What Attracts You First? Poll #1 for Women Only

[cacian]

Well he may well be one of the many homosexuals that make up the male model fraternity.

LOL

I am not sure because not all pretty faces are necessarily gay...some of them can be very women worshippers.
I must admit the muscles do not help very much.

[Emil Miller]

no Emil, that is a handsome guy, Tony explained what an Alpha male was before quite well, I am surprised you are just as ignorant about Alpha males as others, it might be a generational linguistic gap.

Well, strange as it may seem, I don't find men interesting but women are another matter.

[cacian]

Anyone here amongst fellow members who perhaps can honestly declare they are an alpha male or is it a look thing?

Well, strange as it may seem, I don't find men interesting but women are another matter.

Haha Emil what do you find interesting then haha?
I find men most interesting women are more deviative not so reliable sometimes a bit like a car it does not where it is going when the driver's a bit lost haha

[Emil Miller]

Anyone here amongst fellow members who perhaps can honestly declare they are an alpha male or is it a look thing?



Haha Emil what do you find interesting then haha?
I find men most interesting women are more deviative not so reliable sometimes a bit like a car it does not where it is going when the driver's a bit lost haha

If you are going to use the Greek alphabet as a gauge for Litnet males I get the impression that the majority would fall somewhere between iota and omega rather than alpha.

[cacian]

If you are going to use the Greek alphabet as a gauge for Litnet males I get the impression that the majority would fall somewhere between iota and omega rather than alpha.

LOL I see oh well that was a waste of time then.

[LitNetIsGreat]

I must say that I am pretty surprised at the reaction from the female posters on the whole alpha thing. Firstly, with the reaction to the word itself and secondly questioning if such a type of person even exists!! No wonder you ladies end up falling for rotters and cads half the time!

[Darcy88]

Have I ever stated otherwise? Unless Gahndi was a warlord, I am not sure where you are going with this.



Have your forgotten that the only reason you have a computer, and the internet, and are not illiterate has a lot to do with all the wars of Europe's past. Look at India and Africa, the average European has all the advantages over the average Indian or African not because our nations were smarter but because our nations were stronger. Yes war is ugly, but that ugliness and the deaths of thousands before us is the only reason you

1)have the technology and education to post on this board
2) have the right of free speech to say what you think
3) (if you are a woman) Have any rights at all (Nazis took away all political rights from women)


In Italy after the end of the war, everything to do with Fascism and Mussolini was seen as wrong and having nothing to do with Italy. The prevalent thought became that the war was fascisms war not Italy's. In Kefallonia 5000 Italians were executed by the Germans because, rather than acting like the cowards we Italians are, they choose to do their duty and serve their country. The bravery and sacrifice of these men is better know in America than Italy. In fact up until recently, the Italian government would not even acknowledge that these men were executed by the germans. Why does my nation choose to abandon the only men who did their duty and showed courage? Because we lost the war, so everything to do with the war was evil, the loyalty and bravery of these men was not loyalty and bravery because we lost the war. And it is for reasons like these that I detest my country at times, because zealotry is zealotry. Acknowledge that war is vile, yes - abandon the boys (because wars are fought by boys not men) and pretend that they never existed and that their death had nothing to do with their country, it is base. Yes war is vile, so vile that in europe and America poverty is linked to obesity while in the rest of the world it is linked to starvation - Are we not lucky we had all those wars.

You sound like the grandson of a very wealthy businesses who states that work is demeaning, completely ignoring that the wealth he has which allows him not to work was made by his poor grandfather who worked all his life.

Acknowledge that war is vile, yes. Ignore the bravery of ones countrymen who did their duty and showed courage, that is even viler. Ignore that fact that we all enjoy wealthy lives because of the wars we vilify, that is just stupid.



Have I ever stated that I ignore the masses when it comes to history? You are inventing things at this point. Besides you seem to imply that the upper echelons of society were something utterly distinct from the masses, how old are you? That is like the thought of a teenage which has yet to see the world. When I look at the genealogical tree of my family one fifth of the men died in war. Do you think war is something which involved the lords siting back whilst they sent the peasants to die? In wwI the lie tenants had almost double the mortality rate that the privates.



Did you seriously just demonify education?



Look I don't like arguing with you very much, because it feels like an argument I had with an ex-girl friend of mine long ago. Were when she asked me what I thought of her friends, I said they were all nice and mentioned that one of them was very pretty, and from that she accused me of plotting to **** all her friends and betray her. At the time Failed to see the logical gap between "Claudia is very pretty" and "I will **** all of your friends", just as now I fail to see the logical gap between what I said before and what you think I said before.


Also I am not saying all or even most women makes these huge leaps devoid sense; just the crazy bat**** ones.

Excellent post Alex. I must say that I fully agree with all that you say here when it comes to war and the heroism and ugly truth of it.

[stlukesguild]

BabyGuile-

This is an exercise in stereotpying.

Maybe we should have gender apartheid on this section of the forum then all the boys can use themselves to stroke their own egos like they usually do.

Does anyone else see the irony here?

Didactical value? I'm asking you to prove to me that alpha males exist. Nobody would die for Colin Firth. Also it's utterly laughable that you used Odysseus as an example. What frame of mind where you in when you read about Odysseus from Dante and Homer? For example did you read The Odyssey because you had finished Lord of the Rings and wanted a good sword and sorcery tale to see you off to bed? If you want to know what the true function of Greek mythology was, and what the didactical motives of tales of Odysseus, Medea, Agamemnon, Heracles etc. were then read Women in Athenian Law and Life by Roger Just.

A sophomore in the women's studies program, are we? Good luck with that.

Yeah, no stereotyping going on against men in this post.

And I think this is all quite weird for a guy to say. Maybe you're an ultra-feminist?

You think?

[Babyguile]

A sophomore in the women's studies program, are we? Good luck with that.

I'm not a women's studies student but I don't have anything against them particularly.

[tonywalt]

I'm not a women's studies student but I don't have anything against them particularly.

I'd like to study women more.

[Alexander III]

I'd like to study women more.

[KCurtis]

Aren't intellectuals, like Orwell and Hitchens, the ultimate alphas? Tell me if I am mistaken, but unless you are really into athletics or womanizing, it seems the ultimate expressions of one's alpha male dominance are in the realm of the mind, in debate.

The brain is the ultimate weapon, the most powerful feature of modern man. Women see a guy with a good head on his shoulders and this turns them on, on a surface and on an instinctual level.

To me its all about instincts. Charm is mostly cerebral. The best way to impress a woman is to charm her. Dancing is good too but I find there are a lot of women who are too self-conscious to dance and will only do so if they are drunk.

Which brings me to something I should express my annoyance at. The oversexualization of dance. Dance is not just a sex thing, its a fun thing. I go dance in a bar and I have these bleach-blonde tanning-bed-addicted Oompa Lumpas getting all over me when I really just want to dance. What is with that? Such things are supposed to be done in a bedroom or the backseat of a car, not on a dance floor in front of complete strangers.

I need a time machine. 12th century Ireland is where I belong. Any time God, any time......

No, you don't need to be in 12th century Ireland-we just need more men like you. A charming and smart man is what women love. You are wise beyond your years, but I have told you this already. And you are right about dancing- I'll take 1920's dancing any day.