I want to change my paradigms and my life. I'm beginning to hate my paradigms about love. Im in the "I wanna be a player and be a don juan and get many chicks and sex" phase. I want to change my paradigm. I want a book that teaches me about true love. A book that changes my perspective, I want to have meaningful relationships, I don't want to live a superficial life, I want to change! I want a book that enlightens me. For example, I remember I used to be like "Why should I live my life for others? One should only live for himself!" but after I read the biographies of great men of history I changed my paradigm. I want to have a different paradigm about love and the value of having real relationships, a book that convinces me! What book can you recommend me?