That question has had its share of theological consideration through the years also, though I am far from informed enough, or presumptuous enough, to try to summarize it. There are answers on both sides which vary according to denomination, is I think the best way to put it.
Yours is one mainline view, which I certainly respect. There are others more aloof.
But please allow me to ask whether that is your own belief, or whether you are an atheist explaining to Christians how they ought to believe and behave. There is a considerable amount of that sort of advice that also arises in discussions such as these.
I take my tolerance as Paul's admonition from the Bible, 1Cor13:1-13 I believe it is, the paean to love.