What's The Big change You need to do in YOUR LIFE?

[Ranoo]

What's the big change You need to do ( or YOU'v done) in YOUR LIFE ?
WHY?

[SleepyWitch]

what do you mean ranoo? make a change in the world or change something about ourselves?
as for me, with my graduation ahead next year, I need to become as disciplined and hardworking as I was when I started studying... laze around on litnet a little bit less and work more... .. not very likely
I also need to become nicer, quieter and more accepting of lazy, stupid people who don't live up to my perfectionist standards (which are unfair anyway, because I'm lazy and stupid myself) :)

[EeMmAaN]

What's the big change You need to do ( or YOU'v done) in YOUR LIFE ?
WHY?

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I have started making friends more carefully and seriously -- Because once was deceived by one of my real good friends -- Arghh !!

:(

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[Bakiryu]

I need to learn over 20 languages and dialects, so i can learn to change the world. I need to learn how to trust and love. I must stop pulling all-nighters and trying to set things on fire with the power of my mind: it doesn't work! :sick:

[NikolaiI]

My biggest change is I need to be more like Baki! :) :lol: I want to change the world, too...I am thinking I want to do it with Buddhism. What's wrong with all nighters, Baki? It's quiet at night. My ideal schedule would be sleep 6 a.m. to 2 p.m., if i did that, I might be a grandmaster at chess at the tender age of 19...if i had done that since i was 15, because seriously, i am so much more productive at night. 12:00 a.m. to 6 a.m. is my study time. except now I am on a "regular" schedule...Oh, my biggest change is go to some of the places the Buddha preached in India...or maybe that is a goal.

[Bakiryu]

Yeah night is awesome, you can study, read: it's quiet. My ideal schedule should be sleep from 6am to 6pm (I love my sleep) and then just be awake. If i did that I could probably learn geometry and stop falling sleep everywhere.

[NikolaiI]

I had a friend who was a computer programmer who had that schedule. He would write at night...he was actually very good at it, anyway I used to play Doom with him at his house...this is the guy who burned so much music for me for free.

[Bakiryu]

That's actually my schedule on vacation, i can write for ages. Sadly there are few works you can do at night. Maybe I should become a vampyre or something :D

[mdew_47]

the big thing that got to change is to know yourself, completely!

[LadyWentworth]

I need to stop procrastinating! I never used to be like this! I need to get back into the habit of thinking that the only way to get what I need done is to DO it!! No matter what the situation is!

[NikolaiI]

Are you sure? Maybe you should go on a retreat! Haha, sorry, I really know nothing about what you should do.

[LadyWentworth]

Are you sure? Maybe you should go on a retreat! Haha, sorry, I really know nothing about what you should do.

I could go for that, but chances are I would find an excuse to not do that, too!
A perfect example of how bad I am, I left my computer to do other things that I need to get done around the house. Instead I watched a terrible B-movie for the past 2 hours. Guess what? It ended, and I am back online! Big surprise!

I need to STOP this behavior!

[Bakiryu]

I need to STOP this behavior!

I feel the same way. I wish I would have the ability to do housework. I can't cook, clean, sweep. Things I'm SUPPOSED to be doing but which I hate. :sick:

[the silent x]

I need to stop obsessing about something that is never going to happen, and stop obsessing about a girl who won't look at me and move on in my life. i also need to actually fulfill my promise to myself and actually go to bed at 10 o'clock

[NikolaiI]

obsessing, well you should replace it with something else. for me, when i was 13-15, i studied chess 3-5/6 hours a day a lot of days. that was a good change in my life...also, those thoughts aren't terrible...i mean if you're thinking about someone all the time, you can't help it. just do it, and try to concentrate on whatever you have to do, like crossing the street! eventually your obsession will fade...everything that arises also ceases. don't think that it doesn't- it's just like any other sensation, like pain. pain comes in and then goes. it never has any real substance..

and if you are willing to just be her friend, instead of anything romantic, then that might work...

okay sorry for giving advice. that's one thing i really don't like to do, on the topic of changes... i mean i always think it's best not to give advice...but then i give it anyway lol

[formality hater]

I used to talk a lot!Now I have realized that it is best to keep quiet,AND I AM WORKING ON IT!

[Madhuri]

I need to move out of my parents place. In order that I have a life of my own, instead of enacting the part they want me to play, I need to move out. But, my parents are like a noose around my neck, if I struggle even a small bit, the noose seem to tighten with every move. It gives them the relief that I am still with them and can't run away, but, on the other hand, it really suffocates me. I am like a bird in a golden cage, where the keeper thinks that bird feed made of gold, should keep the bird happy, but doesn't realise that it is not what the bird wants. The bird wants to fly.

[loe]

I love to be a hermit, but to find a job, manage your way in this world and so on the interaction with other people is indispensable. So I try to be more sociable, but sometimes it is soooo strenuous. :sick:

[Weisinheimer]

There's lots and lots of changes I need to make in my life, here are a few:
stop being lazy,
find out what I really believe and why,
stop being so anti-social,
get a job

[Mortis Anarchy]

Focus!!!!!!!!!

[Ranoo]

I mean by Change, any kind of change u think it's gonna make your life better or different ;)

[Shurtugal]

i need... i need... i don't know what i need to change. i think i changed all that i have wanted to for the last few years. I'm basically satisfied with what i am. i proud of who i like, my friends i bum with, the places i want to be, and the dreams i wish to have. the only thing i might need to change is i freak every time someone looks at me wrong, exspecially guys! if someone says something wrong, i freak out, wondering of all the possible thing that they could of met. ok, i might not do it all the times, and normally never with friends, but someone i'm not quite firmilur with, i need to just relax and not have my hand on a sword ready, to drive it home and flee.

[Bakiryu]

Change. Anything. I must learn to do housework even though I loathe it. Act more like a female, do girly things. (What do girls do anyway?!)

Be someone who isn't me.

[LadyWentworth]

What do girls do anyway?!

Giggle a lot because they think it is cute!

At least, that is what girly-girls do. Something I have never been. I have always considered myself a very feminine tomboy!


Anyway, I desperately need a job! This isn't really something that is entirely in my control, though. I apply, occasionally get interviews, answer all the questions the way that they should be answered, and I still never seem to get hired. I am at my wits end! This is the longest that I have gone without a job. So, I am getting pretty desperate now. This is THE MAJOR change that needs to happen for me!

[NikolaiI]

Housework is easier if you don't have to clean up after other people...

Oh, I love the stupid characters in Jane Austen novels. They give the other characters more depth, she uses them well. They also lead me to think about how we're all superficial, we're just varying levels of it. Every person who is getting married in "Pride and Prejudice," says they are the happiest couple in the world. So whatever the person is or has become, they're still, in a way, still within the bounds of superficiality. Perhaps it's not "original sin" so much as "original superficiality." It isn't that the pious monk is in danger of falling prey to unwholesome thoughts, and sinning, as they are to become more superficial, since to lust after desires we consider superficial.

[applepie]

Where to start on things that need to change in my life:) I guess it can all be summed up to needing to relax sometimes. I need to stop filling my life to overflowing with people, activities, and all other projects. I need to learn what taking time for yourself really means, and I really need to try and do it once in a while. I need to stop feeling like I need to be super mom/wife/housekeeper/student/friend. I'm only one person, and it is unrealistic to fill my days with enough activity to keep three people busy. I also need to stop using caffine as a way to balance out too many nights with too little sleep, and instead I should find my way into be before 1 a.m. So I guess relax is the wrong way to word it. I need to do less in my life and take the time to enjoy what I am doing instead of trying to add more and do more.

[SleepyWitch]

Change. Anything. I must learn to do housework even though I loathe it. Act more like a female, do girly things. (What do girls do anyway?!)

Be someone who isn't me.

what for? trust me, you do more girlish things than you're aware of (like talk about the shea butter lotion you put on your elbows) and the ones you don't do aren't worth it. I think to myself as very ungirly, but whenever I'm with my best friend all I talk about is hairstyles, shampoos, hair dyes, lotions... well, we do talk about other things.


Focus!!!!!!!!!
when you've found out how to do that, can you tell me?

[RoCKiTcZa]

I have to learn to be a better student. I need to have more discipline. Also, I must stop being too paranoid about matters of the heart and such. Still, it does feel nice to be in love. It's inspiring, and... spiritually uplifting. At least that's how it is to me ;)

[Visionary3]

I need to find a way not to feel SO disappointed when I get a rejection letter. I feel so down I don't want to try and send it elsewhere. I got down, almost depressed, when a group I belong to had a big membership luncheon that took a great deal of time and effort and we only got 3 new members. When I got no positive feedback from spending hours drawing and printing and making angel decorations for a church luncheon I felt so discouraged.