I don't think my family has a tradtional feast. This year was excellent so far (it is 6:20 AM
on Christmas morning right now). I will describe the several "feasts" which I have attended so far (warning: my famly is big!).
My family, that is my bro, two sisters and both parents, firs went to my grandma's house (on my mother's side) for lunch on Dec. 23. Chili as the main dish. It was ccompanied by all sorts of "snack" foods (we feast buffet style). There were tons of deviled (sp?) eggs, dill pickles wrapped in ham with cream cheese, those little sausages wrapped in cheese and crescent rolls, and last but not least we ate butter pecan ice cream.
Later that day (the 23rd), we went to my parents' friend's house, were we ate BBQ chiken sandwiches, shrimp, cookies, and several other "snack" foods. We also drank apple martinis (or something to that extent, they didn't have any alcohol).
Even later that day (still the 23rd), we went to another Christmas party at another friend's house. There, we ate anything and everything, including chips and dip (good dip, mind you, there was a taco dip and a chicken wing dip), sweet potato pie, some sort of cheesecake, and several other "snack" foods (true Americans never get tired of snacking ).
Yesterday (the 24th), we went to celebrate Christmas with my fathers side of the family. First, we went to eat lunch at my Uncle's and Aunt's house, where we ate lasagna (several dishes of lasagna, each made differently with sausage and/or hamburger), salad, shrimp (this seems to be common for special occasions), and garlic bread. This was the first actual meal we ate for Christmas. No snacks here.
Then we went to our other Uncle's and Aunt's house, were we ate mac and cheese, lasagna, garlic knots, mini eclairs, shrimp, chips and dip, egg rolls, etc., etc. Needless to say, there were more snacks than I could count.
That includes everything until now, Christmas morning. Today, we are due again at my grandma's house (on my mom's side of the family), where we will eat again. Tomorrow, my grandmother (on my biological father's side of the family; don't ask), will be taking my family to a new Chinese buffet. I can't wait!
In summary, we usually don't have any traditional meals. Just good ol'-fashioned American snacking at its finest!