Well I am only speculating overhall because the idea that one is not without the other is what upsets the balance with me.
Heaven is linked to hell and vice versa hence me rejecting the idea that all is well and not so well either.
There is no hell and there is no heaven as such.
What there is is something totally different. A different world a perfect world I don't know.
Heaven it seems is like giving presents to people at Christmas and hell is the opposite taking nice things away from them.
I don't want a present if it means it has been taken away from someone else's.
In other words a person who can give something nice, ie a present to someone, then in the same breath does the complete opposite with someone else, ie not give a present or not be nice, is my allegory to heaven and hell and so that is why I reject it.
You are either nice all around or you are not and that is the point.
Religion and god is not about I give you this and then I also do a nasty thing to someone else by putting them in hell. This does not add up to me.