Are Winston and Julia really in love or are they just satisfying each other's human needs? In some moments it seems as if Julia is just using Winston to rebel against the party, but in others, when they're in the rented room above Mr. Charrington's shop they have genuine moments and talk to each other about deeper things than just sex. During some of the time when Winston is opening up to Julia with his thoughts and feelings she becomes bored and sleeps, this is why sometimes I think he actually likes her more than she likes him and their relationship is more or less one way. On the other hand if she was bored all the time why would she still keep coming back to him?