I would like to start with a personal story: just two days ago, a girl that I am very much interested in left for college. I'm still in high school. I tried to convince myself that I never approached her (even though I think she had a little interest in me, too) because it would be selfish to tether her to me (a younger, not so attractive guy). But what it really comes down to is that I was too cowardly to take action. However, this whole episode got me thinking about the nature of romantic love. I find the current pop-culture inflamed concept of the "soul mate" or "one and only" to be ridiculous (I am not saying I am against monogamy). I think that every person is attracted to people with certain traits, and the better someone embodies the characteristics that you find attractive, the more you feel that you could be with them. To put it bluntly, I believe that some people are simply "higher caliber" than others. This is not to say that they are worth more, only that they are embodying virtues more successfully. Disagreements?