most intense eyes in the world but he can be so superficial and/or nasty in many respects...

[Lote-Tree]

yeah, well.. with most people I guess that's true. but my Mr Crush has the most intense eyes in the world but he can be so superficial and/or nasty in many respects...

You must been looking at the wrong "eyes" ;-)

[Virgil]

Breasts. :p :lol:

Edit: Well, someone had to say it. :D

[Lily Adams]

Eyes are okay, but it's not the first thing I notice.

It's all about the chins. I like nice, masculine cleft chins.

But chins and glasses are a tie. I won't look a guy unless he has glasses. Usually.


Breasts.

:rolleyes:

Also: first thing I thought when I came here on LitNet was "What's with all the blue question mark thingies?" :lol:

[Lote-Tree]

Evil in them. Evil attracts me. :p

I must stay clear of you Pensy because I am quite Evil :D

[crazefest456]

For me, most of the time I hardly even look at the face...If I get this weird magnetic vibe (don't laugh :P) from that person, usually through something I hear or whatever action that guy does, that sort of attracts me more..

[Lote-Tree]

Breasts. :p :lol:

Edit: Well, someone had to say it. :D

Even I would not stoop to this level Virgilus! (and I have a cesspool of a mind! ) :D

You quite disgust me :D

I am glad that I am not a women :D

I am just kiddin :D

[Lote-Tree]

For me, most of the time I hardly even look at the face...If I get this weird magnetic vibe (don't laugh :P)


You mean like Magneto in X-Men? You start pulling metal objects to yourself :D



from that person, usually through something I hear or whatever action that guy does, that sort of attracts me more..

Like speak in a Deep Voice like "I lurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrve you" :D

[crazefest456]

You mean like Magneto in X-Men? You start pulling metal objects to yourself :D
What? that's what I meant...I turn into a silly vortex with silverware and paperclips hanging on to me..:D


Like speak in a Deep Voice like "I lurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrve you" :D
:alien: it's freaky cuz every guy has that deep voice in my school and they're only 13-17

[Lote-Tree]

What? that's what I meant...I turn into a silly vortex with silverware and paperclips hanging on to me..:D


Ha ha :D Keep away from metal objects - they are not men :D



:alien: it's freaky cuz every guy has that deep voice in my school and they're only 13-17

Ha ha :D Then I guess you either have fun time or hard time in avoiding the temptation :D

[crazefest456]

Ha ha :D Then I guess you either have fun time or hard time in avoiding the temptation :D

:sick: eww, it's scary, I feel like I'm talking to 30-somethings....:lol:

[Lote-Tree]

:sick: eww, it's scary, I feel like I'm talking to 30-somethings....:lol:

Witticisms is ageless ;-)

[Koa]

I was convinced that Lote-Tree was a girl...:confused:

[crazefest456]

:D same here...I feel really dumb complaining about deep voices..

[amalia1985]

Eyes!! Always!!!

[Bakiryu]

Sense of humor and intelligence. I don't really care if he or she is good looking as long as they can make me laugh or impress me. :lol: I'm such a nerd.

But Angelina J. is Bakiryu approved :p

[pussnboots]

Yes deffinitely... do you search for a particular colour?

No but dark brown are nice

[pussnboots]

Breasts. :p :lol:

Edit: Well, someone had to say it. :D

Leave it to a man to say something like this. You didn't see any of us women post anything referring to the male anatomy. Sorry about that people.

[Janine]

Leave it to a man to say something like this. You didn't see any of us women post anything referring to the male anatomy. Sorry about that people.

Yeah, really....I entirely agree with you, pussnboots!...I don't see women stooping to such levels of humor, Virg. You should be :blush: ing....:lol:


For me it is blue eyes and a great sense of humor; also someone who looks one right in the eyes when they speak - direct. They seem to be more honest. A nice handshake is great on first meeting...respectful.....and of course intelligence and a sense of class is vitally important.

[LadyW]

Leave it to a man to say something like this. You didn't see any of us women post anything referring to the male anatomy. Sorry about that people.
Bravo pussnboots! Its just bluddy well typical isnt it... pfft. Of course relationships are partly founded on physical attraction and appreciation of a male/female body but for heavens sake, they're just breasts man!
This is a topic that absolutely baffles me actually...
Seriously, what is more important, looks OR personality? (not suggesting you can't have both mind.)
But can you imagine a relationship with a woman who was stunning but totally... dim or even malevolent?
Either way, I won't fuss too much over it.
Instead Im going to kick off an entirely different argument :D
People, whats the view on porn these days?

[LadyW]

Angelina Jolie, Kate Beckinsale, Kate Winslet, Jessica Alba... :D
Do not even get me started on Jessica Alba... possibley one of the most overrated woman of the century. I can't deny she is very beautiful but its all about jumping on the band wagon for drooling blithering idiots... no offence there Lote Tree.

[kilted exile]

The most important feature to me about a woman is the smile and cheekbones. A womans smile must be warm and full and the cheekbones should not be well defined.

Regarding the breasts thing, it is not so much size as proportionality to the rest of the body. (yeah, yeah oink oink):p

[LadyWentworth]

I have a bad habit of my eyes always looking quickly at different parts. First the teeth (he has to have good teeth). Next his shoulders. Then his hair. Finally, if all is approved by me, I quickly glance at his left hand. I have to see if there is a ring on the finger! Generally there is! :bawling:

[Virgil]

Leave it to a man to say something like this. You didn't see any of us women post anything referring to the male anatomy. Sorry about that people.


Yeah, really....I entirely agree with you, pussnboots!...I don't see women stooping to such levels of humor, Virg. You should be :blush: ing....:lol:



OK, but I bet most men were thinking it. ;)


To be h9nest, I don't think there is any single thing. It depends on the girl. Everyone has someting special and that's what one picks up on.

[LadyW]

OK, but I bet most men were thinking it. ;)


To be h9nest, I don't think there is any single thing. It depends on the girl. Everyone has someting special and that's what one picks up on.

Pfft... and those "most men" are the ones who are less likely to get the girls, what a poor show for them :) But yes, joking aside, I believe you are correct. Every individual has something special and unique about them that attracts another... well, I'd like to think so.

[livelaughlove]

Blue eyes. I don't limit my pool of men to just those who have blue eyes - how shallow would that be?! - but blue eyes are a bonus, definitely. I don't know why but they just electrify and intrigue me (probably because mine are brown).

And yes, definitely hands too. Hands and arms. I like tan, slightly vein-y arms... muscular doesn't hurt either lol...

But usually the first thing that gets me is their smile and personality - kindness - that's what I go for. Good looks are just a plus. =]

[Dori]

Physically, eyes and HANDS. Oh my god, hands...

What do you look for in a hand? (What an awkward question!) I love my hands, everything about them, but I don't think any women would find them particularly attractive.


Angelina Jolie, Kate Beckinsale, Kate Winslet, Jessica Alba... :D

I whole-heartedly agree. :lol: I couldn't resist posting this :D :
http://www.impawards.com/2001/posters/lara_croft_tomb_raider.jpg


Leave it to a man to say something like this. You didn't see any of us women post anything referring to the male anatomy. Sorry about that people.

Leave it to a woman (you are, I suppose?) to criticize a man for something completely natural. :p At least he was honest. :D As my track coach says, "Women: can't shoot 'em, can't shoot 'em." :lol:


OK, but I bet most men were thinking it. ;)

:blush: :lol: You caught me Virgil.

One last question: what is it with women and liking blue eyes? This puts me in quite a quandry, because I have brown eyes. :(

[mmanuelap]

Leave it to a woman (you are, I suppose?) to criticize a man for something completely natural. :p At least he was honest. :D

Well, I can assure you guys that we, women, do look for physical aspects in a man, but we don't put it first. We seek for basics, like character or something in his eyes or anything like that. Those other physical aspects just come as a big plus when the man has everything else.

At least most women are like that :p

[Bakiryu]

Well, I can assure you guys that we, women, do look for physical aspects in a man, but we don't put it first. We seek for basics, like character or something in his eyes or anything like that. Those other physical aspects just come as a big plus when the man has everything else.

At least most women are like that :p

well, I suppose that Tom Cruise is only famous because of all the gay men :p

[mmanuelap]

I particularly can't find Tom Cruise attractive :p

[Lily Adams]

First the teeth (he has to have good teeth).

I'm sort of weird this way, (well, weird again-no one has mentioned chins or glasses, I don't think) in the fact that I prefer crooked. It gives a nice shape to the lips.

Yeah, I'm really weird.

[Shalot]

The most striking feature? hmmm...I don't know. I know it when I see it though. It's been a while, but I think a good face is always very important. There is no certain color of hair, or certain type of face even. There's just a combination of facial features that combine in a certain way, that strikes me.
It's definitely all in the face though. I never look at a guy and think, "those are the most perfect calves. I must pursue that" (or any other body part for that matter). It's all in the face.

Actually, I am beyond striking features. That's the thing about being tired of everything.

[samercury]

Well, I can assure you guys that we, women, do look for physical aspects in a man, but we don't put it first. We seek for basics, like character or something in his eyes or anything like that. Those other physical aspects just come as a big plus when the man has everything else.

At least most women are like that :p

:goof: ...of course

[LadyWentworth]

I'm sort of weird this way, (well, weird again-no one has mentioned chins or glasses, I don't think) in the fact that I prefer crooked. It gives a nice shape to the lips.

Yeah, I'm really weird.

I don't think that is weird at all. It is just all a matter of preference. :) I will say, though, that I really like men with glasses. Always have.

[crazefest456]

One last question: what is it with women and liking blue eyes? This puts me in quite a quandry, because I have brown eyes. :(

I don't know, maybe it's because I live in ilinois or something, but alot of us girls don't care much about blue eyes...We're more into browns and greens...

[LadyWentworth]

I don't know, maybe it's because I live in ilinois or something, but alot of us girls don't care much about blue eyes...We're more into browns and greens...

Maybe it is a geographical thing! I live in Wisconsin and I am much more drawn to brown eyes. Then again, I tend to like the "dark" type. I have nothing against a blonde (the way that Robert Redford looks in "Barefoot in the Park" puts him pretty high on my list) but, I am more attracted to someone who has darker hair and darker eyes over the blonde hair/blue eyes guy.

[andave_ya]

Taste in books and music, lol! The only things I can talk about with any degree of surety and confidence! Am barely able to restrain myself from asking about those at first meeting!

[amanda_isabel]

interesting conversation in here, everyone!

features. hmm. i'm not really particular about features but for me the guy's i've liked seem to stand out. can't really pinpoint why, though, but i would have to say they're mainly personality based. based on observation i'm more of into the confident (not shy) guys who can make conversation with me anytime (though it would be okay if he got a little nervous!).

another thing i look for in guys is.. well, kinda weird maybe, but a guy has to smell good, lol. not the perfume kind of good, although i'm okay with perfume. but the type who smells clean (and almost like a baby, i guess!) .. but come on. if you intend to spend the rest of your life's nights in bed next to him he better be pleasant-smelling, lol..

the following are plus factors, the stuff i check for when i already notice the guy:

1. nice hands
2. nice feet

and.. something i just notice, not just on guys but on girls too:

3. the glutius maximus. not that it really matters, but it's just something i happen to notice, lol.

[aeroport]

The only thing that matters enough for me to mention is cheekbones. I can't even describe a particular way I like them to look; but if the cheekbones are in order, then all is well with the world. I do like glasses also - especially if it's an indication that she's ruined her eyes with reading, like me. I like darker hair and eyes, but I really don't care much about that.
But the cheekbones...!

[Lote-Tree]

I was convinced that Lote-Tree was a girl...:confused:

What made you think that! :D


:D same here...I feel really dumb complaining about deep voices..

Don't worry it happens all the time. May be it's because I am pro women ;-)



Sense of humor and intelligence. I don't really care if he or she is good looking as long as they can make me laugh or impress me. :lol: I'm such a nerd.


No women marries a comedian ;-) that's why comedians are such a sad bunch!




I can't deny she is very beautiful


That will do. Don't go any further :D



no offence there Lote Tree.

I am highly offended! You are dissing my dreams! :-(

[LadyW]

That will do. Don't go any further :D



I am highly offended! You are dissing my dreams! :-(

And you, Lote Tree are rattling my brain... She IS beautiful okay, I'm not blind. BUT she is highly overrated by millions of men and personally I find her rather obnoxious. She once had an interview claiming she didn't want to be seen as a "sex symbol" but more as a "serious actress". So the next logical step is to pose on the front of a playboy magazine then.... hmmmmm!
Terribley sorry to have offended you Lote :D although I'm sure I have put your "dreams" into perspective.

[SleepyWitch]

oooooh, how could I forget bellies? I like huggable, teddy bear potbellies (not the really large ones,though) :D

[LadyW]

Thats so cute Sleepywitch :)
I think my weird hand fetish has something to do with the way they move when writing and doing things (that sounds terrible... but I can assure you its all innocent). I can gather alot from a person. My boyfriend has the most beautiful hands... soft pale skin with long slender fingers - then bitten nails *rolls eyes*

[SleepyWitch]

hehee, my hubby (bf) has the funniest hands in the world. they have a life of their own :) often he sleeps with his index fingers poking out of the blanket at the top. it's so funny :)

my bf's beany fingers (he's a beany bear, that's why his fingers are beany fingers.. don't ask me what a beany bear is, it's a long story)
http://i118.photobucket.com/albums/o120/SleepyWitch/HPIM4240.jpg

[manolia]

When you first meet someone, mainly a potential partner, which feature do you always observe first and why?
Please note: The feature can be a personality, looks factor etc etc.


Sense of humour (a guy with a good sense of humour is definately intelligent, so you have two in one there ;) ). As for looks, i always fell for not so good looking guys (it seems that good looking men are stupid and boring *JOKING*). Anyway eyes is what i notice first ;)

[LadyW]

Sense of humour (a guy with a good sense of humour is definately intelligent, so you have two in one there ;) ). As for looks, i always fell for not so good looking guys (it seems that good looking men are stupid and boring *JOKING*). Anyway eyes is what i notice first ;)

THANKYOU, thats exactly what I'm saying. You could find a really really great looking guy but he could be a total bore or evil or just simply not for you. But yes, a good sense of humour is everything... basics of human bonding.

[Lote-Tree]

And you, Lote Tree are rattling my brain...


I hope in a good sense - Intellectual Stimulation perhaps :D



She IS beautiful okay, I'm not blind.


Bueno! I shall say no more :D

[chasestalling]

in men the eyes

in women the eyelids

[LadyW]

I hope in a good sense - Intellectual Stimulation perhaps :D
Bueno! I shall say no more :D

Like pulling teeth...
:P

[Lote-Tree]

Like pulling teeth...
:P

Come on lassie - I have seen you smile if not intellectual sitmulation! Lancelote's work is done :D

[LadyW]

Come on lassie - I have seen you smile if not intellectual sitmulation! Lancelote's work is done :D

Haha well you have provided me with a most stimulating argument I must admit.
One day when you least expect it, I shall be there waiting with my heavy book :D

[Lote-Tree]

Haha well you have provided me with a most stimulating argument I must admit.


There you have it. I rest my Lance :D



One day when you least expect it, I shall be there waiting with my heavy book :D

I hope Jessica Alba lands on me - some how -before then! :D

As for books. Put them away! You won't catch a man with that!

[LadyW]

There you have it. I rest my Lance :D

I hope Jessica Alba lands on me - some how -before then! :D

As for books. Put them away! You won't catch a man with that!

Now you're just being fanciful..
The woman is pregnant is she not?
:)
Hey, I would keep that lance up if I were you...
I'm waiting with my enormous heavy book and should I choose to strike you should be prepared Lote.
So, pray tell, what makes you think Miss Alba will have you?

[Lote-Tree]

The woman is pregnant is she not?
:)


She is!? :-(

You seems to be bearer of sad news :-(



Hey, I would keep that lance up if I were you...


It does not take much to get my Lance up - I am always prepared :D



I'm waiting with my enormous heavy book and should I choose to strike you should be prepared Lote.


That book must give you a arm ache! Put it down and men will flock to you like bees to honey :D



So, pray tell, what makes you think Miss Alba will have you?

I don't know - perhaps I can make her smile? and I am also from the land of Kama Sutra - that's another thing in my favour :D

[LadyW]

She is!? :-(

You seems to be bearer of sad news :-(
Indeed... the child of her long term boyfriend, Cash Warren (I've been doing my homework here). But don't shoot the messanger.



It does not take much to get my Lance up - I am always prepared :D
Now there is a daunting prospect



That book must give you a arm ache! Put it down and men will flock to you like bees to honey :D
In which case, the book will remain there to "whack" all those who cross my path until I find someone brave enough to face my mighty wrath haha.


I don't know - perhaps I can make her smile? and I am also from the land of Kama Sutra - that's another thing in my favour :D
Once again... a VERY daunting prospect :D

[Lote-Tree]

Indeed... the child of her long term boyfriend, Cash Warren (I've been doing my homework here). But don't shoot the messanger.


Alas all is lost :-(

But I don't blame her though because she has not met me yet. If she did then it would have been different I am sure :D



In which case, the book will remain there to "whack" all those who cross my path until I find someone brave enough to face my mighty wrath haha.


You seems to be quite into this "whacking" business? Were you Bodica or Joan of Ark in your previous life :D




Once again... a VERY daunting prospect :D

I can be very gentle and flexible :D

[LadyW]

Alas all is lost :-(

But I don't blame her though because she has not met me yet. If she did then it would have been different I am sure :D
Carry on dreaming Lote...thats okay.


You seems to be quite into this "whacking" business? Were you Bodica or Joan of Ark in your previous life :D
Why... was that a compliment? I am rather skilled in the art of "whacking" yes. I might endevour to select a more efficient weapon than this book.


I can be very gentle and flexible :D
*Shudder*...
VERY strange images here.

[Lote-Tree]

Carry on dreaming Lote...thats okay.

Thanks. Dream dream dream...:D




I am rather skilled in the art of "whacking" yes.


And you say Romance is dead in society these days :D

Lassie you killed Romance! :D



I might endevour to select a more efficient weapon than this book.


Try winking. And we will drop off like flies :D



*Shudder*...
VERY strange images here.

Nothing strange about Kama Sutra. It's been practiced for thousands of years. It's quite safe :D

[LadyW]

And you say Romance is dead in society these days :D
Lassie you killed Romance! :D
Not at all! I merely asked if it was... I would never do such a thing. If anything, I encourage it whole heartedly.



Try winking. And we will drop off like flies :D
Haha, thankyou for your advice... is that technique you have tried? :P




Nothing strange about Kama Sutra. It's been practiced for thousands of years. It's quite safe :D
Yet the image of you attempting this is somewhat sinister to me... hahaha.

[Lote-Tree]

I would never do such a thing. If anything, I encourage it whole heartedly.


Bueno! But one needs to recongise the "transient" nature of it all.

It is hard to live with a person on a permanent basis - no matter how much you love them.

I guess it is the flaw in us!



Haha, thankyou for your advice...


As I said my teaching is subtle.



is that technique you have tried? :P


The master does not have to do such things :D



Yet the image of you attempting this is somewhat sinister to me... hahaha.

I have a six packs! and I am macho as Rambo! :D You will be mesmirised :D

[LadyW]

Bueno! But one needs to recongise the "transient" nature of it all.
OO... we're upping our game in the field of vocabulary are we now Lote?


It is hard to live with a person on a permanent basis - no matter how much you love them.
I will testify to that... although it's fun trying. I like a challenge.


The master does not have to do such things :D
Haha! I had no idea you held yourself in such high regard...
:D


I have a six packs! and I am macho as Rambo! :D You will be mesmirised :D
I would be indeed :).... because Sylvester stallone is actually a bit of a short arse.

[miljohnj5]

Strictly speaking from physical appearance preferences, I always stare too much at a woman with straight dark hair, light eyes and nice skin. My dream girl was a librarian (another bonus) a few years ago who had everything minus the straight hair, it was dark and wavy. But oh no, she was to good for me and wouldn't go on a date, nice , thanks. But I'm not bitter, now where did I put that mail-bomb:lol:

[Lote-Tree]

OO... we're upping our game in the field of vocabulary are we now Lote?


What by the use of Transient? :D

I know other words too like "Serendipitous" :D



Haha! I had no idea you held yourself in such high regard...
:D


Sadly no! :-(



because Sylvester stallone is actually a bit of a short arse.

I see. Never looked at his arse to be honest. Perhaps I am a guy and guys don't do that ;-)

[Sweets America]

Well, if the guy is from an English-speaking country, then he just has to talk to me and I will melt. :D :D :p
Apart from that, I have no preference. I can have feelings for very different kinds of men. They can all have something special.
Sense of humor is always nice. Oh, and I have a thing for nose shapes too. Eminem, for instance, has a wonderful nose. :D Robert Downey Jr too. :D

[Lote-Tree]

Well, if the guy is from an English-speaking country, then he just has to talk to me and I will melt. :D :D :p


Ah sweetie you are back :D I hope you had a happy holiday :D

As for English-Speaking...but you are off to America! There no English Speaking people there :D ;-)

[Sweets America]

Ah sweetie you are back :D I hope you had a happy holiday :D

As for English-Speaking...but you are off to America! There no English Speaking people there :D ;-)

Yes, Sweetie is back! :) And yes I had a very happy holiday. I spent Christmas with my family AND with my dog!! Ah, it was wonderful, I love him so much!! Now that I am back to my apartment, I miss him already. :( So, Lote, you have to make me laugh so that I won't be too sad because I'm not with my dog. Ok?

Pffffft, about what you say after. The English accent is very cute, but I prefer the United States. :p I am still the Baroness of Lakedistrict, though. :p

Oh, I hope you had a wonderful Christmas too, Dear Lote. I am wondering...since you are a Tree, were you decorated with strings of lights, and such? :D I'm sure you were the greatest Lote-Christmas-Tree. :D

[Lote-Tree]

So, Lote, you have to make me laugh so that I won't be too sad because I'm not with my dog. Ok?


So I am competing with your Dog? Lassie's I feel erm...I am quite dogged down :D



I'm sure you were the greatest Lote-Christmas-Tree. :D
[/quote]

Anything with Great in it I shall have that...:D because you might never know when another Great will come your way :D

[Nocturna]

First striking feature: Intelligence

(Sadly not that easy to find xD)

[Lote-Tree]

First striking feature: Intelligence
(Sadly not that easy to find xD)

DeepBlue is quite Intelligent. So I guess it would be instant hit with you :D

[Lote-Tree]

As for looks, i always fell for not so good looking guys

But it's Him that you dream of inserting...erm your lips in his silken mouth. It's him that you dream of caressing...erm...those curly locks on his head...and it's him that you dream of running your supple fingers on his sinew muscles on his chest :D

[manolia]

But it's Him that you dream of inserting...erm your lips in his silken mouth. It's him that you dream of caressing...erm...those curly locks on his head...and it's him that you dream of running your supple fingers on his sinew muscles on his chest :D

Bahhh! When HIM gets old (and his silken mouth, curly locks and sinew muscles vanish) the only thing that will be left is his stupidity :D

[Sweets America]

So I am competing with your Dog? Lassie's I feel erm...I am quite dogged down :D

Ah, but no one can compete with my dog, my dog is the best. :D


Anything with Great in it I shall have that...:D because you might never know when another Great will come your way :D

Eheh. :p I see you are the same Lote Tree as the one I left here some days ago. The arrogant Lote Tree. But this is how we love you, dear Lote. :D I would like to add a golden star on top of your head, so that you would compete with all the other Christmas Trees.

[Lote-Tree]

Bahhh! When HIM gets old (and his silken mouth, curly locks and sinew muscles vanish) :D

But so will Mr. Ugly :D But you could enjoy the siney muscles, curly locks and silken mouths etc before that happens :D

Manolia you are missing out on a good bargain here :D

[LadyW]

But it's Him that you dream of inserting...erm your lips in his silken mouth. It's him that you dream of caressing...erm...those curly locks on his head...and it's him that you dream of running your supple fingers on his sinew muscles on his chest :D
Good grief Lote... keep fantasies about you and your dog to yourself :D
Yes I am back with a vengence haha.

[LadyW]

I see. Never looked at his arse to be honest. Perhaps I am a guy and guys don't do that ;-)
I beg to differ...

[Lote-Tree]

Eheh. :p I see you are the same Lote Tree as the one I left here some days ago.


I am same as ever. Like an Ever-green tree. Hey I am after all a Lote-Tree :D



The arrogant Lote Tree.


It's a Mystical Tree - not arrogant :D

[Lote-Tree]

Good grief Lote... keep fantasies about you and your dog to yourself :D


he he :D

I don't have a dog LadyW :D

I had one when I was young but it died and I never owned any pet since. And I will never will.

I prefer animals in the wild :D



Yes I am back with a vengence haha.

Ah OK. Let me Sharpen my Lance again. It won't take long. I will make it very short this time :D

[Lote-Tree]

I beg to differ...

You should stop hanging around with trannies LadyW :D

[LadyW]

You should stop hanging around with trannies LadyW :D
Oh, you want me to stop conversing with the likes of you? Shame... for I dearly love our friendly banter.
:P

[Lote-Tree]

Oh, you want me to stop conversing with the likes of you? Shame... for I dearly love our friendly banter.
:P

LadyW I am sorry to hear about your fetishes :D I guess thats what meant when you said you had a devilish side to you :D

[LadyW]

LadyW I am sorry to hear about your fetishes :D I guess thats what meant when you said you had a devilish side to you :D
Hahaha very devilish... but sly too and so to everyone else I'm as nice as pie.
:D

[Sweets America]

I am same as ever. Like an Ever-green tree. Hey I am after all a Lote-Tree :D
I know, I know. You are wonderful. You are the gift everyone dreamt to have for Christmas. :D :p


It's a Mystical Tree - not arrogant :D
Wow, you are mystical, yes. (keep it that way, it will attract women and make them scream your name even more:D )

[AdoreroDio]

Most Striking features (in order) : Eyes, laughter, intelligence

All of the above are what catches me. I love looking at people's eyes it tells me so much about them. As for laughter, if a guy doesn't laugh or make others laugh he isn't the on e for me and intelligence always goes before looks.

[manolia]

But so will Mr. Ugly :D But you could enjoy the siney muscles, curly locks and silken mouths etc before that happens :D

Who said Mr Ugly? I said Mr Not So Good Looking ;) :lol: (who is supposed to be funny and inteligent)



Manolia you are missing out on a good bargain here :D

:lol: :lol: Where, where?? I can't see one.. :lol: :lol: :p

[Lote-Tree]

Who said Mr Ugly? I said Mr Not So Good Looking ;) :lol: (who is supposed to be funny and inteligent)


Ah I see. Then there is hope for those "Not So Good Looking" men then :D

[Lily Adams]

You know what else I like as far as a physical attribute goes?

Long arms. Like a monkey. Ooh, ooh, ah, ah!

[stephofthenight]

eyes...they're the window to the soul...

[kiz_paws]

A cute bum

sorry! :blush:

[Granny5]

A cute bum

sorry! :blush:

I've been reading through this thread and kiz and virgil are the only two who have admitted the truth! :lol: Men look at legs and breast and women look at bums and other stuff.

When I first met Poppy, it was his voice and intelligence that I noticed first. I wasn't attracted, but I did notice. His kissing expertise was what attracted me.

[SleepyWitch]

I've been reading through this thread and kiz and virgil are the only two who have admitted the truth! :lol: Men look at legs and breast and women look at bums and other stuff.

tsk, tsk, tsk, why do you assume everyone's as gutter-minded as you two? :D
ok, I'll admit it, I look at bums, too, but only in this order:
1. eyes
2. hands
3. belly
4. ears
5. mouth
6. bum


edit: how could I forget chest hair? I like a hairy chest, but only if it's soft and fluffy, not a huge black fur that grows all the way up to a guy's chin. .... droooooooooooooooooooooool

[SleepyWitch]

You know what else I like as far as a physical attribute goes?

Long arms. Like a monkey. Ooh, ooh, ah, ah!

my hubby has very long, skinny arms :) the funniest thing about them is that they aren't straight. i.e. when he stretches them out in front the elbows almost touch

[Granny5]

tsk, tsk, tsk, why do you assume everyone's as gutter-minded as you two? :D
ok, I'll admit it, I look at bums, too, but only in this order:
1. eyes
2. hands
3. belly
4. ears
5. mouth
6. bum


edit: how could I forget chest hair? I like a hairy chest, but only if it's soft and fluffy, not a huge black fur that grows all the way up to a guy's chin. .... droooooooooooooooooooooool

ears before mouth? And why even bother with all the rest if the bum is not worth looking at? :lol:
I'm not much on chest hair...at my age, I would probably notice if the ear hair was trimmed or if there was any head hair before I'd even think about chest hair.:lol: :lol: :lol:

[SleepyWitch]

ears before mouth? And why even bother with all the rest if the bum is not worth looking at? :lol:
I'm not much on chest hair...at my age, I would probably notice if the ear hair was trimmed or if there was any head hair before I'd even think about chest hair.:lol: :lol: :lol:

:lol: ... yeah, you're right it's probably mouth before ear, but I only look at men's mouths when I'm feeling extraordinarily reckless :)
heheheh, collarbones are nice too, like when a guy wears a shirt in summer and the top two buttons are undone... if I catch any guy sticking his collarbones out of his shirt, he'd better run :D

[Granny5]

I'll have to sneak a peek at some collarbones and see what I've been missing.

[SleepyWitch]

I'll have to sneak a peek at some collarbones and see what I've been missing.

probably I'm just a pervert :)

[Virgil]

:lol: ... yeah, you're right it's probably mouth before ear, but I only look at men's mouths when I'm feeling extraordinarily reckless :)
heheheh, collarbones are nice too, like when a guy wears a shirt in summer and the top two buttons are undone... if I catch any guy sticking his collarbones out of his shirt, he'd better run :D

:lol: :lol: This had me in stitches. :lol: Should I reveal I wear my shirts with the top five buttons unbuttoned (and of course no undershirt) and parade around this way? :p I should tell you when I walk into a bar all the girls start thrusting their hands inside the open shirt, and yes i do recall once a particular German girl was feeling up my collar bones. :p :p :p :lol:

[SleepyWitch]

:lol: :lol: This had me in stitches. :lol: Should I reveal I wear my shirts with the top five buttons unbuttoned (and of course no undershirt) and parade around this way? :p I should tell you when I walk into a bar all the girls start thrusting their hands inside the open shirt, and yes i do recall once a particular German girl was feeling up my collar bones. :p :p :p :lol:
seriously? when was that? in your dreams ;) :D j/k

[SleepyWitch]

hey, where's Lote? I've got an idea for another one of his crazy polls: are women more obscene than men? It was Virgil who started talking about breasts, but look who took up the cue and went slobbering over bums etc :)

[Virgil]

hey, where's Lote? I've got an idea for another one of his crazy polls: are women more obscene than men? It was Virgil who started talking about breasts, but look who took up the cue and went slobbering over bums etc :)

:confused: When did I bring up breasts? I said collar bone, after you brought that up.

[SleepyWitch]

Breasts. :p :lol:

Edit: Well, someone had to say it. :D

:) here, on page 1 :) but it must have been a macho joke, otherwise you'd remember it :)

[Virgil]

:) here, on page 1 :) but it must have been a macho joke, otherwise you'd remember it :)

:lol: Yes, I had forgotten.

[kiz_paws]

ears before mouth? And why even bother with all the rest if the bum is not worth looking at? :lol: OMG, Granny I laughed and laughed at this one! :lol: :lol:


hey, where's Lote? I've got an idea for another one of his crazy polls: are women more obscene than men? It was Virgil who started talking about breasts, but look who took up the cue and went slobbering over bums etc :) Hey, I represent that remark! :p