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Thread: Are you Submissive or Dominant

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    Are you Submissive or Dominant

    Submissive, Dominant, both, neither?

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    Neither - for instance, when it comes to anything, generally I am fiercely independent, and like to have my opinion voiced over others. However, when it comes to relationships, I think I've come to the conclusion that things a) run far smoother, and with less effort and b) turn out far better if I just let whomever I am seeing make most of the decisions - unless of course you are talking about sex, in which case, I'm not into all them whips and junk (and I don't think I could take people who actually are that seriously) though I do work hard to please.

    What is dominion then? Well, I certainly am not the domineering type, yet I am also not the type to sit and get bossed or bullied - I think, like most people, I simply don't care about most things, and, I think like most Canadians in particularly, have very little interest for power or control - I think I'm a pretty content fellow, in that regard, in the sense that I don't particularly need much more, beyond a few simple things to be happy, and I don't have much problem with control.

    Of course though, I doubt anyone will put submissive down - the sexual stereotypes one thinks are want to make one embarrassed.

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    Lol, in truth I didn't think about the two ways, I ment in life in general. Sexualy I can be submissive but I tend to play dominant... In life I am dominant... I guess I should have thought about that...

    JBI I am sure its not that much work for you to please.
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    what a



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    I seem to be dominant in point of fact by nature. I know when someone dominates me it pains me. I am rather argumentative. I do not take things easily. I have no sense of humor.

    I am rather serious in nature and take even petty things with an air of seriousness in point of fact.

    One cannot be submissive or serious at the same time. Given my overall nature I should confess that I am dominant.

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    I'd rather keep a balance. I don't like people telling me what to do, say, let alone what to think, and that's why I don't like telling it either. I can accept advices though, and I can even follow them, but only when I agree and when I am asked politely. I go with good manners and freedom, all the time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by limajean View Post
    what a



    question
    is that a load of crap?
    I'm losing all those stupid games
    That I swore I'd never play

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    I was about to ask jean for the meaning, too (I'm rather slow today for pic language )

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    Lima, Max, Lima.


    THEY ARE SAUCES OBVIOUSLY GUYS.

    Like, what a saucy thread. Come on, keep up

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    Quote Originally Posted by limajean View Post
    Lima, Max, Lima.
    Sorry, I won't do it again. Promise and swear!

    Quote Originally Posted by limajean View Post
    THEY ARE SAUCES OBVIOUSLY GUYS.

    Like, what a saucy thread. Come on, keep up
    Yup, got it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by limajean View Post
    Lima, Max, Lima.


    THEY ARE SAUCES OBVIOUSLY GUYS.

    Like, what a saucy thread. Come on, keep up
    That's funny. I thought you meant a "loaded question"
    I'm weary with right-angles, abbreviated daylight,
    Waiting for a winter to be done.
    Why do I still see you in every mirrored window,
    In all that I could never overcome?

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    Quote Originally Posted by *Classic*Charm* View Post
    That's funny. I thought you meant a "loaded question"
    Nope, lima's subtlety goes beyond the jar

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    haha @ lima! (good one) I thought of everything but sauce... like "what a jarry question", um no, that makes no sense.. or what a condiment question... nope no sense again.. and so on hahahaha

    For my answer to the question: I put a mix. I think generally in life I am pretty dominant and in most relationships. But sexually I would say 80% of the time I like to be submissive. or maybe 70%... ok, that's hard to judge.

    But I do like others to make decisions as well because I am generally indecisive... so yeah, I am both.
    "All gods are homemade, and it is we who pull their strings, and so, give them the power to pull ours." -Aldous Huxley

    "Sooner murder an infant in its cradle than nurse unacted desires." -William Blake

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    I'm 80% submissive..20% dominant...and I'm a guy...should I be embarrassed?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PoeticPassions View Post
    ... But sexually I would say 80% of the time I like to be submissive. or maybe 70%... ok, that's hard to judge.
    Uh, huh! So you want your guy to handle the hard work for you so you can comfortably enjoy a vacation, uh? Where's the team spirit? How naughty of you!

    Quote Originally Posted by dodong View Post
    I'm 80% submissive..20% dominant...and I'm a guy...should I be embarrassed?
    Of course you should! Shame on you! So you want your girl to handle the hard work for you so you can comfortably enjoy a vacation, uh? Where's the team spirit? How naughty of you!

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