In order to avoid any confusion, I know the following aren’t the only possibilities but please limit yourself to one of them if you respond. When I say ‘matters most’ I mean which is most important for our individual survival.
a. What other people really think of me;
b. What I think other people think of me;
c. What I think of myself;
d. Who I really am?
Yes, I have already thought about it and have opinions but so will you have if you decide to respond. I expect some uncertainty over what is meant by d. so you’ll have to explain what it means yourself if that’s your choice.