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barbara0207
05-20-2007, 04:43 PM
There is already a thread called "Books that changed your life", but here I'd like to discuss books that you read differently depending on age and circumstances.

When I was 17, I read Thomas Mann's "Buddenbrooks" for the first time. My sympathy lay completely with the younger characters. There was Tony, a young woman marrying the wrong men just because she thought it was her duty. I cried when she had to leave the man she really loved because the family thought him unsuitable. Years later my sympathy for her sometimes turned into impatience when she seemed too naive. What had happened? Feminism had come my way and I had matured - so I favoured strong women.

Another example from the same book are Thomas Buddenbrook, a successful merchant, and his son Hanno, who loves music more than maths. The first time my sympathy was with the son; but when I reread the book I had two children myself and I could understand the worries of a parent much better. To a certain degree I even identified with him (a man!), because similar things had happened to me.

Have you ever experienced similar things with books or poetry?

kenikki
05-20-2007, 05:13 PM
Very interesting question, Barbara. I always felt that 1984 has changed especially in the UK political and media developments. England is getting more and more like a nanny state so Orwell's vision of the future looks more and more real everyday. This is all I can think of right now, I know there's more so when I think of more I'll put them through...

barbara0207
05-20-2007, 05:32 PM
Yes, you have a point there, and it's not only true for England. When I first read 1984, back in the times of the Cold War, I thought it only referred to dictatorships. But there are certainly tendencies today, especially after 'Terrorism' has been made out as the common enemy, that make the book ring as a warning for democracies, too. It seems that 'Terrorism' can justify many violations of civil rights.