
Originally Posted by
Paulclem
Posing swearing is a nuisance, but pain relief swearing is a necessity.
Swearing can become habitual, but as St Lukes points out, there's an auto switch which unconsciously kicks in in different situations.
With the ederly relatives - no swearing.
With the adult learners in class - no swearing.
With my wife - a muted level of swearing. We both swear, but not gratuitously.
Interestingly, in my office with the other managers I work with, the level of swearing is very gradually creeping up. We are all on the same level, and freely admit to swearing in certain situations. This has only come about when our two bosses relocated to another office. Neither of them swear.
Another interesting one is an increasing level of swearing with our children. They are both grown now, (we didn't swear in front of them or encourage them to swear when they were at school), but it has taken a few years for them to be comfortable using swearwords around my wife and I. We've made it clear, by our example that we don't mind, though no-one uses it in a gratuitous fashion, but rather to describe what someone said verbatim, or to add a suitable comic emphasis. This is nice, as we all feel comfortable with it.
My brother's wife is strictly no swearing around their young daughter, which my brother readily agrees with, but he sometimes slips up. On one memorable occaision, (which I have related here on another thread, so apologies if you've read this), he had a dispute with another driver on the forecourt of a garage. His daughter was in the car at the time. The long and short of it was that he ended up swearing vociferously at this other bloke and calling him a flat nosed n*b-head, amongt other things. (That's currently my favourite comedy term of abuse). Time passed, and another occaision arose where he swore at another driver as they were in the car. My brother said - "don't tell your mother I said that". Whereupon my niece said:
"Don't worry Daddy, I didn't tell her when you called that man at the garage a flat-nosed n*b-head either.
That reminds me of another story a female coleague told me. She said she realised that she had got into bad swearing habits whilst driving when her very young granddaughter, after a near miss one day, said from the back seat;
"He's a t**t isn't he Gran".
You have to laugh.
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