Alpha Males: Aye or Nay?

[cacian]

It puzzles me also. You would think men would have better things to do.

I suspect actually having someone's husband scare the alpha male wannabe enough so that he would go into hiding by living with his parents, as Emil Miller recounts, may not be how he hoped the male-over-male dominance would have worked out. In that case, I would have to think the husband reasserted his dominance and became the alpha male.

But this makes me realize that it is the other men, whether husband, boyfriend or even male acquaintances of the woman, who are most important in the alpha male's perspective. The woman is only secondary, though enjoyable, entertainment. She is like the tree the dog pisses on to mark his territory for the other dogs. It is the others dogs, not the tree, that matters to the alpha male wannabe.

Well yes I agree you would think men have better stuff to do and think about but then it is tricky when the whole world package is full of tempting images, newspapers with scandals headlines films that thrive on affairs and books written especially for those who fancy fantasy thrills and to top it up we get the internet to make it even better.
I feel almost sorry for anyone trying to be a man and be themselves at the same time. It is constant internal was between reality and desires.

As you mention it takes two to tangle. I wonder what must be going on in the woman's mind, especially if she tells her husband what the alpha male did to her. I guess she likes to see her husband feel obligated to chase the wannabe around.

Not much at this rate LOL !!
Sorry I do not mean to say that but I think one thing has to be said is that it is easy to fall in that trap, men or women, and some do do it because of this so called buzz.
I do not claim to understand it because mine is just a bottle of champagne few friends to chat to and I am happy. Some fortunately or unfortunately are higher maintanance so they go chose to go the racier way if you like.

[LitNetIsGreat]

Gee, I can't fathom why the ladies never chased you. I mean, what with your charming and witty sense of humor, your kind and enlightened character, and your keen intelligence. It must be that they're all exceptionally shallow, or else there's some sort of sciencey-type evolutionary cause - for I simply can not think of a more obvious and likely explanation.

No. All the ladies love The Neely!!!

HOT property.

[cacian]

No. All the ladies love The Neely!!!

HOT property.

I am sorry I thought Neely was a female's name and so I thought you were a female oh well haha

[LitNetIsGreat]

I am sorry I thought Neely was a female's name and so I thought you were a female oh well haha

What??? You thought I was a woman?? Oh dear me! Let me assure you now that is not the case.

[Emil Miller]

It puzzles me also. You would think men would have better things to do.

I suspect actually having someone's husband scare the alpha male wannabe enough so that he would go into hiding by living with his parents, as Emil Miller recounts, may not be how he hoped the male-over-male dominance would have worked out. In that case, I would have to think the husband reasserted his dominance and became the alpha male.

As you mention it takes two to tangle. I wonder what must be going on in the woman's mind, especially if she tells her husband what the alpha male did to her. I guess she likes to see her husband feel obligated to chase the wannabe around.

Well the man in question was certainly not an Alpha male according to this thread. In fact he was a Cambridge graduate who had difficulty getting hold of women as, unlike Neely, he looked the opposite to Brad Pitt and was always on the lookout for, to use a vulgar expression, 'a loose bit of tackle.'
He related how on one occasion he had to quickly exit a woman's bedroom in the dark because the husband came home, and when he got back to his flat he found that he'd put on the woman's panties by mistake.

[Scheherazade]

I am sorry I thought Neely was a female's name and so I thought you were a female oh well haha

Whatever might have made you think so, Cacian?

Could it be his tendency "say one thing and do the opposite"?

[cacian]

What??? You thought I was a woman?? Oh dear me! Let me assure you now that is not the case.

LOL I am so sorry I often get lots of member's here confused over who is who because it is sometimes not clear

Whatever might have made you think so, Cacian?

Could it be his tendency "say one thing and do the opposite"?

Hmmm that could well be it actually

[Paulclem]

What??? You thought I was a woman?? Oh dear me! Let me assure you now that is not the case.

Well your avatar does make it look as though "you" have a kind of baldy bob. It's an easy mistake to make, though Cacian has obviously never read your eulogies of Belgian beer.

What will the blokes say in the cold ale thread? Should we call you Mrs Neely now?

[LitNetIsGreat]

Well your avatar does make it look as though "you" have a kind of baldy bob. It's an easy mistake to make, though Cacian has obviously never read your eulogies of Belgian beer.

What will the blokes say in the cold ale thread? Should we call you Mrs Neely now?

'Baldy bob?' that's even worse - bring back Cacian! This is especially so as I think my avatar actually looks like me quite a lot - that is violently attractive and jaw-droppingly handsome. I am less grey though...

Yes Cacian, and everyone really, needs to read about Belgian beer. This is because Belgian beer really is the pinnacle of beer, but yes I suppose the pure maleness must shine through there as well.

She could also be directed to any one of my very exclusive, highly male postings or should join the waiting list in the Neely fan club - (see Scher, club secretary for further details.)

[JuniperWoolf]

No. All the ladies love The Neely!!!

HOT property.

So you're an "alpha male?" I guess that means that any validity the term hight have carried is completely debunked, and this stupid topic is finally over. That's good.

[Scheherazade]

(see Scher, club secretary for further details.)

What's all this violence? Sheesh.

No need to club any secretaries... Just see me. I think we have all the details listed under 'Imaginary Forum Clubs' section.

[Neo_Sephiroth]

She could also be directed to any one of my very exclusive, highly male postings or should join the waiting list in the Neely fan club - (see Scher, club secretary for further details.)

So you're an "alpha male?" I guess that means that any validity the term hight have carried is completely debunked, and this stupid topic is finally over. That's good.

No need to club any secretaries... Just see me. I think we have all the details listed under 'Imaginary Forum Clubs' section.

I just love the ladies of this forum. They're so...Alpha.

[LitNetIsGreat]

So you're an "alpha male?" I guess that means that any validity the term hight have carried is completely debunked, and this stupid topic is finally over. That's good.

No, no I’m not an alpha male. I have been ‘beaten’ several times by the ‘treat ‘em mean; keep ‘em keen’ philosophy of theirs, but despite of this I’ve done OK.

I find that I get the most attention either when I am out playing tennis (or in tennis gear) or if I’m out smartly dressed. Fish slime-stained trousers or knocking about gear doesn’t have the same effect. I’m not that bothered either way though being married and all. Actually, and somewhat ironically, I think the lack of interest leads women on even more.

What's all this violence? Sheesh.

No need to club any secretaries... Just see me. I think we have all the details listed under 'Imaginary Forum Clubs' section.

We desperately need an 'Imaginary Forum Clubs' section.

I just love the ladies of this forum. They're so...Alpha.

Ha, ha...be careful!!

[YesNo]

He related how on one occasion he had to quickly exit a woman's bedroom in the dark because the husband came home, and when he got back to his flat he found that he'd put on the woman's panties by mistake.

I thought those Cambridge grads were supposed to have some brains.

I can see the husband coming home hoping to get lucky. He's pleased to find his wife already naked in bed. He's puzzled to find the window open. When he picks up the over sized male underwear still lying on the floor his wife starts feeding him a story along with the name of the alpha male wannabe. The husband searches for the guy and finds address, photos and confirms underwear size. The wife texts the wannabe telling him her husband is about to do something rash. The wannabe's back living with his parents.

[Gilliatt Gurgle]

No, no I’m not an alpha male. I have been ‘beaten’ several times by the ‘treat ‘em mean; keep ‘em keen’ philosophy of theirs, but despite of this I’ve done OK.

I find that I get the most attention either when I am out playing tennis (or in tennis gear) or if I’m out smartly dressed. Fish slime-stained trousers or knocking about gear doesn’t have the same effect. I’m not that bothered either way though being married and all. Actually, and somewhat ironically, I think the lack of interest leads women on even more.
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haha..brilliant.

Recently I disccovered that I'm an Alfalfa male, the characteristics of which are found somewhere between the Alpha and Beta as exemplified in the following videos:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuOsB4psC9E


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cPMFfTrb6ho

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