Yes but during the discussions it turned out to be sth else .
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhWould any believer like to deal with the "eternal" part of heaven? How you see that eternity working out? It's a hell of a long time.
It's really boring . I don't know what will be there to make us handle living for eternity . For sure I fear hell and I don't want to be there but I never longed for eternity in heaven . If I could choose I would come back again and have another life . The earth is so beautiful too and what is mentionned in the Qura'n about heaven : its physical reality has many resemblances with what we have on earth , for instance rivers , trees , fruits and so on .
So , the Atheist , u won't miss anything there .
The only thing that makes me think of it is the fact that I can meet whom i love there . I'm making " rendez -vous there " . really I'm not kidding .
And since here I don't get bored being with them and time passes very quickly when we are together . I think this very thing would make eternity endurable and we won't feel it that long .
Actually we are told that we will be for ever youth there . That means we won't be affected by the passage of time and we don't know what would be the time there . We cannot make an analogy between our conditions here and our conditions there.
Moreover God will purify our hearts from envy and hatred . Our hearts would be only full of love so you will be happy being with your ex-wife and do not complain about it .
In what concerns the murderer being with his victim in heaven . You should know that unless the victim " forgives " his murderer , the latter won't get the mercy of God .LooK how God is just .
From the discusions I noticed that there are differences concerning this issue . One thing I want to add being essential to the conception of heaven
for Muslims at least is that " in heaven we could see God ".
." This is what they long for and what they pray for . In their consciousness it is related to this possibilty .It is a great motive for human beings . Immagine that u could see the Lord !