Hatred

[WX6[ck]]

If any of you have read my peotry, then you know I'm quite the dark writer. I want to talk about hatred. What do you hate? I know we all hate something. It's that little evil inside of us. I'm going to share a little bit of what I hate.

1). I hate Lesser people.
2). I hate people who try to be morally correct and end up thinking that whatever they do or like is right and that everyone else should be more like them.
3). I loathe happiness.
4). I hate people who make a big deal out of things like e.g.
i). The American who lost his head in Iraq.
ii). Whenever an animal gets hurt or killed. Animal testing.
iii). Sex and love.
iv). Role Models, Saddam, Bush, etc.

And so on and so forth. Feel free to correct my views in anyway you can. Hating me only makes you feel better.

[Koa]

I hate too many things. I think I hate more than I love, even if there are a few things I love.

One reason why I have a crush on a guy is because one day we spent half a lesson talking about the people we hate without reason... :D

Seriously, whenever I said 'hate', my granny used to tell me that hate does not exist, but I think only a Catholic integralist like she is can think that... Hate does exist, whether we want it or not, and it's powerful. I'm not in favour of the hate that moves wars and such, that really makes me totally sick... But I can't help hating, even little things. I guess even love wouldnt exist without hate. Even when I had a lover, it was such a mix of love and hate that I lost my mind on it.

The problem is, hate is repressed, because not many people have the guts to admit it exists (see my granny's example above)... we all need to scream at something or someone, even for a futile (???) reason, from time to time. I'm for the free expression of feelings, even bad ones.

Btw, can i say 'hate' as a noun, or only 'hatred'? (that would even change too much a poem i wrote ages ago...:D)

[WX6[ck]]

Oh and btw, since y'all like tests and quizzes so much, here...
http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv

[Koa]

Lovely :D


Paranoid: Low
Schizoid: Low
Schizotypal: Moderate
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Moderate
Histrionic: Low
Narcissistic: Moderate
Avoidant: Very High
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive: Moderate


Uh, I thought I had many more disorders!!!

[simon]

Paranoid: Moderate
Schizoid: High
Schizotypal: High
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Low
Histrionic: Low
Narcissistic: Low
Avoidant: Low
Dependent: Low
Obsessive-Compulsive: Low

As for things I hate, well I have focused for so long on the inadequacies of the world that I am trying to focus on creation instead of destrucion, it's more productive. I have discovered that focusing on hatred just impairs my though process, provides a block so that I cannot improve myself or try new things. What is life without a little chaos.

[emily655321]

I have a friend who calls me a "hate-monger," because I always talk in terms of "Oh, I HATE that." But two days later I might see the same thing and say, "Oh, I LOVE that!" The thing is, I believe it's true both times. :confused:

My mother always said two things that annoyed me as a kid: 1) if feelings went in a circle, hate is the closest to love, 2) Don't say "hate;" say "I dislike." That last one always confused me, because it seemed so nit-picky, but I agree now. Hatred is so different from both dislike and everyday anger. Which I know, because the only person in the world I really truly hate is my brother, and I really really honestly do feel hatred toward him.

But in terms of dislike, I can't say I agree with your #4, WX6. Although it does bother me when people PRETEND to be upset over something just to add drama to their life, especially when there are others who genuinely feel bad about it.

I also hate it when people repeat "I hate this, I hate that, I'm miserable," and try to be derisive, just to gain attention. ;)

Paranoid: Low
Schizoid: Low
Schizotypal: Moderate
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Low
Histrionic: Moderate
Narcissistic: Low
Avoidant: High
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive: High

[simon]

Maybe hatred is merely a cop out for dealing with emotions.

[kilted exile]

Paranoid - moderate
Schizoid - moderate
Schizotypal - high
Antisocial - moderate
Borderline - moderate
Histrionic - low (finally)
Narcissistic - moderate
Avoidant - very high
Dependent - moderate
Obsessive/Compulsive - high

Apparently I suffer from just about everything.:(

[verybaddmom]

OMG!!!
i am almost afraid to post my results. looks like i am nuts after all
:confused:

Disorder | Rating
Paranoid: High
Schizoid: Low
Schizotypal: High
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Low
Histrionic: Very High
Narcissistic: Very High
Avoidant: Moderate
Dependent: Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive: High

um....are we still friends?

[Lara]

You have some strong hates there WX6[ck]. Hate is a powerful emotion and it is optimal that you choose to express this emotion through writing. I hope it is your preference of expression. In my opinion, writing and art are the most powerful ways for one to express. I don't think you need to or should be corrected in your views. You are allowed to feel and your feelings require acknowledgement. So, feel free to hate me for having this opinion if you like. It will do me no harm.

So...
I hate moist, simmering piles of dog crap left on the ground, and I hate the people that are supposed to pick it up and left it there.

I hate rudeness and lack of courtesy as people go about there daily lives oblivious to anything or anyone around them.

That is all I can think of right now. I am generally not a hateful person. It only occurs in moments and comes in spurts.

[BigWorm]

Hate is something that everyone has experienced in their life. No one can avoid it. No one can change the feeling. Its just there when you cant understand, feel afraid, feel frustrated, or annoyed, etc. The real test of hate is to suppress its ability to cause more of it. In the real world their is too much hate and not enough happiness.

[ajoe]

Paranoid: Low
Schizoid: Very High
Schizotypal: Moderate
Antisocial: Low
Borderline: Low
Histrionic: Low
Narcissistic: Moderate
Avoidant: Low
Dependent: Low
Obsessive-Compulsive: Low

Wow, I have no idea what schizoid and schizotypal are. *clicking for info*

Schizoid
People with schizoid personality disorder avoid relationships and do not show much emotion. They genuinely prefer to be alone and do not secretly wish for popularity. They tend to seek jobs that require little social contact. Their social skills are often weak and they do not show a need for attention or acceptance. They are perceived as humorless and distant and often are termed "loners."

Schizotypal
Many believe that schizotypal personality disorder represents mild schizophrenia. The disorder is characterized by odd forms of thinking and perceiving, and individuals with this disorder often seek isolation from others. They sometimes believe to have extra sensory ability or that unrelated events relate to them in some important way. They generally engage in eccentric behavior and have difficulty concentrating for long periods of time. Their speech is often over elaborate and difficult to follow.

Hmm...

[emily655321]

LOL That's the trouble with these self-diagnostic quizlets. Like pharmaceutical commercials on TV: "Do you feel angry sometimes? Anxious? Unable to understand those around you? You may have such-and-such disorder and need to buy our drug." And hypochondriacs run to their doctor saying "Oh no! I have such-and-such disorder, give me that drug!"

Disorders occur when common, everyday emotions/behaviors are taken to extreme and maladaptive levels. So of course, I have "odd forms of thinking and perceiving," I "seek isolation from others," and my speech is always "over elaborate and difficult to follow." But does that mean we're schizotypal? Of course not. :D

[verybaddmom]

whew..thanks Em. now go away.

[emily655321]

LMAO I actually have to in 7 minutes. Beddy-bye for me.

[verybaddmom]

in seven minutes? you set a timer?

[emily655321]

Just until my clock says 12:15. Which now it does, so I guess I'll say good bye.

Bye. :D

[verybaddmom]

bye hon...sleep well
back on topic, here's what i hate:
i hate talking about my past history. previous relationships and mistakes that i have made.
and i just tonight discovered something else that i really really hate.
i hate the fact that my ex-(@!$#&**)husband still has the power to exert his influence over my life and my personal freedom. i have been divorced for more than ten years, but by law his rights outweigh mine when it comes to making decisions re: 'our' son. the fact that he hasnt bothered to see his son in the last nine months (NOT ONCE!!!) doesnt enter in. and the fact that if i want to throw a birthday party for my son, my boyfriend cannot attend b/c my boy's father will be there??
yes. i hate this. i hate that he still has the power to affect my happiness. and i hate that i have to deal with hatred in my life.


whew. i feel better. thank you for this thread.

[imthefoolonthehill]

Paranoid: Very High
Schizoid: High
Schizotypal: High
Antisocial: High
Borderline: Very
Histrionic: Moderate
Narcissistic: High
Avoidant: Low
Dependent: Low
Obsessive-Compulsive: Moderate

wow... maybe something might be wrong with me... naw... it was probably thought up by greedy psychiatrists.

[Ickmeister]

I hate hating. and what do you mean by Catholic integralist? (I'm Catholic, and I know there is such a thing as hate)

[subterranean]

i filled out that quiz long time ago and i filled it out again today and of course the results are still the same...High points for every category..

I hate me by the way..

[emily655321]

I hate that I hate me. :p

I took it like a year ago, and I think my results are a little different this time. I know I had more Moderates, and I think I had Very High on something.

[Lolita]

I hate...

Homophobic people; whether their believes are shaped because of religion or society, doesn't matter. It drives me up the wall.

Pro-life protesters. I'm pro-choice. Pro-choice, and gay rights are two issues I will happily argue for. I'm afraid that I can't even try to see those issues from the other side's POV.

I hate people who flash about their money. Have an ex-friend who was always very much like "oh, daddy just bought me a pony, and mummy has promised to buy me an island." Makes me want to chunder

I hate babies. I know I'm pro-choice, but doesn't mean I want a big fat pink blob wailing jelly stuck with me. They smell, and they cry. I can't see why anyone would want to have a child nowadays anyway. You just have to look at the world and how awful it is and realise that it isn't going to get any better.

[emily655321]

Not looking to argue about it, but you just reminded me :p ... I hate that I'm "on the same side" as the crazy clinic-bombing pro-lifers. Violent extremists automatically kill the credibility of any opinion they hold, even of the peaceful people who believe the same. It always makes me mad to see that.

[WX6[ck]]

I feel like the devil, for starting this post. And I don't hate that :D

[emily655321]

Why, what's wrong with it? I don't think it would be good to draw it way out, but I've at least found it interesting. Any honest ponderation of a subject is worthy of being heard and considered by others. That's what we're all here for. :)

[subterranean]

Originally posted by Lolita
I hate... I hate people who flash about their money. Have an ex-friend who was always very much like "oh, daddy just bought me a pony, and mummy has promised to buy me an island." Makes me want to chunder

DOn't hate them....feel sorry for them coz their self esteem 100 percent rely on how much money they got :)


I hate babies. I know I'm pro-choice, but doesn't mean I want a big fat pink blob wailing jelly stuck with me. They smell, and they cry. I can't see why anyone would want to have a child nowadays anyway. You just have to look at the world and how awful it is and realise that it isn't going to get any better.

Lolita dear, you were once a big fat pink blob wailing jelly who smell and cried..

[Koa]

the fact that we necessarily were children doesnt mean we have to like them...:mad: *feels the lack of a devilish smilie*

[Lolita]

I was never a baby, and I hate you for even putting that idea into my head.

[subterranean]

I was never a baby, and I hate you for even putting that idea into my head.


Wow thanks..another hatred for me. And I suppose you feel proud for not being like any other human..

and by the way Koa, i'm not saying that WE all have to like babies...

[ravana]

Of course I do, I'm not an angel.
I hate:
1) people who put their nose in my business.
2) two neighbor nations.
and sometimes myself......