What do you think???

[cranberry]

HI a question needs an answer>> w

For both genders I ask :

1.) what is the best way to know if someone likes you or has a crush on you?

2.) when it comes to marriage is there any ways to know if he is serious??? or she is serouse??

3.) imagine you're married and your monster in law does not treat you well >>>whats your plan??

4.) what books do you read for self help??? sometimes you need to read or write.

5.) Is it wrong in your opinion for your LOVE to be seeing a shrink???

6.) Imagine you are sitting a restaurant with your friends and guy or girl looks in CRUSHY look at you but when you look pretnds to be chatting or reading???
Loool happened (caught one!)

7.) How would you feel and what would you do if your friend or cousin
likes the person you like with you knowing>>do you care???

8.) Some one once asked my hand for her cousin (Male) for me but my mom
said : if you are getting married you will have a monster in law!!!!
but the man cute --- not to mention : he got married ---> no way he's gonna wait for me! SO: the question is : am i supposed to be sad???

Thanks alot:blush:

[Asa Adams]

Wow...You have alot of probs. I hope you can solve them...I'm bad at these sort of Q's.

[cranberry]

your visit to this new thread was nice anyway sweety :) thanks for tryin!

[manolia]

1.) what is the best way to know if someone likes you or has a crush on you?
You can simply ask him! (I have never done that since i do not have the guts but you can do that and see what happens:lol: )
Now seriously. I think you can never be sure. Most people nowadays are very good in hiding their feelings. So all this is a great risk..but that is the nice part of flirting, isn't it?

2.) when it comes to marriage is there any ways to know if he is serious??? or she is serouse??
I am afraid not. You just have to take his word for it.


3.) imagine you're married and your monster in law does not treat you well >>>whats your plan??
Ignore her!! To ignore someone is the best revenge you can have on them.


4.) what books do you read for self help??? sometimes you need to read or write.
If you are refering to these psychological staff "how to be successfull" etc etc i read none because i find them pretty dull. But reading in general (beeing one of my favorite pastimes) helps a lot if i have issues with myself. It makes me forget and escape from reality.

5.) Is it wrong in your opinion for your LOVE to be seeing a shrink???
Nothing wrong about that. A shrink helps you discuss things that bother you, it doesn't mean you are sick or something. Now if your love visits a psychiatrist that is quite different. Double lock the bedroom door and let him sleep on the couch (just in case..).

6.) Imagine you are sitting a restaurant with your friends and guy or girl looks in CRUSHY look at you but when you look pretnds to be chatting or reading???
Loool happened (caught one!)
Yes..what about it? Maybe he finds you attractive. But if you are asking about me, i am usually so distracted that i never perceive this kind of things

7.) How would you feel and what would you do if your friend or cousin
likes the person you like with you knowing>>do you care???
Depends on the person.

8.) Some one once asked my hand for her cousin (Male) for me but my mom
said : if you are getting married you will have a monster in law!!!!
but the man cute --- not to mention : he got married ---> no way he's gonna wait for me! SO: the question is : am i supposed to be sad???[/B][/COLOR]
No. Don't mind about the past. You can't change it anyway.

Nightie night!

[Stanislaw]

1.) what is the best way to know if someone likes you or has a crush on you?

To talk with them and to see how they interact with you, if they are friends perhaps, but maybe a little silly around you, or perhaps they are always very attentive.


2.) when it comes to marriage is there any ways to know if he is serious??? or she is serouse??

Thats tough, again i think it has to do with physically knowing the person, and being with them. To see if they are serious. I would always go with gut instinct


3.) imagine you're married and your monster in law does not treat you well >>>whats your plan??

Discuss the problem with your spouse, maybe demand some respect, ask them what there problem is.


4.) what books do you read for self help??? sometimes you need to read or write.

dummies books or bible books (ie msword bible / msword for dummies) but, for relationship based, I'm not sure if there is a good book out there.


5.) Is it wrong in your opinion for your LOVE to be seeing a shrink???

well, it depends on what for...


6.) Imagine you are sitting a restaurant with your friends and guy or girl looks in CRUSHY look at you but when you look pretnds to be chatting or reading???
Loool happened (caught one!)

hmm, maybe they are afraid, or are admiring your beauty


7.) How would you feel and what would you do if your friend or cousin
likes the person you like with you knowing>>do you care???

well, it depends, on who started, and if you are in a relationship if they are making advances. They are not your friend if they make advances on someone you are in a relationship with and the same is revearse.


8.) Some one once asked my hand for her cousin (Male) for me but my mom said : if you are getting married you will have a monster in law!!!!
but the man cute --- not to mention : he got married ---> no way he's gonna wait for me! SO: the question is : am i supposed to be sad???

Well, thats an odd one, but if he's married, then, probably not...would be my first inclination.

[cranberry]

Special thanks for Manolia and Stanislaw for your courage ! i am feeling better and ya guys gave me few tips , you sometimes two brains are better than one!!!