It has always occurred to me that pleasure driven from giving,is acutually the pleasure that i am seeking, and not its counterpart,that of taking .I do not mean this in a religious or idealistic manner or in a denial of pleasures of the flesh,but i mean it in practicality.The question is ;is this kind of overwhelming pleasure -that is sometimes being reached by an abrupt ,unconscious and uncontrollable urge- just my own disposition? or is it a more general trait,if we come to include the rest of human beings?.Why is this important to me to know? .It is important ,as i think it will help me know more about myself. your feedbacks ?