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Koa
09-01-2005, 12:42 PM
Hellooooooooooo!
I was back from Moscow 2 days ago and I struggled to find some time for the forums, but for the next 2 hours I should be free...

So...my month in Moscow was a great experience. The city is so incredibly big, it could take literally hours to get from one place to another, even if the transports, namely the underground/subway is really efficient. The institute I was studying at is located in the suburbs, so that it took at least half an hour to get to the centre...and the closest metro station was a 20 minutes walk away! And that's called normal there...whatever, I quickly got used to it. Only it was a stress cos I had class till 3pm, and most museums closed at 6pm, so I had to rush to get there on time... But at least at the beginning of August, the sun was up until almost 10pm, so there usually was no hurry if I just wanted to walk around.
The buildings are also huge...the people all live in blocks of flat that are so big, like I think Ive rarely seen one that had less than 10 floors! (maybe the Americans wouldnt be that impressed, but the vasitity of everything was really new to me...). The parks also were huge, like huge woods in the middle of the city...also something unusual for me.

The language course was good. I ended up in a class with all Polish people (there were plenty of Polish there), a Japanese that vanished soon and a guy from Taiwan who didnt really care about it and appeared from time to time just for fun. At first I really didnt like my class, the Polish understood Russian much better than me and spoke more easily than me, and sometimes the teacher didnt seem too patient to explain me everything, plus I didnt like some of her methods... But from the middle of the month I started to like the lessons, maybe cos we were less and less people attending and we could talk more and words were explained in a more relaxed way, the teacher stopped doing that kind of exercise that I didnt like... All was great, and I feel that my Russian improved a lot, now I can hold conversations even if my vocabulary and oral comprehension skills are still far from perfect, and I make tons of grammar mistakes, of which I realise myself but my mind is not quick enough to correct them on time. I believe that when I'll reach that perfect syncrony, I will be able to say that my Russian is good.

I also finally had the chance to experience the pleasures and pains of living in a dorm... which was really interesting. My roommates were a Czech who lives in Italy, a Basque and an American (who unfortunately left soon) and we all got on really well. Despite this, from the social point of view this experience was a step back compared to my Hungarian sociability... I often was hanging around on my own cos the other Italians from my group just spent many afternoons at the dorms studying or doing nothing, and I handt come there to just see the dorm... and even if they were nice and funny and I spent some good times with them, sometimes I felt a bit like it was a kindergarten, and wondered if my super-independent-woman attitude isn't a bit wrong... But I really can't stand the fact of always moving in a group (they would all go to bed if only half of them were tired, and stuff like that!), of spending hours in the kitchen (a common kitchen for every floor... on my floor it was practically impossible to use the kitchen thanks to an invasion of Italians who seemed to cook a wedding fest everyday...even in the 40 minutes of break we had for lunch!)...basically, I found many other reasons why I don't have much to share with the typical Italian.
I was hanging around with Czechs sometimes, but we didnt always agree on our plans so I went alone many times...I don't know, I left the forum one month ago with some kind of speech about being weird wondering if I wasnt exagerating with my statements, but at times I've felt weirder (and lonelier) than ever recently, during those solitary walks which I immensely enjoyed anyway.

What else.. well now I'm back to reality, with less and less ideas about my final paper which is due in 2 months, and wondering if I should look for a job immediately or wait at least until my paper is almost done, so to be sure that I really make it by November... Thankfully a guy I know needs some help where he works so I can go there for a few days when needed, which is a great solution that leaves me the time to solve the situation about the damn paper. In the past week I was kind of feeling like I needed another holiday after all the running around I've done to see all I wnated to see in Moscow... :D

And here, what's up? Did I miss anything important? Give me a summary of the main events and let me know if there's something I must absolutely read... :banana:

simon
09-01-2005, 12:55 PM
I know what you mean about solitary walks. I've been doing alot of that recently since I moved back to Canada and right now there are few people I know here. They can be hte most enjoyable thing while being lonely and sad at the same time.

It's great that you were able to spend time in Moscow and I for one would like ot hear any more of your experinces that your willing to share. What museums did you go to and what did you see? What is the food like there? And I'm embarrassed to ask but I can't recall what you study?

I can't really help you with what to read in the forum while you were gone as I was in Boston without internet as well. But I'm sure someone else can point you in an interseting direction. There is a new philosophy section that's thoughtful, that's all I know about.

Koa
09-01-2005, 01:11 PM
Thanks simon, I'm surely willing to share more and I probably will do it until I bore you all to death, so if you have any questions that would help me try to be less boring ;)

Firstly, I study at the faculty of foreign languages and literatures, namely English and Russian, and I went to Moscow cos I wanted to improve my Russian before I graduate. I'm still not fluent but it was a first step...

Museums...I confess that I didnt go to any art gallery, cos I'm not so fond of paintings...I had left that for the last day as I had some time left, but I forgot it was Monday so they were all closed...
I mainly visited home-museums of writers, of which I'll post pics here snce it kinda seems the place to do it... Pushkin, Majakovsky, Tolstoy, Tsvetaeva... and I think that's all. The Pushkin one wasn't great, too many random things about the period and not about him. Tolstoy's was accurately kept and reconstructed, very intereting (shame I didnt manage to go to his place in Yasnaya Polyana, I just saw his Moscow house), Mayakovsky's is a masterpiece museum, organised in a very futuristic way... And Tsvetaeva's was the best cos it was simple but accurate, and I just tried to imagine her being there...
Oh and I saw Bulgakov's place as well, there is a little strange museums and then you can go up to his flat, that's so funny cos I think people do live there but all the stairs are covered in writings of visitors... Inside there was not much, just a few rooms were kept and in the others there were interesting exhibitions. I need to read Master and Margarita again.
Other musems I saw were history museums... I especially loved the Contemporary History Museum and the one about World War 2 - I especially like it when there are photographs so that I can imagine the life of people at the time...

The food well... all I tried thinking that was going to be awful...was in fact awful :D I didnt eat that much Russian food cos the canteen poisoned me during the second week (really...one day my stomach really hurt, and that happens to me rarely...so I figured it was really bad!) and anyway it wasnt open for dinner and on weekends so I just 'cooked', so to speak, myself... Russians eat lots of soups, I tried a typical one which is eaten cold and made out of kvas, a typical drink made of fermented bread...and they both (the soup and the drink) were really horrible in my opinion (it tastes a bit like beer and I dont like beer). Then there are lots of meat dishes, onions pretty much everywhere... uhm we all bought crab meat at the supermrket cos it was cheap enough and good... and that's it I'd say...

NNoah3
09-01-2005, 01:27 PM
What a wonderful experience to spend a whole month in another place. Knowing and discovering other cultures and customs, thanks a lot for sharing it with us.

Welcome back KOA :wave:

Koa
09-01-2005, 01:29 PM
Thanks! Going to spend months in another places has become the main purpose of my life it seems... I just enjoy it an awful lot!

mono
09-01-2005, 03:27 PM
:D :D Welcome back, Koa! :D :D
Wow, it sounds like a lot of fun! Some of the lonelier events you described even do not sound too bad; sometimes even traveling alone can seem fun, without anyone bothering you through something you want to see, or boring you with something they want to see. Walking alone, oddly, seems when I tend to get a great amount of my thinking done (around nearby forests, the quieter part of the city, or a close river), but, I agree, one can get dreadfully lonely, especially doing such in a foreign country.

I mainly visited home-museums of writers, of which I'll post pics here snce it kinda seems the place to do it... Pushkin, Majakovsky, Tolstoy, Tsvetaeva . . . Oh and I saw Bulgakov's place as well
Grrr, so jealous! ;) But it makes me wonder if Fyodor Dostoevsky or Alexandr Solzhenitsyn have similar landmarks as well, or of some composers, like Pyotr Tchaikovsky. I suppose one can only see so much in one trip, however.
Nice to have you back, Koa. ;)

Koa
09-02-2005, 10:36 AM
Thanks mono...
There was a Dostoevsky thingy around but I ended up not going and since St. Petersburg is more important in his work, I'd figure that the place in Moscow shouldn't have been that great...I would have loved to see it but after 3 weeks of museums and such, on the last week I was kind of exhausted so I didnt look for it... Actually on the last day I had thought of doing the museums I hadnt seen, but as I said it was Monday and everything seemed to be closed...
There was also a Pasternak place out of the city but noone was interested and I didnt feel like going alone even there... next time, I hope.
As for composers, I'm sure I've seen a Chaikovsky thing (at least I think it was him) but my interest in classical music is close to zero, so I didnt really care... and even if I cared, you can't imagine how much there is to do in that city and how long it takes to get anywhere...so I had to make choices.

I agree that going to a place alone saves a lot of discussion on what to see and how and when, and on my own I feel free to spend as long as I want in a place without having to fear that I'm stressing the others... and most of all, it means you don't have to WAIT for people (with Italians it's an important fact..). But on the other hand, after a whole week of sightseeing alone you start to wonder why you have noone to share that with...or to take photos of...;) (I love to take photos of landscapes but my family always complains that my photos look like postcards and why I dont put people on them... but if I'm alone, I don't have much choice really...).
I've just come to wonder (again) if it's my fault if I don't find anyone to share interests with... Not that I was alone all the time, I've enjoyed some company, but not like I've made the best friends of my life...

ihrocks
09-02-2005, 03:13 PM
It's a Koa! It's a Koa! :banana:

This is shaping up into a remarkable day! :)

:banana: :banana: :banana:

Keltic Banshee
09-02-2005, 04:29 PM
Welcome back! :)

shortysweetp
09-02-2005, 05:45 PM
welcome back i hope you truly enjoyed your trip and got to see a lot of interesting things.

Isagel
09-03-2005, 02:23 PM
I am so glad to hear from you. You seem to be having to much fun now! I´m so very very happy for you. You have done so many exciting thing this past year, and I am a bit jealous. But I know that you really deserve this.

Koa
09-03-2005, 03:32 PM
eheh thanks :D
i think that sometimes people are jealous of me but i just do the things i want to do, ok i'm lucky cos my parents support me and all, but i think that's the lucky thing in not having a boyfriend nor any big commitment.. i can just do what the hell i want!:D i probably wouldnt exchange my freedom for a relationship, even when i'm jealous of people with their stable life and all...

Monica
09-04-2005, 02:30 PM
Two weeks ago I came back from Dublin. I was also there alone (actually with my brother and his friends, but that doesn't count ;) ) I usually went everywhere alone, looking for U2's traces :D I was making something like 25, 30 kilometres a day on foot and I really enjoyed it (especially because the Irish are really friendly :brow: ) I also prefer to be alone sometimes as not to be restricted by anybody, I guess.

I'm surprised that on your course there were so many Polish. I didn't think my compatriots like learning Russian.

By the way, welcome back Koa :wave:

baddad
09-04-2005, 03:32 PM
Welcome back friend. Freedom to explore life is not limited to those outside of serious relationships, or at the least it shoud not be so. Don't be in a panic to erase your life as a single person. Your wanderings and wonderings will add character to your 'self' that will only assist in satisfying relationships further down the road of life. Its the adventurer in you that I love.....welcome home, safe, sound, and more enlightened. We missed yah....

Koa
09-04-2005, 07:14 PM
Yay thanks baddad, I've just seen so many people not taking chances just because they had someone by their side, so to speak... I just can't understand, maybe cos my point of view is limited... And I'm still waiting for the moment when someone in real life will appreciate my self for its interests and independance, if there will ever be such a day.

Monica, yes it was simply full of Polish, everyone was surprised...they were even more than the Italians, like there were 300 or 400 of them, I dont really remember, out of 700 people or so I was told... :eek:

subterranean
09-04-2005, 08:36 PM
WB Koa

:)

Koa
09-06-2005, 05:07 AM
thanks sub, wb to you too...I haven't seen you around in a while! :)

Koa
09-09-2005, 10:45 AM
Byyy the waaaay...
Noone will probably read this post as this thread is old already but...

...I forgot to tell you about books! I wanted to buy Russian books and I went to the biggest bookshop in Moscow...and it was hard to stop myself from buying tons of books (but then I had to stop, or my suitcase would have been too heavy for the plane!) because..oh my god, books in Russia are so incredibly cheap!!! I bought 6 books and I spent the equivalent of 12 euros!!! (some 14-15 dollars I think, or 8 pounds) It was like :eek: I had never bought that many books at one time cos doing that here wouldnt cost me less than 40-50 euros!!! And they were good editions, ok in some cases I chose the cheapest, which was paperback that is less heavy, but damn... It was paradise!
Now of course I doubt if I'll ever manage to read them cos they are in Russian... I'm looking forward to trying but I am too busy with other things (well if only I didnt spend too much time on forums!!!:mad:). I also bought a copy of Crime and Punishment just to have the original version, but I doubt I'll ever read it... Then I bought some poetry by my favourites, Anna Achmatova and Marina Tsvetaeva... then novels to read, one by Dovlatov, one by Akunin (he0s very popular I think) and Zamjatin's "My" (We) which is rather hard to find around here but must be quite challenging to read...

By the way i did pretty much the same with cds cos they were cheaper than here as well...