The Atheist,
Did you read any of the verses I placed. They are from the Quran too.
Where is you're comment on them?
But anyway,and despite I know you will ignore the following verses too but I will discuss the matter with you. Allah as I have said before is Justice. Justice is one of His names. For everything He has a cause. If you tell your son not to make friends with someone there is a reason. But first of all you have to tell him that not all people are alike. This is exactly what God said. He said some Jews, and Christians, as well as some Muslims are not good. Don't therefore make friends with those who are not good. Then He clarifies that not all of them are alike saying these beautiful verses:
Not all of them are alike: Of the People of the Book are a portion that stand (For the right): They rehearse the Signs of Allah all night long, and they prostrate themselves in adoration.They believe in Allah and the Last Day; they enjoin what is right, and forbid what is wrong; and they hasten (in emulation) in (all) good works: They are in the ranks of the righteous. Of the good that they do, nothing will be rejected of them; for Allah knoweth well those that do right. 3:113-115
Then Allah elaborates to explain to us why wouldn't we be friends with those who are not good from them. The reason is simple. It is just because they do not like us while we like them and love them as you were pointing to. THe fact is we love them, sorrowfully they don't as clarified here:
Lo! ye are those who love them though they love you not, and ye believe in all the Scripture. When they fall in with you they say: We believe; but when they go apart they bite their finger-tips at you, for rage. Say: Perish in your rage! Lo! Allah is Aware of what is hidden in (your) breasts. 3-119
THen Dear Allah sums the matter up for people. and very simply tells humanity who does he forbid dealing with and whod does He not.
Allah forbids you not, with regard to those who fight you not for (your) Faith nor drive you out of your homes, from dealing kindly and justly with them: for Allah loveth those
who are just 60:8
I really hope this is clear enough. The Quran is not a book of generalizations. It is a book that explains everything to everyone. Finally, there are verses that are very difficult upon Muslims themselves, if they do wrongly. The destiny of wrong doers whether from the Muslims or elsewhere, is the same. Allah's rules are one, they never change. But his mercy embraces everyone. I really hope His mercy reaches us all of.
I know you are one of the good doers. I know you care for other Human Beings, and I think Allah put this mercy in your heart to serve Him with caring for the poor and needy here in this world. It is just that one is sometimes unaware that he is serving right in this world, while this is why we were created.